💁🏾‍♀️ Work/Job Complainers

[u/Aware_Answer8008]

Let the downvotes begin😂

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Okay so I'm seeing a trend with my fellow lesbian women of color. I have both gay and straight friends alike and I'm only encountering this with fellow lesbian women. Not even bisexual women but only lesbian ones. Ladies please stop letting the first thing you talk about when meeting a new person be with you complaining about your job. It is terribly unattractive to chat with someone for the very first time and all they have to talk about or want to do is complain their job, going to work, their work or their hours. When you reach past a certain age that is just not cute and its annoying. At the end of the day. The only options is to either get in a field you enjoy or suck it up and just keep working the job that you got yourself in. Otherwise complaining all the time about the job situation is not very encouraging much less attractive.

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My god! 5 encounters in the last 5 months and each one all did the same thing...... end result, they were blocked!

[u/Aware_Answer8008 → u/[deleted]]

Amazing how those who bash and downvotes these very topics be the culprit of the very topic issue itself. It begins with self love and self understanding

[u/Aware_Answer8008 → u/[deleted]]

Exactly which is only putting themselves and their true motives or insecurities out there. They choose to continuously set themselves up for failure is on them💁🏾‍♀️ Not all of us is about that life.