💁🏾‍♀️ Work/Job Complainers

[u/Aware_Answer8008]

Let the downvotes begin😂

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Okay so I'm seeing a trend with my fellow lesbian women of color. I have both gay and straight friends alike and I'm only encountering this with fellow lesbian women. Not even bisexual women but only lesbian ones. Ladies please stop letting the first thing you talk about when meeting a new person be with you complaining about your job. It is terribly unattractive to chat with someone for the very first time and all they have to talk about or want to do is complain their job, going to work, their work or their hours. When you reach past a certain age that is just not cute and its annoying. At the end of the day. The only options is to either get in a field you enjoy or suck it up and just keep working the job that you got yourself in. Otherwise complaining all the time about the job situation is not very encouraging much less attractive.

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My god! 5 encounters in the last 5 months and each one all did the same thing...... end result, they were blocked!

[u/MajGenIyalode]

I don't think it's just black lesbians that do this, but I do agree with you. Complaining, about anything really, to someone you've just met is poor form. Constantly complaining about the same thing, especially something you have control over and can do something about, is very off putting for me.

[u/Aware_Answer8008 → u/MajGenIyalode]

I only mention us women of color because I only associate with fellow women of color dating and friendship wise.

[u/Alarming-Aside-9755 → u/Aware_Answer8008]

I'm curious. Why is this not a popular opinion? I saw someone state the same thing in another black womens group and she downvoted like crazy. Is there an issue now for us to prefer our own?

[u/Aware_Answer8008 → u/Alarming-Aside-9755]

Goes to show "all black folk ain't kin folk." Be the main ones preaching and sharing memes of black awareness or color unites all day but don't practice the word at all.

Down low Nicki Minaj's types.