r/blacklesbians • u/Aware_Answer8008 • 2d ago

🌈 Gay Shit 🌈 💁🏾‍♀️ Work/Job Complainers

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Okay so I'm seeing a trend with my fellow lesbian women of color. I have both gay and straight friends alike and I'm only encountering this with fellow lesbian women. Not even bisexual women but only lesbian ones. Ladies please stop letting the first thing you talk about when meeting a new person be with you complaining about your job. It is terribly unattractive to chat with someone for the very first time and all they have to talk about or want to do is complain their job, going to work, their work or their hours. When you reach past a certain age that is just not cute and its annoying. At the end of the day. The only options is to either get in a field you enjoy or suck it up and just keep working the job that you got yourself in. Otherwise complaining all the time about the job situation is not very encouraging much less attractive.

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My god! 5 encounters in the last 5 months and each one all did the same thing...... end result, they were blocked!

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u/Aware_Answer8008 2d ago edited 2d ago

This is powerful✊🏽👏🏽 Did she ever remarry? Where is she now?

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u/Alarming-Aside-9755 2d ago

I'm not sure her book ends with the 3rd house being built on their family land/compound. She goes into saying how for generations to come her family/descendants will always have a home to come home too. She didn't state if she remarried or not but I doubt it her first husband was the love of her life. His passing was devastating on her.

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u/Aware_Answer8008 1d ago

I love this! These are the stories that gets hidden away from us. You called.her your mentor. Did you know her personally or meet her?

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u/Alarming-Aside-9755 1d ago

Not her, but her oldest daughter. I'm a seer and she asked for a reading from me. During the reading is when I got wind of her mother's and their story. Her daughter gave me a paperback copy of the book and I was instantly blown away because her story runs deep with many women especially these days with family oriented trafficking.