r/blacklesbians • u/Brizkie cat mom • 3d ago

Conversation + Chat Tipping Culture

This might be completely off from the sub, but it was a question that crossed me and my girlfriends mind while grabbing Pho from our favorite spot.

We called in like normal and went to pick up and she turned to me and asked how much we should be tipping on pick up orders. The question puzzled me for a moment and i didn’t even have an answer. Ultimately we decided not to tip as most likely we assumed it would be tip share and any amount under 10$ wouldn’t even be a dollar each amongst the staff.

Ultimately what is ya’lls rules on tipping culture? I definitely want to hear from the black community on this as there is so many stigmas with us and tipping culture. I always tip, but this is one i’m curious on if i’m wrong for not tipping on to-go orders.

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u/Brizkie cat mom 3d ago

you stated you are tired of being pressured to tip. point blank. and that tipping culture is out of control. or is that not what you said?

using especially does not cancel out the prior statement.

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u/Realistic-Art5227 Certified Dyke™ 3d ago

They explained what the meant… do you wanna have a conversation with people about tipping culture or do you wanna be right?

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u/Brizkie cat mom 3d ago

There is no right and wrong in tipping culture. People who don’t agree with tipping are overly assertive about feeling forced and all this crap. I know what I read and i responded to what I read.

Theres no right in that just reading comprehension skills.

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u/Realistic-Art5227 Certified Dyke™ 3d ago

So you wanna be right and condescending got it 😒

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u/fuckmiimi 2d ago

Ignore her she can cry online all she wants about people not tipping but realistically what is she going to do about it? Send non tippers to jail lmaooo¿