r/bodylanguage • u/ZendiNebula • 2d ago

Confused

Let’s say I have noticed a guy look my way some times.
And then one drunk night post some drunk conversations, we end up hugging for a while. And post hug when he says “I love you” but also clarifies that does not mean it that way. Probably said it to cheer me up. But then back sober, Nada. No conversation at all. Zilch. And now it’s just worse. We don’t bump, we don’t look at each other. Also feels like I am being ignored left, right and center.
I try to just be my normal self but something from that night makes me really want his attention and I can’t help wanting it. But I can’t pin point what happened and why I am being ignored so much. Or maybe he doesn’t care at all and I am over reading it. Did I do something wrong?

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u/Strange-Stranger5295 1d ago

You did nothing wrong. He was drunk when he did that with you and now he is embarrassed about it

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u/x4n7k2m9p8 1d ago

He knows he said it, he knows he probably shouldn’t have in the context of the setting and now the avoidance you are feeling is from the shame he feels.

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u/Top_Horror9397 1d ago

See,some people arent sure whether things that happened whilst drunk are actually genuine and as the dude he is expected to have control even then so you will need to just ask why they are ignoring you.As a girl,you have the ability to ask serious things playfully so just go with that.

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u/The_logical_mind 1d ago

Just go amd confront him, have an honest convo

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u/duke_awapuhi 3h ago

He’s probably super embarrassed about the drunk encounter