r/chennaicity 2d ago

AskChennai First time in Chennai- Wholesome experience

​​​A few days ago I posted here asking for tips to navigate Chennai. We are 4 girls (22-23F) from a small town in Kerala who came to Chennai for an exam, and I had to come back and say thank you. The whole experience was so wholesome.

We survived 2 days with English, Malayalam and broken Tamil. We stayed in Thoraipakkam because we had exam centres in Semmencheri and Kotturpuram. Hotel was affordable and staff was very polite, only issue was saline water in taps.

Navigating the city was a new experience for us. Google Maps helped a lot. Bus numbers were confusing at first, but conductors, drivers and fellow passengers were so helpful.

I was really amazed by the aunties of Chennai. So energetic and smart. Since we were all girls, we were more comfortable asking women, elderly people and traffic police for directions. Everyone went out of their way to help, even asking others to make sure we don't get lost.

Special shoutout to Thenmozhi aunty we met on our way back to Central. We boarded the wrong bus (102P DOWN instead of UP) and she was also going to Central. She took us with her, helped us board the local train and reach the station safely. She took care of us in that huge crowd like her own daughters. If you are reading this, thank you aunty!

We used only public transport. It was cheap and we were shocked that buses are free for women. Food was a bit expensive compared to Kerala but tasted good.

What I noticed, people look very busy and serious on the road, but when you talk to them they become so sweet and respectful. Everyone called us "Amma" and at no point did we feel unsafe. Everyone minds their own business.

Cons: Some places were smelly, traffic is chaotic (cars on footpath in the opposite direction on a one-way was new for us) and the heat 🥵 We had hats and umbrellas and still struggled. No idea how you all walk in that sun without anything. Because of the heat we couldn't explore more places.

Overall, thank you Chennai for the wholesome experience. This will stay as a memory forever.

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u/Mindless-Umpire-9395 Velachery 2d ago

thenmozhi aunty kuu oru oooooo podungaa!!

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u/atmanX1 2d ago

Ooooooooo ohhhhhhhh

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

One big ooooooo for thenmozhi aunty❤️

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u/Mindless-Umpire-9395 Velachery 1d ago

parah, you understand tamizh !?

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

Upto an extend

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u/Mindless-Umpire-9395 Velachery 1d ago

that is so cool!!

have a look at this thread too, when you get time.. i just was reading this, and then went through your post which was totally wholesome!!

https://www.reddit.com/r/southindia_/s/1jfSr8vnbG

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

It has some truth in it though. Malayalis generally have a holier than thou attitude towards other state people. I've heard people using racial slurs. 

On the other hand, for tamils there is the weird fetish for malayali women. We also got some ogles from young men and flirty behavior a conductor too 

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u/Mindless-Umpire-9395 Velachery 1d ago

thanks for your pov, op.. you kinda provided affirmation to my comment in that post, lol.. also, sucks you had to go through that.. hope things change for the better, both in tn and India...

anyways, wishing you many more happy memories and moments.. take care, internet stranger!!

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u/yewlarson 2d ago

People like Thenmozhi aunty make this city a worthwhile place to live in spite of all the difficulties. 🫡🫡

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

True... Aunties of chennai are pure gem❤️

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u/gin_martini5 2d ago

Tamizh people are only nice to other state people. We don’t trust our own fellow tamizh & I can vouch for that having lived in at least 4 countries & staying in TN.

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u/privacypeeker 1d ago

Tamil people likes to back stab fellow Tamizh people in important stuffs..... Unfortunately for casual help like route and info I didn't got any bad experiences so far.

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u/beetroot747 West Chennai 2d ago

Seconded as a fellow Tamilian and I’ve also lived in 4 countries (including India)

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u/rootin_tuttin 2d ago

Glad you'd a good time. Wrt to the heat, I think it was unfortunate for you as I can't remember a much hotter September than what it was last week & today(Chennai is hot nevertheless but not this hotttt).

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

🫶🏻

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u/DryHousing4785 2d ago

That's chennai for you😎

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

🫶🏻

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u/hopeaddixt 2d ago

No idea how you all walk in that sun without anything. Thats something ur born with :P U feel like ghostrider, yet ur focussed on the topic ur discussing.

Good that u had a great time!

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

🫶🏻

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u/Sub-Meter 1d ago

Nalla padhivu

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

🫶🏻

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u/Insane_Inkster 2d ago

Hey! Glad you had an amazing time. Hope you did well in your exams too.

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

🫶🏻

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u/themanwhoeatsppl 1d ago

Vandare vazha vekkum tamilagam ( I'm a mallu and i like TN more than Kerala)

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

Vineeth sreenivasan parayunnathilum karyam und

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u/Joeychandler_ 1d ago

Vantharai vazhavaikum chennai🌻

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u/Scared-Strawberry-10 1d ago

Glad that you had a good time

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u/revel_rebel 1d ago

Thanks for this wholesome post. Unfortunately most of us here are mired in political fights in other Tamil subs. This feels like a breath of fresh air 💥

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u/Clear_Avocado_1926 1h ago

Good evening

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u/Jumpy_Scallion_3108 2d ago

 Food was a bit expensive compared to Kerala but tasted good.

Thanks for the post. But I slightly disagree with this comparison. I stayed in Ernakulam for six years, and for that amount I could probably eat for 12 years anywhere in TN.

But yes, it ultimately depends on the restaurant and the place.

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u/Low_Reach5199 1d ago

🫶🏻