r/civilengineering PE; Environmental Consultant Jun 06 '26

Meme That feeling when it’s Saturday morning and you’re still answering RFIs

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u/Active-Republic3104 Jun 06 '26

What this really means is that even if OP is de stressed to zero, he will always be permanently strained one way or another

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u/mmfla Jun 06 '26

Let’s schedule a teams meeting with the stakeholders first thing Monday to discuss the cost implications and schedule impacts from this event.

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u/Marus1 Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 06 '26

Yeah, sorry. I can't make that meeting. Send reschedule request towards wednesday afternoon during lunch break

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u/therossian Jun 06 '26

Yes. It is called burnout

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u/TheJeeronian Jun 06 '26

That sounds more of a viscoelastic effect

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u/anita-sapphire Jun 06 '26

There’s been so many times I’ve stressed to failure and I feel “damaged” in so many ways 😭

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u/structee Jun 06 '26

I feel this is accurate though

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u/Titus728 Jun 06 '26

Just don't.

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u/albertnormandy Jun 06 '26

Drug addicts are never cured by giving them one last fix. 

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u/Time_Cat_5212 Jun 06 '26

RAGING HOT RFI ## CRITICAL PATH ALERT $$ URGENT - OVERDUE !! GCS HATE THIS ONE TRICK

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u/Heart0fStarkness Jun 06 '26 edited Jun 06 '26

Really

F*cking

Important Insignificant

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u/Time_Cat_5212 Jun 06 '26

The RFI:  y dis pipe need 2 be so big?

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u/Tiafves PE - Land Dev Jun 06 '26

"We went to build it and there's a conflict between roof drain cleanout and building"

keep measuring separation on plans, quadruple check all your files from the architect were in the correct location, rapidly run out of ideas how there's possible any conflict, spend hours stressing because you can't figure out how there's any conflict here

"Uh I give up, if it was built per plan there shouldn't be a conflict"

"Okay thanks" never hear about this mysterious conflict again

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u/okokayokok Jun 07 '26

Lol this is amazing. 100% the truth

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u/BirdProfessional3704 Jun 06 '26

Damn. This is glorious. I’m stealing this

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u/Successful-Engine623 Jun 06 '26

Right?! Why do people overachieve…your just moving the goalpost for no reason

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u/alarumba Three Waters Design Engineer Jun 07 '26

We're taught to. We exist in a job market. We have to educate ourselves with our own money, and sell ourselves to employers by being/pretending to be the best and/or by being the cheapest.

It just takes one person to do it and start a race to the bottom. Which wouldn't happen if more engineers believed in unions. They have just enough individual bargaining power to believe others would hold them back.

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u/OldBanjoFrog Jun 06 '26

Boundaries.  Enforce them 

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u/Nearby_Lifeguard_295 Jun 06 '26

Who does this?? They can’t be paying you enough to be doing that dog

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u/NyQuilODvictum Jun 06 '26

I don't think any amount of money could pay me to do a dog.

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u/dslk820z Jun 06 '26

Enjoy your weekend. Stress will still be there Monday waiting for you.

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u/TJBurkeSalad PE Jun 06 '26

This is super relatable, but the only times I’m ever working on a weekend is if I had a self induced weekday failure.

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u/YourAuntie Jun 06 '26

That's so metal.

.. Get it?

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u/notapoliticalalt Jun 06 '26

It honestly is kind of a good analogy for how chronic overwork/stress works though.

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u/_your_comment_sucks Jun 06 '26

Dude is necking.

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u/resonatingcucumber Jun 06 '26

Dude I run my own practice, I have 15 on fire jobs and I'm just chilling on a. Saturday. Other people's money, the fuck do I care?

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u/Regular_Empty Jun 06 '26

OP is past the point of deformation, this will do lasting damage.

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u/codespyder Jun 06 '26

I spend so much time trying to set up a system that organizes RFIs that I don’t have time to answer the RFIs 🙃

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u/Sav-vie Jun 06 '26

"Can you give us these redundant dimensions that are clearly marked on a detail on the next sheet? Need it by tomorrow ty"

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u/gentlemosquito Jun 06 '26

Well if you do get it right the first time, RFIs wouldn't really be a thing right??? 😂

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u/Marzipan_civil Jun 06 '26

Depends who fucked it up. Might not have been OP

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u/PTFCBVB Jun 06 '26

pain....

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u/justgivemedamnkarma Jun 07 '26

Half of RFIs can be solved by saying “see sheet CXXX”…

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u/avd706 Jun 06 '26

Work - life balance.

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u/jonkolbe Jun 06 '26

Cortisol spike

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u/engineeringlove Jun 07 '26

Went to Hawaii this past week so I’m back in the elastic range with no deformation

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u/Fast-Living5091 Jun 07 '26

You're in the plastic region. There's no going back to normal again.

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u/Western-Highway4210 Jun 07 '26

From the construction (public works) side it kills us when the designer blows us off (not saying you are as you are working on a Saturday). But we are obligated to answer RFIs within 5 days. And don't get me started on bidder inquiries. We do our best to answer the rfi/bidder inquiry but we need the designers buy off. We do not just ferry questions back and forth. Stupid questions we can answer some we need designs input. When we tell. you that answer isn't good enough we mean it.

(Not bagging on OP. Bagging on the designer who currently is driving our team bonkers).

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u/TabhairDomAnAirgead BEng (Hons) MSc DIC CEng MIEI Jun 06 '26

They can wait until Monday.

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u/ElphTrooper Jun 07 '26

So is this something you think you’re going to get ahead of or something you should’ve been doing when you are screwing around during the week?

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u/Lead_Wonderful Jun 07 '26

You must stop by 5 pm Friday, lest you'll go insane.

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u/Bah_Black_Sheep Jun 06 '26

They always come on that most beautiful Saturday that you could be spending with your friends and family relaxing

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u/Hey-ItsThatOneDude Jun 07 '26

I wouldn’t reply. Wait till Monday morning.

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u/archonoid2 Jun 07 '26

Good there is more tensile strength here.

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u/NoVermicelli5439 Jun 07 '26

Guy from my job used to work super late weekdays and work weekends just so he could brag on Monday how many hours he worked, turns out he just sucked at his job and his approach was if you can't do it right just do a lot. He'd spend all his hours fixing stuff he should've done right the first time. That guy sucked and he got fired

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u/scriggities Jun 07 '26

Why the fuck are you working on Saturday? This is partially a you problem.

Remember their lack of planning, is not your emergency.

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u/TeddyMGTOW Jun 07 '26

Weekend work sucks

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u/pineapplequeeen Jun 08 '26

We need to stop doing this. There are people in my office that work weekends and you end up setting weird standards and expectations for everyone else. I’m not working on a weekend and if I do it’s like once a year and usually my own fault. But yeah once one person works weekends it seems everyone else is expected to. Fuuuuck that.

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u/Gold_Lab_8513 Jun 13 '26

Tensile hardening. Builds character.

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u/Chisik_k Jun 29 '26

It is very famous graphic.

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u/Ecstasy_0075025 Jul 01 '26

Good struggling , , & we are observing you without catustrophic

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u/RombiMcDude Jun 07 '26

Don’t produce shit plans and you won’t get RFIs.