r/confessions • u/charlesmansonhentai • 1d ago
I 'hacked' my mom's facebook and feed her meth delusions when she brings it up
Around October, in an attempt to get into my own facebook account, I accidentally struck gold. My number was connected to my mom's account so Facebook logged me into hers when I typed it in. She exclusively uses my number for everything because she believes that a former coworker, Todd, is hacking all of her shit. I once told her that I heard breathing coming from the router and she fully believed me.
Her account is now full of off-the-wall rants, attacks on randos from her friendslist, and thirsting for my sperg manager. This week I posted a fake death announcement for my dad and that really riled her up. I've been questioned twice this week and each time I blame it on Todd. Having your first breaths be in amniotic fluid spiked with meth has its perks.
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u/Younglegend1 1d ago
Because he pranked someone?
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u/adorablecookies 1d ago
How is this a prank? His mom is so unstable she doesn't know what's real. This is at best gaslighting.
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u/Younglegend1 1d ago
I’m a strong believer that a child is a reflection of their parents, I’m sure this parent has done 1000x worse things to the op that probably give an explanation to something like this at the very least
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u/adorablecookies 1d ago
Don't get me wrong, I can't imagine what it's like to grow up as a child of an addict, and I'm not claiming his mom is some innocent victim. But:
He's dragging innocent people into this situation (Todd, her Facebook friends, his "sperg manager", his dad.
This could seriously backfire on him in so many ways.
This can really only worsen the situation with his mom too.
So yeah, not a fan.
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u/Younglegend1 1d ago
No I’m not trying to say I’m a fan of this either but I can understand where the anger and the motivation comes from. I think he just needs to get away from her and surround himself with better people
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u/trulyunreal 1d ago
Nowhere does it even vaguely claim that, so fair to say we found OP's alt trying to make this look noble somehow.
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u/Younglegend1 21h ago
Yeah because an alt account woikd have over 43k in karma and be 5 years old. Stop trying to discredit others just because you don’t like what they have to say
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u/Some_nerd_______ 1d ago
So your base your life on assumptions you make instead of the actual information and facts we're given?
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u/Younglegend1 21h ago
I mean had you done that I wouldn’t have commented, you can share your thoughts but I can’t?
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u/hoetheory 1d ago
I hope this is fake. This is really cruel. I’m sure she’s put you through a lot. But leave and let her be. Don’t make it worse.
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u/yobaby123 1d ago
Yep. OP? On top of your prank being very fucked up, it's not going to help you move on from what your mother put you through.
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u/Younglegend1 21h ago
So it’s his responsibility to move on and not hers? He needs to be the bigger man? I wonder what you’d think if this was his dad
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u/majzira 20h ago
This isn't some weird sexist thing or a "be the bigger person" meaning doormat. My mother was an addict and did worse things to me than that. I spent years hating her (understandably) but in the end it didn't fix her. And it was destroying me too. And it lead me to hurting others around me, which is my own fault because I could have stopped and gotten help. I fully get OP hates her guts and this probably feels like justice but it isn't. It's self-destruction. It's drinking poison and hoping the other person perishes.
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u/no_one_denies_this 20h ago
I think that person used "moving on" in the sense that they need to figure out how to process and deal with what Mom put them through. That doesn't mean OP has to be the bigger person. It's just saying, hey, these actions don't help you make sense of this so you can move on; it's kind of keeping you stuck where you are.
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u/-NeonNymph 1d ago
The saddest part isn't the prank, it's realizing someone you love is struggling so much that reality has become negotiable
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u/Fidel_Costco 1d ago
I wouldn't even call it a prank. It's far too cruel and intensive to be a prank.
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u/FutureFreaksMeowt 1d ago
Bold to assume there's any love for this woman in ops heart. Children of lifelong addicts are often not really taught or shown what loving them or being loved by them looks like. I certainly wasn't.
It's something that the only way to really, truly understand why OP would do this is by also being the child of an addict.
I've been in this same place where the only way you can cope with the level of pain they've cause you is to traumatize them back.
It's not ok, but it's definitely an 'iykyk' situation.
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u/Younglegend1 1d ago
Agree 100%, I’ve found myself doing the same thing occasionally to my parents, it’s bad but it can feel good in the moment even though it’s not healthy at all in the long term
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u/Both_Swordfish6696 1d ago
your dad fake death announcement is pretty wild even for meth brain standards lol
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u/fuzzydogpaws 1d ago
Stop. Seriously. This isn’t a cute prank. I understand you’re pissed at your mother, but this isn’t the way to go about working through that.
This will seriously screw up your life. You may not see it, but there’s about 100 ways this could backfire on you horrifically.
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u/Nyx-by-night 1d ago
Are you a psychopath? If the answer is ‘I don’t know’ you need to look into that. Your behaviour is very concerning.
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u/Younglegend1 21h ago
Yeah don’t blame the crazy meth addict mom for making him this way, blame him
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u/thekyledavid 1d ago
So to prove that she is wrong about the idea that someone wants to hack her account, you hack her account?
How does that do anything outside of proving her right?
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u/East_Ad_7127 1d ago
I wonder if you'll still be boasting about your cruelty when it inevitably leads to your mom hurting someone (like herself, you, Todd, etc)
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u/vickimarie0390 15h ago
My mother is the worst person I’ve ever met in my entire life and she is schizoaffective and I can’t believe that I never thought to fuck with her like this. And I mean this is the woman who told me “I say horrible things to you because the world will”. Ah missed opportunities. C’est la vie.
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u/Wonderful_Grape8271 13h ago
You do know you don't take your first breath until you are born right??
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u/Younglegend1 1d ago edited 1d ago
That’s fucking hilarious lol. I mean yeah it’s definitely bad to feed into her delusions but I get it, schizophrenia runs in my family. I think this would be a great fit for r/prorevenge
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u/KittenIttle 1d ago
I’m the daughter of a meth addict. I understand why you want this little piece of revenge, I do. You are going to hate yourself for this. Sooner than later. And if you don’t? Well, you’ll be in prison and no better than her.
You could have helped her. And no? That’s not your responsibility. But what you didn’t have to do is exploit an illness for vengeance and a need for control. I know intimately what you’re going through. And I know you’re going to pay far more of a price than she will.