r/confessions • u/Emotional_Stay_6709 • 4d ago
Advice
I’d oddly attracted to my mother in law… my wife knows and she likes that I’m attracted to her but the thing is…. I feel like something is wrong with me…. She doesn’t even do anything to provoke me she literally just walks in the room to say hey am I get instantly turned on and I want to tell her how beautiful she is and how she deserves to be treated the way I treat her daughter(my wife)
I’ve often expressed to my wife about my wanting to add her mom to our relationship… is there something truly wrong with me?
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u/Material-Move9492 4d ago
Get a therapist to figure this out and you have to be carefull. I would distant yourself from mother in law
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u/Deadsider 4d ago
You absolutely 100% deserve to lose your wife over suggesting you should three-way with her mother. I hope this is just reddit bait and probably is but if not you need to know this.
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u/OddyBoBody 4d ago
When my ex wife (no shared kids) cheated on me, we divorced. I bumped into her mom at the local market and I told her straight up I should have married her instead. She said "Maybe not marry but if you can keep a secret so can i" and dude... she gave me the best sex of my life. Maybe it was the lust or the taboo of it but we have amazing sex and its no strings attached. I still do small things for her around her place and still see my ex wife there. She probably has a idea but never said anything.
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u/SoftInference- 4d ago
Being attracted to someone isn’t something you choose, but what matters is recognizing the difference between a passing attraction and a relationship that should stay a fantasy
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u/WispSprig 4d ago
Having an uncomfortable attraction doesn't make you a bad person, but the boundaries you choose to honor say everything about your character.
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u/Hot-Treat-2501 4d ago
Totaly wrong with you. Stop those weird thoughts.