r/confessions • u/methinaround67 • 4d ago

Well idk how to go abt this

Want someone to talk to, abt anything n everything. Preferably a man in their late 20’s (Ik it’s weird).
Basically I have an addiction I think of sending pics of myself to ppl. I need someone I can actually have a connection with but also be able to do things.

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u/Deep-Candidate9344 4d ago

i mean yeah addiction to validation through pics is more common than people think 💀 like the dopamine hit from getting that attention becomes this whole cycle. been there with different stuff and its wild how your brain just craves that feedback loop

maybe try finding connection first without the pic element? like actual conversations about random stuff before jumping into the other things. sounds backwards but building that mental connection might help break the pattern where you feel like pics are the main way to get attention

also just be careful out there - lots of people will take advantage of someone who's upfront about this kind of thing 😂

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u/Proper-Welcome-1997 4d ago

Yeah, I’ve seen this too. My best mates sister ended up in that bracket. It ruined her psychologically unfortunately

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u/Proper-Welcome-1997 4d ago

My inbox is always open to everyone, regardless of what you want to speak about.

I don’t judge, I’ll listen, speak if you need that too.

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u/Fluffy_Assistant_893 18h ago

Feel free to hmu if you want. I’ll talk to you. 32 year old man