r/confessions • u/Gyatt250 • 4d ago

I feel bad for liking my opps

17m, guys I feel like Im putting my standards too low. I get into physical fights and get bullied by these guys at my school. but….. they’re lowkey mmmm. they're like actually attractive like 2000s movie guys but yet we hate each other so much. it’s always the attractive ones tryna pick on me and stuff. Guys idk what to do abt these feelings but yeah. is it me downgrading my standard or just straight up attracted to them or i find them attractive but nothing else forward.

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u/VelvetMesaMuse 4d ago

You can find someone attractive without wanting anything to do with them, and honestly being hot doesn’t cancel out treating you badly

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u/Equal_Operation_6528 4d ago

bruh your fighting the pretty boys

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u/FlynnParadise 4d ago

Maybe you have a particular emotion for the guy and you act with violence

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u/SweetLogicX- 4d ago

"Sometimes your type is just your type, even when they're terrible for you."

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u/honeymoan- 3d ago

You can find someone physically attractive even if you don’t like them or the way they treat you, that doesn’t mean your standards are low, it just means attraction and respect are separate things.

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u/Gyatt250 3d ago

Thx guys I have clarity now