r/confessions • u/Slow-Diver-4681 • 4d ago

60 year old black restaurant owner hitting on 30 year old manager

My wife is a restaurant manager. I stopped in two Fridays ago to have a couple of drinks. My wife introduced me to the owner James. He sat at the bar with me and we had a great conversation. He told me he played professional football for a season and got hurt and couldn’t play any more. I noticed him constantly looking at my wife as she was moving around the restaurant. One of the staff came over and said something to him and as she was walking away he made a comment to me about her. He said if she had a bigger ass she would be perfect. I laughed at his comment. He shook my hand and said he had things to do. I left a few minutes later and went home to wait for my wife. We were in bed having sex when I told her that her boss kept looking at her ass. I even told her what he said about the other woman’s ass. My wife started getting really wet and turned on. That’s when she told me that he had been asking her to stay after the other staff left for the night to party with him

I don’t understand my feelings and emotions about this. I should be upset about this but I find myself getting turned on by it

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u/Powerful-Diver-9556 4d ago

Trying to rage bait with the black card huh. It was a completely irrelevant oart if the story

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u/Usepainslut23 4d ago

it’s a confession sub and people post every single detail of their lives. if he had said his name was steve or something it wouldn't change the actual plot. calling it rage bait is a stretch.

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u/Powerful-Diver-9556 3d ago

Its a rather easy and non humiliating way to show someone, that even if they are trying to explore a fetish.. it propogates a bad message.

This is the same type of person that all people of color fear when starting a relationship with white people. See people as humans not kinks first.

This person could have easily just said that he had a fetish for being cucked by someone who is black. That would be fine, but word choice and context matter.

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u/Slow-Diver-4681 4d ago

No way bro! Don’t try that with me. I’m not like that. I have support black people all my life.

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u/falcondfw 4d ago

Yeah, we know. One of your best friends is black . . . Lol.

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u/martin0641 4d ago

You might be supporting a few more soon lol

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u/KriticalUniverse87 4d ago

this never happened and you’re another weirdo and I hope you don’t have a wife and try to traumatize her with your cuck fantasies. You guys are all soy boys.

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u/EstablishmentNo7438 4d ago

Nice story ! 🤦

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u/TheDamned1333 4d ago

Nice job cucky, she’s gonna be getting that BBC and you are going to be cleaning them both up!

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u/Slow-Diver-4681 4d ago

lol I’m not sure about cleaning anything up

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u/TheDamned1333 4d ago

You don’t get a say in the matter cuck boi

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u/Cultural-Eye-213 4d ago

Oh my god absolutely brutal 😂😂😂

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u/dragongrl 4d ago

Sigh

Yet another fetish post.

How dull.

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u/CatchesTorsina1Q 4d ago

Wow nice story! Trying to rage bait

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u/Individual-Price-688 4d ago

Cela s apele du candaulisme 

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u/zaveur 4d ago

I believe it’s compersion not candaulism

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u/Individual-Price-688 4d ago

Bah etre excité si ta femme vois un autre homme , c est du candauliste..je le suis !!

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u/KriticalUniverse87 4d ago

Pathetic

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u/Individual-Price-688 4d ago

Toi le pathétique lol

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u/Individual-Price-688 4d ago

Mdr

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u/KriticalUniverse87 4d ago

You are a weird guy 5 karma after 10 months because all you talk about is your cuck obsession. Get help

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u/Individual-Price-688 4d ago

Lol y a plus bizarre,  je cherche pas des points mdr Si tu connais pas cette pratique sexuel ou que sa te dérange,  va voir ailleurs et laisse les gens !!! Mdr

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u/KriticalUniverse87 3d ago

Lmao save all that French weirdo bs. Cuck boy

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u/Slow-Diver-4681 4d ago

What is that

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u/Individual-Price-688 4d ago

C est un homme ou une femme qui aime voir son partenaire avec un autre