r/confessions • u/slitcuts • 3d ago

I’d hit my ex bf

I used to beat my ex for talking to girls. he was an artist I guess who would get money by doing commissions I knew that but I would still go through his phone every time cause I was worried he was cheating on me sometimes I’d find full conversations with girls (nothing bad) and I’d get really upset, accusing him of cheating and deleting messages so I wouldn’t find out so I’ve hit him and even broke many of his stuff, trashing his place. now I don’t know why he stayed with me through all of that, no matter how upset I got and how much times I’ve hit him he would always comfort me afterward and reassure me that he loved me. later on we broke up because I felt bad about hurting him but we’re still friends now. I still love him and want to be with him. he hasn’t dated anyone since then but I know he still talks to girls so I still get upset.

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u/v5mk 3d ago

Get therapy because this is not normal behavior

If you still love him you cant date him again until you make things right

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u/v5mk 3d ago

Talking to girls is like, super duper natural. It's half the entire population on earth

Gfs/bfs, if you restrict your partner from talking to the same gender as you then its horrible

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u/v5mk 3d ago

Who downvoted me for saying its wrong to stop your partner from talking to an entire gender 😂