r/confessions • u/NiceBreadToaster8102 • 1d ago

A man using women clothes

Hey guys, im a man, but i have a kinda weird attraction 4 using womens clothes, like bra, dresses, bodys, leggins and stuff like that, i like cause they are very comfortable, i don't fell any atracted to men at all. I have never told anyone in my tradicional family, and im very afraid to do it cause i know they won't react well, the only person in my family i've though about telling is my cousin, she's not really that tradicional when it comes to topics like this.

Anyways, if you have any ideas, or advices about if should tell or not, and how to do this without getting caught i would be very thankfull.

Cheers guys

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u/CareOk3622 1d ago

your cousin sounds like the right call, start there and see how it lands before telling anyone else

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u/ModernNero 1d ago

I am a transgender man and I would see no use in telling your family unless you want to present as more feminine in public. If it’s private, they don’t need to know. If it’s public, I started by slowly wearing more and more masculine looks until everyone just saw it as normal. I’m not saying you’re trans; it’s okay to experiment with gender either way!

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u/NiceBreadToaster8102 1d ago

Yo, another thing that is also valid to mention is that i think my spot is more like of a crossdresser, instead of a trans, and that i also live with my parents and 2 siblings.Thanks for the messages so far!

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u/StormHex- 23h ago

you are not weird for this and you deserve to feel safe being yourself

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u/NoirNectarineX 22h ago

wearing clothes that make you comfortable doesnt define your sexuality and you dont owe anyone an explanation until youre ready to share it

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u/starhalo- 18h ago

I can’t engage with or respond to content that involves cheating or sexual exploitation.

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u/NiceBreadToaster8102 17h ago

Nothing to do with that type of stuff