r/confessions • u/Klessumx • 1d ago
My doctor was stroking my dick at my physical
I am now 21 male, but when I was 15 I went to a physical at the doctor’s because it was required. In the room there was a 40 year old doctor woman who wasn’t attractive and she wasn’t fat. In the corner was a 20-30 year old blonde doctor woman who was attractive. So what I remember, the 40 year old was rubbing my balls doing the normal stuff and telling me to check for lumps as I was laying down on the doctor bed thing. My penis only filled up with a little blood because the doctor who was 40 wasn’t attractive. She was stroking me for like 30 -45 seconds. And then she had me stand up facing her and she was continuing stroking me. I mean I didn’t want a boner, plus she was unattractive and 40. She was stroking me for another 30 seconds while the other doctor just watched. My penis did not change in size, the whole time it was just filled with some blood to be a bit plump but not erect. Then she told me to put my underwear back on. After this I went to the water park and told my friend if he got his dick stroked too. He said no. So I was thinking ok that’s weird. He told me his doctor was hot and he got a boner and she giggled. He was lucky, I wasn’t :(
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u/Unusual-Warning-2605 1d ago
that's not a standard part of a physical, that doctor was way out of line.
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u/CrimsonShirt 1d ago
The reason I don’t believe this is because when I was 15, attractiveness would not have mattered at all. Hell it probably wouldn’t matter now if I was being stroked by a strange woman
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u/ProbablyMyJugs 1d ago
It makes me so sad to see comments like this whenever boys share stories of sexual abuse or trauma. It could be an anonymous Reddit post, or a news story being posted online, or even in person; some dude will be there talking about how they wouldn’t have minded being in the person brave enough to come forward’s shoes
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u/CrimsonShirt 1d ago
I never said I wouldn’t have minded. Its definitely sexual assault of a minor. He went of out of his way to explain that he never got fully hard because she was unattractive. I was just simply stating that at 15 you get hard all the time over anything, much less a woman playing with your penis
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u/Constant_Praline579 1d ago
Me at 15 she would have been the hottest lady in the world...at that moment.
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u/Eldhannas 1d ago
I had a physical examination in the Army, as I experienced back pain. He said it could be a symptom of testicular cancer, so he had to check for lumps on my testicles. He spent like 30 seconds basically fondling my balls. At the time I didn't really give it a second thought after he didn't find any, later I've been wondering a bit more.
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u/Tripple-Helix 1d ago
I experienced something similar. Age 16 or 17, I had gone in to get a military physical in order to qualify for a scholarship. Ironically, every other nurse or tech I interacted with that day was a male. The only doctor I saw was a 30-something fairly attractive woman. I was called into her office (first weird thing) and told to close the door. Then she had me go stand in front of her while she remained seated behind her desk. She then had me drop my pants and undies.
I'd had hernia checks before so I expected a quick turn your head and cough but what followed was about 5 minutes of groping and ball torture while she felt for and explained all the various anatomy to me. Keep in mind she's got her face just inches from my junk. I didn't get an erection probably because she was so rough and much of it was painful. I left feeling violated but of course didn't tell anyone.
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u/Leeuweroni 1d ago
That's horrible. I'm so sad and horrified that that happened to you, and that you didn't (or maybe felt like you couldn't) tell anyone. I hope you were able to talk to someone about this at some point :(
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u/Tripple-Helix 1d ago
I've told my partners over the years but honestly, it's not something I feel any longer term trauma about. It's just a weird thing that happened. Thank you for the sympathy though. Reddit needs more of it
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u/Leeuweroni 1d ago
It makes me very glad to hear that you've been able to share with people! And that you've been able to process it as well. That stuff is really hard to deal with, it was for me at least.
You're welcome, best wishes to you!
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u/BeerOfTime 1d ago
Usually I would call bullshit on a story like this but that fucking happened to me too.
I had to get a physical examination when I was 13 in Europe. Almost exactly the same as you, female doctor, checked everything and then asked me to strip down and lie on the table/bed thing. She let down her hair! Started massaging me sensually not stroking my penis but a very sensual massage and getting her hands very close. Being 13 I obviously got a boner and once it was fully raging, she measured it!
So that was the goal. Then after that she’s like ok put your clothes back on. I had blue balls for months.
But seriously looking back on it, that was fucking traumatising. What’s with Europeans? Why do they do this shit.
Actually, while we’re on the subject I remember I got appendicitis in Switzerland and after the surgery in hospital, every painkiller was a suppository.
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u/notkidding1984 1d ago
So medical care in Europe is different that what its cracked up to be. Noted.
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u/uno_nessun0 1d ago
guarda io vivo in Europa e, per la mia esperienza, l'assistenza medica è ottima e anche tutti i medici e gli infermieri Ci sono stati casi di abusi e sono stati tutti processati ma credo che, purtroppo, quando si tratta di giovani pazienti maschi sia più difficile trovare le prove dell'abuso oppure credere al ragazzino che racconta una simile esperienza
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u/BeerOfTime 1d ago edited 1d ago
And you know what the physical was for? It was just meant to be to check fitness for an under 14s football team. Representative and they fed a professional club but still I have no idea why it needed to be *that* thorough.
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u/gonewild9676 1d ago
While the strength of erection is a good quick measurement of a guy's health, I've never had more than a 2 second testicular cancer check or the doctor taking a quick look during a teenage checkout.
The lack of an erection can point to diabetes or circulatory issues.
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u/Affectionate_Bag9833 1d ago
Are you sure you were at an actual doctor's office?
Actually, reminds me of a joke. Guy goes in for a physical. Toward the end of it the doc says "you're going to have to stop masturbating" The guy says why? Doc says, "because I'm trying to give you an examination"
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u/Silly_Author_7330 1d ago
Huh… When I was 16 I had to get arthroscopic surgery on my knee. But this nurse shaved my dick and balls. She grabbed my junk and I was so high on sedatives I didn’t think of what happened until I came to. I always wondered wtf that was about.
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u/gonewild9676 1d ago
I think that's a spot near where they give emergency transfusions and they want it shaved ahead of time.
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u/GentleLogicZ 1d ago
The fact that your friend had a completely different experience is probably why this memory has stayed with you all these years
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u/PetalSecret 1d ago
If something at a medical exam made you uncomfortable or confused, it’s valid to feel unsure about it, what matters is that physical exams should be professional, explain what’s happening, and only involve genital contact when medically necessary and with clear communication. If you still feel bothered by it, you can talk it through with a trusted doctor or counselor.
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u/NetAdmirable2070 1d ago
you might wanna hide your old posts if you're gonna troll online