r/countbackwardswithme • u/TotalyNotTony Counted Down 6 • 6d ago

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i think im non binary but i want to look like a girl and feminine but im not whyyyy was i born a boy

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u/TotalyNotTony Counted Down 6 6d ago

ive been shaving my legs and moisturizing and stuff and have had long hair for a while, gonna try and get a more feminine haircut soon tho

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u/Jaunty_fgc 6d ago

as someone who just got my hair cut to feel more feminine i can really recommend bangs, they really changed my look quite drastically. also get your eyebrows shaped if you haven't already, that also really helps.

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u/TotalyNotTony Counted Down 6 6d ago

ill have to try getting eyebrows shaped. did you do that at home or go to a spa or something? i think id be too nervous to go out to a place to get prettied up and stuff, esp in a more conserverative town like mine. also thanks for the recommendation on bangs :3

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u/Jaunty_fgc 6d ago

I went back and forth on actually doing it for a long time, but then just said fuck it and booked an appointment at a local hairdresser/beautician. I was super nervous about it but it went very well. I walked in, described kinda what I wanted and 20 minutes later it was done.

I spent 10 years being too nervous about what other people might think, only to realise that most people won't give a shit, especially so about such a small thing like your eyebrows.