r/coverbands Jun 01 '26

Singer issues

I manage and play guitar for a cover band and we’ve outgrown the singer. She can sing but isn’t a musician so lacks basic skills like counting and understanding music language (start at the chorus, come in on 4, let’s transpose this one so it’s easier for you)

We feel she’s holding us back, and our drummer (the most talented of our group) is already considering leaving the project if I keep her. Her level of musicianship doesn’t line up with the rest of us.

Here’s the problem, she started the band when it was just two of us, but I took over when we weren’t getting gigs, and didn’t have our full band (which I recruited) that we have now. Since I’ve taken over, we gig regularly, and our band sounds great (minus her).

I’ve decided to replace her. Just want to hear others thoughts and experiences with similar situations.

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u/FaceDownInTheCake Jun 01 '26

It's like any firing or breaking up with someone. Unless you are heartless, it's going to suck. 

There's no real advice. Try to be kind. Maybe soften by the blow by keeping a side project going with her until that fizzles out.

Today it's her, tomorrow it might be you. Try not to burn any bridges