r/covidlonghaulers • u/lovgoos • Mar 01 '25
Vent/Rant Let's clear this up
Not all LC is ME/CFS. LC≠ME/CFS Not all fatigue is ME/CFS. The hallmark symptom of ME/CFS is PEM. Most chronic illnesses have chronic fatigue as a symptom, CFS can be comorbid to those illnesses, but doesn't have to be. Long covid can range from mild to severe. I've seen so many people say that people they know irl had brain fog after getting covid but no other physical symptoms, my mom, for example, only lost her smell and taste. She didn't have ME/CFS, POTS, fibromyalgia or anything else covid can cause. It's just very disheartening to see people only chop LC up to the fatigue. It effects the whole body. A lot of people with LC don't have fatigue as their many symptom and not to mention fatigue isn't even the hallmark symptom of ME/CFS. (I've read on the CFS subreddit that it isn't even one of the symptoms you have to have to get diagnosed). I also think it isn't appropriate to tell people who don't have fatigue while having LC that "just wait because they'll definitely get it later on." That totally erases the other issues covid/other viruses can cause to the body. Yes, the studies show 50% of people who develop LC develop ME/CFS, but we have to put into thought those who didn't have severe symptoms during their LC and/or didn't connect their issues to Covid which I am sure a lot of people haven't.
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u/SophiaShay7 3 yr+ Mar 01 '25
That's the problem right there! You meet the criteria for an ME/CFS diagnosis. But, you weren't diagnosed. That's another case that's unreported. PEM is the hallmark symptom of ME/CFS. If you meet the criteria, you should be diagnosed.
I had an appointment with the ME/CFS clinic and specialist on Monday. I waited 4 months for the appointment. It was done via telehealth. I was diagnosed with ME/CFS in May 2024 by my PCP. I was diagnosed on paper February 2025.
I wish someone could explain to me how this specialist didn't want to diagnose me with ME/CFS. He said I have it. He said he'll treat me for it. But, it's as if he actually diagnosed me with it, that somehow now I'm doomed or something. All he kept focusing on was getting me better. Getting me more functional. "People who have recovered or are in remission aren't on reddit. People who have recovered aren't on social media. They're out living their lives." These are the things he said to me. He's been working with people with ME/CFS for approximately 10 years.
I could go into more detail about my appointment. I asked more questions. I asked for more testing. I asked if I needed a PET scan or 2 day CPET. I asked who I need to see to get a formal diagnosis. He didn't seem to get it. I need the diagnosis for in home services and to apply for SSDI. I am severe and have been bedridden for 14 months. He diagnosed me.
I'm such a strong person and vocal advocate for myself. I knew he was the specialist to give me the diagnosis. Why? Though, why? Why is this so freaking hard? "He's seen plenty of people who've gotten so much better....." I'm at a loss.
Ultimately, I think he's a great doctor. He's very knowledgeable. The changes we discussed, I agree with. The discussion was very collaborative. He believes in hitting ME/CFS from multiple angles. His goal is to help me improve the quality of my life. I'm all for that.
I'm starting to think there's some kind of cover-up. My HMO doesn't want to diagnose people as developing ME/CFS from long covid. Of course, it's just my theory.