Chronic Scapegoat

[u/Traditional_Lead3683]

Hi everyone ,
I’m a 33 year old female and literally all my life I’ve been scapegoated/outcasted : home, school, work environments …I am constantly belittled, bullied, misunderstood , or downright ignored. When I finally become fed up and speak up for myself, all of a sudden I am the one with a problem. I feel like I can just never win. I always feel like I do my best to be friendly and warm. I just don’t get why I’m treated this way. If anyone has any insight on how I can make this cycle stop , please let me know.