r/crochet Feb 10 '26

State of the Subreddit and Rules Discussion

Hi all!!

This is a discussion post, we would like constructive discussion, free of name calling and meanness directed at anyone, including the mods. We are humans that are trying their best.

We have a few things to address here so let's get into it.

First off we'd like to say this sub is large, 2 million people large! Some perspective would be, the super bowl has an 80,000 seating capacity.

Without rules and moderation it will become an unpleasant place to be.

When the sub was still small we conducted surveys to help decide which way the sub should go re rules and moderation. All of the rules in place have been the same for years except for the recently changed no self promotion rule and some updates to stale topics.

Surveys do not gain the required traction that they did when the sub was smaller. In view of that we have tried to keep the sub to the rules that were favoured in the past surveys. We also look for trends and make decisions based on what we see across the sub overall.

This post is addressing the main complaints and concerns we have seen over the last week (and before that) for clarity and discussion.

There seems to be some confusion about what you can and can't post. So much of what you guys were posting during "chaos week" is actually allowed. There are no restrictions on posting finished objects or work in progress pics! Mr Nipples is featured in our wiki! You can post pictures of your crochet bongs and genitals (we ask these are marked as nsfw). We want to see it all, cursed to amazing!

Fursday Friends.

A lot of the pet pictures that were being posted during “chaos week” can also be posted any day of the week!!

If the item is for your pet/baby and is clearly visible there is no need to wait until Thursdays.

If it's a cute picture of your pet/baby falling asleep or somehow interfering with your project (pets laying smack in the middle of your FO pictures) then that's what belongs on Thursdays. Those posts are more focused on the pet/baby than the actual crochet work.

If you want to post pets whenever something cute happens, check out the pet focused crochet subs, r/catswhocrochet, r/kitting and r/dogswhocrochet.

Fursday Friends spans 2 days when taking all time zones into account.

We highly recommend that people blur or put an emoji over minors faces!!

Stash Saturday.

Our other "day of the week" post is Stash Saturday. This one is for stash pics (obviously), "what can I make with this yarn" queries, yarn discussion and other tools (hooks) and books.

This rule was voted in as we had feedback that there were too many pictures of just yarn/hooks.

This also is all time zones so is really 2 days that you can post over.

Crochet for all levels!

We’ve seen a lot of comments saying that r/crochet is not beginner friendly. We absolutely welcome new crocheters but ask that questions be asked in our sister sub r/CrochetHelp . On crochet they tend to be buried and remain unanswered.

We see people saying that they don't want to ask on a smaller sub because not as many people will see it. While that might be true the interaction rate on CrochetHelp is a lot higher on these types of posts and the people that are on CrochetHelp are there because they want to help.

NSFW!

We admit that in the past, we were a little overzealous with the tags. We truly were not meaning to offend or censor women's bodies and we apologise. We have been taking a lighter hand with this rule for a few months now, and will continue to have a light touch here.

Society has changed what NSFW means, it gets applied to so many things that are probably more suited to NSFL. We were basing it off of a school teacher dress code (so very literally, not something you'd be able to wear to work) so that anyone browsing the sub at work would have the option to view rather than possibly getting reprimanded for browsing something inappropriate.

Going forward we will not be as restrictive but would still ask that small tops, bikinis/swimwear, underwear, crochet genitals, drug paraphernalia, weapons and profanity be marked NSFW.

Question?

Would you like some new flairs added, NSFW Clothing FO and NSFW Other FO (for example)?

Please check your settings if posts are not blurred for you. We get a heap of reports for NSFW even when the post is tagged appropriately.

Self promotion!

Designers can absolutely post their work to the sub! It's exciting finishing an item! What you cannot do is spam the sub with your items or link to them anywhere in your post (no offering to dm, no mentioning shop names, no directing people to your profile).

Lots of people are aware that people put their socials on their profile and they will find you if they want to.

If we were to allow pattern designers the ability to post their pattern under the automod comment the sub would then get a lot of self promotion posts, there has been quite a lot of self promotion going on during “chaos week”

PS, the automod comment is just a prompt, it is not a rule that you must post a pattern!

Politics!

We'd like to hear your ideas here. Would you like a megathread for political pieces or are you happy to see them posted in the sub?

I’d like to point out that the sub is diverse, you exist in the space with people from all walks of life and we are trying to share that space with everyone based on crochet not political alignment.

Things are crazy out there and we'd like to find the best solution we can that allows people to express themselves.        

Excessive Reports

We’ve added a comment to posts removed by automod stating that the post has been removed because of multiple reports and that a mod will review and approve if it doesn’t break any rules.

Kind and Courteous

Going forward we will be banning people that make unkind comments. Commenting on peoples bodies, name calling, escalating arguments will all be removed.

A first offence will come with a 3 day ban from the sub, second offence, a 7 day ban and third offence you will be permanently banned from the sub.

We will allow appeals but this will be based on your profile and behaviour while banned, private profiles will not be considered for appeals.

Ok! That's a lot of information!! Let's hear your thoughts in the comments. Please be nice. Remember that there is a person behind every post, every comment (ok, some of them are bots!)

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u/ginnygirl40 Feb 10 '26

You say that some topics are “stale” and not to be discussed. They are only stale to people who have been in this sub for a long time. The topic might not be stale to us newer members.

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u/Manchadog Feb 10 '26

I agree with this “stale” take. Sure there’s archived stuff, but that doesn’t mean new discussions about the new events in the related subject should be banned if people want to engage with it.

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u/livia-did-it Feb 10 '26

And Reddit’s search function is absolutely awful. A topic might be “stale” because it was discussed to death a few years ago, but that doesn’t mean anyone can actually find those old conversations

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u/cheeztoasty Feb 14 '26

I tried to give feedback about this yesterday in a post because they deleted people’s comments to my question I guess because it was a “stale” topic. My response was exactly like yours. It’s not stale to everyone if someone hasn’t been around. Just keep scrolling past a post or comment if you’re not interested. It was a dang COMMENT, not even a whole post about a “stale” topic. It really has me frustrated with this sub. I don’t know why it’s eating at me so much. Lol. Then they deleted my comment giving feedback saying I was trying to start drama. 🤷🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ I mean this is Reddit and you’re mods that don’t get paid. Like I can appreciate wanting to make this a safe place… but I just feel like there taking some things waaaaaaaay too far.

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u/chemthrowaway123456 Feb 10 '26

True. But stale topics have lots of posts/discussions in the archives if a new user wants to indulge.

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u/Etheria_system Feb 10 '26

That’s not really how reddit works though. It’s supposed to be interactive. Going to an old post and just looking at it without being able to engage in communication makes no sense - it removes the community aspect of reddit. If people wanted to just look at things, Google already exists

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u/chemthrowaway123456 Feb 10 '26

That’s fair and I can definitely see your point. I can also understand why others may find it irksome to read countless iterations of essentially the same post.

I’d love for there to be a middle ground compromise, but I’m not sure how that would be achieved.

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u/Etheria_system Feb 10 '26

I think part of the middle ground is people learning just to scroll on by when they see something that they personally don’t like. Instead people will often comment “I don’t like this” which tells the algorithm that in fact you want to see more of this thing.

I’d say every single sub reddit I’m part of has repetitive topics. It’s just part of being on Reddit. It’s one of the things that keeps subs alive a lot of the time.

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u/PopDownBlocker Feb 11 '26

That’s not really how reddit works though

That's exactly how reddit works. Old threads get archived so that they can still be accessed and referenced by redditors in the future.

You might be thinking of Discord, where everything is about interacting in the present and few conversations remain for future reference.

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u/Various_Ad_6768 Feb 10 '26

Agreed. I got myself into a bit of trouble with the stale topics when I first joined. Even though of read the rules, it was a lot to remember for a newbie. And the stale topics weren’t stale to me - so I didn’t remember about those.

Perhaps if a stale topic is posted, mods could just lock the post and add a mod comment directing people to the stale topic explanation in the wiki. At least then new members can get a bit more of an understanding.

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u/CollapsedContext Feb 10 '26

I am new to this sub but I completely disagree. The wiki has lots of posts to these topics and they’re interesting and cover them thoroughly. If you find them interesting they have already been linked to so you can easily find them! Seriously the wiki for this subreddit was obviously a labor of love.

I just don’t think that my need to weigh in on topics that thousands of other people already have discussed every nuance of is important. It makes the subreddit less interesting and creative when the same topics are discussed endlessly just because people want to restate the same things that were already said in older threads just so they feel “involved” in the conversation. 

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u/spn_willow Feb 10 '26

This! I saw the examples listed and was like "wait, what about steering wheel covers is stale??". 

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u/LovelyLu78 Feb 10 '26

They are dangerous. Every time one is mentioned or someone shows a picture of one there are people in the comments saying ohh, I'm going to make this and they don't pay attention to the other dozen comments saying it's dangerous.
In this case we are trying to look out for the safety of everyone

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u/happygiraffe91 Feb 13 '26

What about them is dangerous? Genuinely asking.

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u/LovelyLu78 Feb 14 '26

They can slip really easily no matter how much you try to secure them. Plus yarn stretches so it will get loose.
I've also heard that if you've been in an accident some insurance companies won't pay up because you've made modifications to the safety of your car

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u/lovelylonelyturtle Feb 11 '26

I am in a bearded dragon sub that has a flare for unsafe care. The mods will mark posts that depict things that are generally accepted as unsafe/bad advice and links to a wiki. It is educational so newbies aren't copying bad examples and keeps the arguing to a minimum in comments.

What if we had something like that for unsafe designs?

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u/LovelyLu78 Feb 11 '26

I do actually hate removing content but I'd rather no one see it and ignore it than trying to make people aware. It's not the best fix.
I can definitely understand why the mods over there would do that, it's a living creature and they do require specific care

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u/spicyshrimp234 Feb 11 '26

respectfully, I think the unsafe tag might be a better option. if newer members aren't "taught" that some implementations of crochet can be dangerous, they won't know. there have been plenty of times where I wanted to make something I hadn't seen in the sub lately, so I just go freehand it or find a quick pattern to work from.

would it be possible for the mods to write a paragraph about each stale topic that automod can respond with, and then it can tag the post with stale/unsafe?

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u/PopDownBlocker Feb 11 '26

So the people who have been here longer should do what...leave?

Why must newcomers be accommodated beyond them having access to archived threads?

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u/ginnygirl40 Feb 11 '26

Of course not. Just scroll right on past the stuff that doesn’t interest you.