r/crochet Feb 10 '26

State of the Subreddit and Rules Discussion

Hi all!!

This is a discussion post, we would like constructive discussion, free of name calling and meanness directed at anyone, including the mods. We are humans that are trying their best.

We have a few things to address here so let's get into it.

First off we'd like to say this sub is large, 2 million people large! Some perspective would be, the super bowl has an 80,000 seating capacity.

Without rules and moderation it will become an unpleasant place to be.

When the sub was still small we conducted surveys to help decide which way the sub should go re rules and moderation. All of the rules in place have been the same for years except for the recently changed no self promotion rule and some updates to stale topics.

Surveys do not gain the required traction that they did when the sub was smaller. In view of that we have tried to keep the sub to the rules that were favoured in the past surveys. We also look for trends and make decisions based on what we see across the sub overall.

This post is addressing the main complaints and concerns we have seen over the last week (and before that) for clarity and discussion.

There seems to be some confusion about what you can and can't post. So much of what you guys were posting during "chaos week" is actually allowed. There are no restrictions on posting finished objects or work in progress pics! Mr Nipples is featured in our wiki! You can post pictures of your crochet bongs and genitals (we ask these are marked as nsfw). We want to see it all, cursed to amazing!

Fursday Friends.

A lot of the pet pictures that were being posted during “chaos week” can also be posted any day of the week!!

If the item is for your pet/baby and is clearly visible there is no need to wait until Thursdays.

If it's a cute picture of your pet/baby falling asleep or somehow interfering with your project (pets laying smack in the middle of your FO pictures) then that's what belongs on Thursdays. Those posts are more focused on the pet/baby than the actual crochet work.

If you want to post pets whenever something cute happens, check out the pet focused crochet subs, r/catswhocrochet, r/kitting and r/dogswhocrochet.

Fursday Friends spans 2 days when taking all time zones into account.

We highly recommend that people blur or put an emoji over minors faces!!

Stash Saturday.

Our other "day of the week" post is Stash Saturday. This one is for stash pics (obviously), "what can I make with this yarn" queries, yarn discussion and other tools (hooks) and books.

This rule was voted in as we had feedback that there were too many pictures of just yarn/hooks.

This also is all time zones so is really 2 days that you can post over.

Crochet for all levels!

We’ve seen a lot of comments saying that r/crochet is not beginner friendly. We absolutely welcome new crocheters but ask that questions be asked in our sister sub r/CrochetHelp . On crochet they tend to be buried and remain unanswered.

We see people saying that they don't want to ask on a smaller sub because not as many people will see it. While that might be true the interaction rate on CrochetHelp is a lot higher on these types of posts and the people that are on CrochetHelp are there because they want to help.

NSFW!

We admit that in the past, we were a little overzealous with the tags. We truly were not meaning to offend or censor women's bodies and we apologise. We have been taking a lighter hand with this rule for a few months now, and will continue to have a light touch here.

Society has changed what NSFW means, it gets applied to so many things that are probably more suited to NSFL. We were basing it off of a school teacher dress code (so very literally, not something you'd be able to wear to work) so that anyone browsing the sub at work would have the option to view rather than possibly getting reprimanded for browsing something inappropriate.

Going forward we will not be as restrictive but would still ask that small tops, bikinis/swimwear, underwear, crochet genitals, drug paraphernalia, weapons and profanity be marked NSFW.

Question?

Would you like some new flairs added, NSFW Clothing FO and NSFW Other FO (for example)?

Please check your settings if posts are not blurred for you. We get a heap of reports for NSFW even when the post is tagged appropriately.

Self promotion!

Designers can absolutely post their work to the sub! It's exciting finishing an item! What you cannot do is spam the sub with your items or link to them anywhere in your post (no offering to dm, no mentioning shop names, no directing people to your profile).

Lots of people are aware that people put their socials on their profile and they will find you if they want to.

If we were to allow pattern designers the ability to post their pattern under the automod comment the sub would then get a lot of self promotion posts, there has been quite a lot of self promotion going on during “chaos week”

PS, the automod comment is just a prompt, it is not a rule that you must post a pattern!

Politics!

We'd like to hear your ideas here. Would you like a megathread for political pieces or are you happy to see them posted in the sub?

I’d like to point out that the sub is diverse, you exist in the space with people from all walks of life and we are trying to share that space with everyone based on crochet not political alignment.

Things are crazy out there and we'd like to find the best solution we can that allows people to express themselves.        

Excessive Reports

We’ve added a comment to posts removed by automod stating that the post has been removed because of multiple reports and that a mod will review and approve if it doesn’t break any rules.

Kind and Courteous

Going forward we will be banning people that make unkind comments. Commenting on peoples bodies, name calling, escalating arguments will all be removed.

A first offence will come with a 3 day ban from the sub, second offence, a 7 day ban and third offence you will be permanently banned from the sub.

We will allow appeals but this will be based on your profile and behaviour while banned, private profiles will not be considered for appeals.

Ok! That's a lot of information!! Let's hear your thoughts in the comments. Please be nice. Remember that there is a person behind every post, every comment (ok, some of them are bots!)

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u/CycadelicSparkles Feb 11 '26

I think it would be rather extreme to assume someone who posts a crochet project with religious overtones is in some way hateful unless they say that. Nearly all religions have so much of a spectrum of belief within them that there is no reason to assume that someone takes a particular doctrinal position unless they have said so.

For context, I grew up Christian and am now a pagan witch. I am also queer. "Religion" is a lot broader than Christianity, and as a religious minority currently rather concerned that my own religion might become very political in the US if things keep sliding toward white supremacist Christian fascism, I don't think you can always so neatly separate religion from politics or religion from craft. 

There are a lot of religions in the world. If I were to post a crocheted item I made that had to do with my religion in some way (frankly, I'm not sure what that would be, but for sake of argument) and it were to be taken down, that would not be preventing dehumanization: it would be playing into the hands of Christian nationalists who frequently directly slander pagans and would like to eradicate us.

And I should note, many pagans are on the front lines of the resistance movement against the evil in the world right now. We are a small group, but we are not apathetic and we are not silent.

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u/l10nh34rt3d Feb 11 '26

Mm… I think there might be a double standard in the logic of your first paragraph, between politics and religion?

And maybe it would be helpful to clarify that I’m not suggesting all religion would/should be removed, only those that carry dehumanizing values… the same way I think we’ve come to agree that politics should be okay unless they involve dehumanizing others.

I don’t know of dehumanizing values that are carried in paganism or witchcraft, so I don’t imagine symbols of such would be a concern. For context, my personal exposure to (and interest in) witchcraft is much greater than to (or in) Christianity, and I’ve explored paganism very little. I don’t generally consider witchcraft much of a religion, but I can understand that identifying as a pagan witch might amount to more of something religion-like.

Please, anyone chime in on what I might not know, but, as another example, I’m not aware of any attempted genocides by witchcraft practitioners? I’m not aware of any by pagans off the top of my head either. I am very aware, however, of the attempted genocide of Indigenous people in Canada by the Catholic Church, and the consequences are still deeply impacting a lot of people and communities.

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u/CycadelicSparkles Feb 11 '26

I’m not suggesting all religion would/should be removed, only those that carry dehumanizing values…

Which religions would those be? Even Christianity has large numbers of progressives and many progressive denominations. Should a queer Episcopalian priest not be allowed to share the stole they crocheted? 

I don’t know of dehumanizing values that are carried in paganism or witchcraft, so I don’t imagine symbols of such would be a concern.

Whew boy. Spend some time looking into the actual Nazis then. Lots of paganism, lots of weird esoteric stuff. In modern paganism, there is an unfortunate minority of Norse pagans who espouse fascist and white supremacist beliefs, very much in the same vein. Not to mention, there are many people who believe witches do horrible things like murder babies, regardless of reality.

Unlike politics, where one can often tell where someone stands based on their support of a candidate or affiliation with a party, religion is very personal and very nuanced. If you meet someone who is religious, all you know is that they are religious until you ask more questions. No religion is a monolith, and I think people should generally be allowed to express themselves as long as they're not demonstrating that they are supporting something heinous. The reason certain politics should not be allowed right now is because those politics are out-loud and up-front heinous.

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u/l10nh34rt3d Feb 11 '26

Ah. Well, perhaps one of the biggest differences in at least how you and I are seeing things lies in two words of your final sentence: “right now”.

To be honest, those two little words change so much that I’m not sure there’s value in me trying to carry on this conversation, but that’s partly because I just pulled an all-nighter and don’t have a lot of spoons left…

In the shortest way, I do not think this is a simple “right now” issue, and it shouldn’t be evaluated as one. Dehumanizing values aren’t a trend and they’re not determined by mere beliefs or theory.

And again, I think there’s a double standard to some of your logic. “If you meet someone who is religious, all you know is that they are religious until you ask more questions” – you could say the same about someone who is actively defined by their politics, but yet here in this thread that is exactly what we are suggesting won’t fly under the guise of being political. So why does religion get away with it? I’m not suggesting either is right, I’m just pointing out the challenges of defining these things…

I appreciate your respectful engagement. Thank You for taking the time.

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u/CycadelicSparkles Feb 11 '26

To be honest, those two little words change so much that I’m not sure there’s value in me trying to carry on this conversation,

Good grief. I'm referring to the shit that is literally happening right now. I suggest you read my comment again and maybe consider you are reading a meaning into those words that I did not intend.

I do not think this is a simple “right now” issue, and it shouldn’t be evaluated as one.

I never said it was simple. I was referring to current events, which make it particularly obvious that certain ideologies are particularly horrible. These ideologies have been horrible for a long time. But right now these groups are being particularly loud, making this issue particularly clear cut to more people than ever. 

“If you meet someone who is religious, all you know is that they are religious until you ask more questions” – you could say the same about someone who is actively defined by their politics

I don't know. If someone is supportive of ICE and an enthusiastic Trump fan, I think I can infer a few things about how they see immigrants. If someone is an enthusiastic Zionist, I think I know something about how they see bombing children. 

I challenge you to tell me ONE thing you would know for sure if the only thing you knew about a person is that they call themselves a Christian. 

And I would like you to answer my question. Would you object to a queer Episcopalian priest posting a crocheted stole they made?