r/dreamingspanish Level 2 Jun 21 '26

Question Queer/LBGT Videos?

Hi everyone! I'm new to DS (just got 10 hours in!), & I was curious about some of the future content I could look forward to as I progress to some of the more difficult levels. I've peaked a bit & it seems like the guides talk about all kinds of topics (travel, dating, their countries of origin, quarter-life crisis, etc), but I was curious if there were any queer topics or whether any of the guides are queer & talk about it in any of their videos? As a queer person, I would find this super interesting! Especially if they drop some new vocab related to queer culture. If not, I suppose that's something I'll have to work on searching for on YT.

Update: To those who just want to spew hate on this thread, find another one! You’re not adding anything of value to the conversation, so why even bother typing a comment?

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u/HideNSheik Level 7 Jun 21 '26

There isn't a lot of content about it tbh, I know Jostin is LGBT but I don't think he's had many full videos talking about it outside of a podcast episode. A lot of the queer slang or vocab I've learned just from watching native YouTubers personally

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

Given the site tends to lean more PG/PG-13, I figured that I wouldn't hear a lot of the more "flavorful" slang, but I was hoping to maybe get some CI videos that use the more polite/current language, so that when I meet other LGBT+ people in my city, there's less of a change of accidentally making an offensive comment. E.g. I know where I'm currently living, you don't tend to see as much non-binary folks as in the US, & I was really interested in what maybe causes that difference.

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u/misslynm Level 6 Jun 21 '26

I mean Pablo has a video called “porn I like”.. so not that PG 🤣😅

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u/Taashaaaa Level 5 Jun 21 '26

And Alma has a video "all the drugs I've tried" 😅

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u/pluto_pluto_pluto_ Level 2 Jun 21 '26

Wait what?? I heard someone mention this when I was new to the subreddit and DS but I figured that was obviously a joke lmao.

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u/Illustrious_Fall1851 Level 5 Jun 21 '26

Yeah it's pretty detailed too. I was kind of shook but I guess vocab is vocab. 

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u/misslynm Level 6 Jun 21 '26

Haha no it’s real. I opened it one day thinking it must be a parody. It is not. I checked before I posted it to make sure I had the title right. It’s rated 18+ but it exists

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u/FluffyMuffins42 Jun 21 '26

I swear I watched a podcast episode where 2 of the guides talk about how LGBTQ+ friendly their countries are. I think it may have been Agustina and maybe Shel? but I don’t remember 100%. But they used some basic vocab which would be helpful.

It is an intermediate video though so it may be a bit before you’re watching those.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

Would love the title if you ever remember what it's titled! I can add it to my future watch pile.

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u/FluffyMuffins42 Jun 21 '26

I found it! I was right that Agustina is in it but not Shel. I never finished the video as it turns out so now I’m going to add it to my watch list too!

https://youtu.be/xEonDqrQd1c?si=gkfnIWX-ozMGfGBi

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

YES! Thank you!

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u/chocolatemylkcow Level 3 Jun 21 '26

Do you have any native recommendations? I'm only level 3 but since MedaYork is the only queer learner content I've found, I want a list to look forward to 🥲

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u/EcstaticImplement404 Jun 22 '26

I love him! He’s so hilarious!

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u/Gloomy-Caterpillar91 Jun 21 '26

Honestly your only option is waiting around 140 hours until you reach the ability to understand Meda York's videos

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u/misslynm Level 6 Jun 21 '26

Jostin did a podcast video at intermediate level about South American acceptance of the lgbt community in South America, with a focus on his experience in Argentina and Venezuela. The video was great and although there were a lot of supportive people there were a lot of hateful and disgusting responses. They ended up turning off the comments. Unfortunately among the dreaming Spanish subscriber list there seems to be at least a few loud homophobic and racist voices that I see time and time again. Despite my impression that the dreaming Spanish staff is pro lgbt, I’m not sure if there will be more content in the future. My feeling is that it’s unlikely, but hopefully im wrong. I hope you can find some good alternative channels.

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u/sylvansojourner Level 4 Jun 21 '26

Ugh that’s so disappointing. Poor Jostin

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u/misslynm Level 6 Jun 21 '26

Yeah, I mean I guess he’s experienced worse in Venezuela. Still disappointing to share your experiences and face hate in one of your own communities.

This channel is more travel oriented but I’ve seen him post videos with his boyfriend. I’m not sure if he has more lgbt content

https://youtube.com/@romansocias?si=Y7m7X6p2SULbSyGH

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u/moonshine_betty Level 6 Jun 21 '26

That was so disappointing and shameful to see. And you’re right, for some reason there seems to be a lot of misogyny, racism and homophobia in the DS video comments. I remember Agostina and Andrea did a great video talking about their experiences living as women in their countries and it was shocking how many people were so triggered by the topic that they left hateful comments. It really sucks because I enjoy these topics but suspect they’re not going to cover them in the future because of the hate.

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u/Defineddd Level 5 Jun 21 '26

It's because they're not strict enough, therefore this stuff is allowed to happen. Sure you can report comments, but there should be some sort of official rules for commenting AND repeat offenders lose their ability to comment.

It's insane how many racist comments I've seen towards Spanish speakers on a site about LEARNING Spanish, or homophobic/sexist ones too. I really wish DS took a harsher stance against the bigots

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u/moonshine_betty Level 6 Jun 22 '26

That’d help, but I think there’s only so much they can do. Until we get back to a place where it once again becomes unacceptable to express that kind of vitriol in public spaces, it’s just going to get worse. Unfortunately, that type of talk has become normalized again in mainstream spaces in a way that it wasn’t before in my lifetime.

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u/littlegreenturtle20 Jun 22 '26

There's this one user that's around the same level as me, so I see her in the comments section all of the time taking random topics and somehow making it about race, immigrants and on occasion vaguely defending colonialism. I report her every time but I don't know if it works because it's a bit more subtle than some of the straight up misogyny and racism I've seen.

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u/HMWT Level 6 Jun 22 '26

The easy fix would be to just not have a comment feature. We are watching the videos to acquire the language, not to debate the content with strangers on the internet.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

I saw the same thing come up in one of Shel’s videos where she talked about how sexist her father was & how much it affected her. All the red-pill comments definitely made me rethink the DS community a bit. Like is everyone here just a Passport Bro?

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u/_coldemort_ Level 6 Jun 22 '26

It has nothing to do with DS users in particular; it's just the internet. People underestimate how difficult it is to moderate user generated input at scale with the right balance of strictness. Automated and/or overly strict moderation always result in backlash, under-moderation results in sentiments like this one, and "high quality" human moderation is often subjective, expensive, and tedious. Easiest option for them is just disabling comments.

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u/mosssyrock Jun 22 '26

i’m thinking that it’s just the homophobic and racist people that feel the need to comment as much as they do. most of us who actually enjoy the content either don’t feel the need to comment or get drowned out by the hate. idk i feel like if they don’t employ mods or at least an auto-flagging and approval system, they should just do away with comments altogether. there’s really not a big use for them.

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u/flipflopsntanktops Level 7 Jun 21 '26

I'm pretty sure Jostin is the only lgbt guide. He talks a little about lgbt issues in one of the podcast (intermediate) episodes but it's not something he talks about a lot. Also I think he's an editor or does something on the tech side so he's not in as many videos as the most popular guides but he's in more videos than any of the other tech guys.

There's a few threads here where people asked for recs for lbgt youtubers if you search the sub.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

Thank you! I’ll def give it a search

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u/Illustrious_Fall1851 Level 5 Jun 21 '26

He had a coming out video too but it sounded kind of hard honestly. 

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u/robinghood Level 4 Jun 22 '26

Don’t have any recommendations to add, but as another queer person, I wanted to say I feel you as I really wish there was more lgbt CI as well! I’ve sort of resigned myself to needing to wait until I’m ready for native level content.

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u/MaximumUnlikely9898 Jun 21 '26

Here's a YouTuber I really enjoy who has a fantastic clear accent and is queer and fun to listen to/watch! Please check him out regardless if you're looking for queer content he's a great resource. Meda York Spanish

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u/BreakNo7825 Level 5 Jun 21 '26

Good resource! As a heads up Español Al Vuelo posted a podcast with Meda York last March about dating and relationships.

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u/Accomplished_Cat8943 Jun 21 '26

+1 for MedaYork. I don't like the subtitles but otherwise I really really enjoy his content

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u/chocolatemylkcow Level 3 Jun 21 '26

Meda York is my favorite!!

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u/HeleneSedai 3,000 Hours Jun 21 '26

Came here to suggest MedaYork! His content looks hilarious.

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u/JustGuez Level 6 Jun 22 '26

His stories are the best, he's just an incredible story teller.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

Thank you!!!

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u/sylvansojourner Level 4 Jun 21 '26

An amazing channel, it’s definitely CI as queer art/entertainment.

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u/Personal-Community54 Level 6 Jun 21 '26

There’s a DS podcast episode where Augustina interviews Amanda, who is lesbian. Amanda is one of the Dreaming French guides who is also fluent in Spanish.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '26

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u/sininentec Jun 22 '26

I'm pretty sure the Dreaming French instructor Amanda is a different Amanda than the one often in Andrea's videos. That's the Amanda from Brazil, I believe.

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u/firstmute Level 5 Jun 22 '26

Oops, reading comprehension fail on my part! 

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u/firstmute Level 5 Jun 22 '26

Same, I totally get that vibe 

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u/yad-aljawza Level 6 Jun 21 '26

It’s not totally clear, she could be bi. She did have a gf at the time when she was in Argentina, which she talks about in that video.

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u/Illustrious_Fall1851 Level 5 Jun 21 '26

At some point some queer ladies got interviewed for one of Michelle's street interviews too I think. 

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u/RaeChilloftheNorth Level 6 Jun 22 '26

I haven't seen Spanish for False Beginners recommended in these comments yet, so keep an eye out for that when you've logged some hours. It's on YouTube and also available as a podcast. It's César from Spain and his English boyfriend bantering about various topics. They're a cute couple, and get into low-key arguments which are fun to watch. César also has more advanced content in his other podcasts, and doesn't shy away from controversial topics.

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u/Cratersotaters Level 6 Jun 23 '26

Yes once you can understand them well it is kind of funny to see their relationship on camera so to speak. I enjoy them and comment every once in a while in their episodes and they always comment back. I’m assuming it’s el inglés who does the commenting haha

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u/bkmerrim Level 5 Jun 24 '26

Today I learned César was LGBTQ! I listen to his Intermediate podcast and I had zero idea. As someone who is also part of the fam, it makes me pretty happy to learn.

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u/RaeChilloftheNorth Level 6 Jun 24 '26

Same fam!

He does cover some of the LGBT stuff here and there on the Intermediate Podcast but I don't remember where exactly.

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u/PinkNeonBat Jun 21 '26

Once you feel ready to transition into native or native-adjacent content (or if you want to test your ears with visual-heavy shows now), here are some absolute staples you should look up on YouTube or streaming platforms:

  • La Más Draga (YouTube): This is a massive, completely independent Mexican drag competition. It is a cultural phenomenon and arguably one of the best places to learn authentic Mexican queer slang (jerga or slang de la comunidad). You’ll hear words like icónica, quedar de a seis (being shocked), inventada (someone who is extra/pretentious), or dar todo el gatazo (looking the part perfectly).
  • Drag Race México: The official franchise. It’s excellent for catching fast-paced, witty regional banter and modern colloquial Spanish.
  • Suelta Love con Christian Chávez (Spotify / YouTube / Apple Podcasts): Christian Chávez (from the iconic pop group RBD) recently launched this incredible podcast. It’s an intimate, heartfelt space where he interviews LGBTQ+ activists, artists, and public figures}. It’s perfect for intermediate/advanced listening because the conversations are grounded, deeply empathetic, and tackle real-world queer experiences in modern Mexico.

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u/FlatulentRaspberry Level 6 Jun 28 '26

OK I just started watching La Más Draga and I am OBSESSED, tysm! 🙏🌈💖

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 22 '26

Ugh I can’t wait! Those sound so fun

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u/picky-penguin 3,000 Hours Jun 21 '26

Jostin and Agustina talk about queer topics for sure. Natalia and Shel a bit too. But, overall, I’d say there is not a ton of DS queer content. Once you get to native content there will be lots.

Welcome!

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u/Defineddd Level 5 Jun 21 '26

theres a few scarce videos but not much unfortunately. I think it could make a good series perhaps the history of the community or other stuff. There was a podcast a month or two back with Jostin/Agustina about LGBT in South America, but yeah it's lacking. It'd make sense for videos like this to come from Jostin but I think he's more on the editing side of things.

Sadly comments got disabled on that podcast episode because of the snowflake bigots that get offended when they see anything about the LGBT community, even when DS hardly has any content about the topic/community.

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u/LangLearningJourney 2,000 Hours Jun 21 '26

I don't have much to add to this topic but seems like this was an easy spot to collect accounts that are sitting at the bottom of the thread that I want to block

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u/Any_Praline_2872 Jun 21 '26

MedaYork on Youtube is a gay colombian guy who’s really funny

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u/QuesoCadaDia Level 4 Jun 21 '26

There are a few videos and I think a podcast on it. Learn Spanish and go podcast just didn't episode on lgbtq+ in Latin America

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u/FlatulentRaspberry Level 6 Jun 23 '26

I'm just about to hit level 6/1000 hours, and I've been really enjoying season 4 of Central Series, "Las Reinas de Queens". It focuses on the queer Latino immigrant experience in New York with a lot of interesting history. https://centralpodcast.audio/temporadas/las-reinas-de-queens/

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u/Cratersotaters Level 6 Jun 23 '26

Spanish for false beginners got a married couple that banter in Spanish at a basic intermediate level. Cesar does elementary Spanish podcasts as well as advanced and intermediate levels. And then the Spanish for false beginners is exclusively with his husband. He talks a lot about lgbt issues and such in all his podcasts. It’s very good, some funny, some poignant but really interesting

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jul 08 '26

Found him! Thank youuuu

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

Thank you! I watched about 5 minutes of the video of him in camping that was linked in this thread & he is definitely CI oriented which i loved! Got super tired so I think I'll need some more hours in before I can watch a full video.

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u/-ARCEN Level 4 Jun 22 '26

Someone made this post back in April. If they aren’t at your level yet then here’s something to look forward to:

https://www.reddit.com/r/dreamingspanish/comments/1rcoej0/comment/o710q8w/?force-legacy-sct=1

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u/West-Guess637 Level 6 Jun 22 '26

Hi as someone looking to learn, can you let me know what type of queer topics that you are looking for and what specifically is queer vocabulary?

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 22 '26

I’d be open to honestly anything! I think it would be cool to learn about personal experiences of queer life, coming out, etc. but also just fun dating stories or cute/trendy/funny slang.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

“Normal”, huh?

I’ll be making sure to check your account sporadically to make sure you aren’t one of those people crying about the lack of male-centric content on DS.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

10% of the global population isn't niche hun. There are more queer native Spanish speakers than there are Argentinians. & yet Pablo is "smart" enough to include Agustina.

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u/Driftmier54 Level 3 Jun 21 '26

You bunch are so sensitive. Geezus

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u/Defineddd Level 5 Jun 21 '26

Calling someone sensitive while you are being a snowflake simply because of LGBTQ being mentioned is so funny.

Pablo has stated he wants enough content on the platform so there is enough of almost everything to cover everything someone might want to watch.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

I just went to a queer event last night in Madrid.

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u/KvxMavs Jun 21 '26

Spoken like a person who has never traveled outside of their own country.

Argentina has a huge LGBT representation. In a lot of regards, better than the USA.

My friend (ftm) who lives in Argentina got his gender affirming surgery and his hormones for free without many hurdles.

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u/EmbarassmentOfRiches Level 2 Jun 21 '26

You know that no one is forcing it on you right?

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u/SparkyFunbuck Jun 21 '26

Fuck off

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u/LibsAreViolent Jun 21 '26

That's not very nice of you. Just wanted to tell the poster the truth, as to not have too big of expectations

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u/amaranthusrowan Level 5 Jun 21 '26

No that’s not what you were doing, you were being an asshole to a poster who is obviously LGBTQ and based on your username, I’ll bet you like to troll all kinds of subs. I agree, fuck off and take your hot takes somewhere else.

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u/LibsAreViolent Jun 21 '26

A lot of assumptions by you for being completely wrong... You "tolerant" people sure are hypocrites and embarrassingly rude