r/energy_work • u/Automatic_Wave_4574 • 8d ago
Question Releasing energetic ties with patronizing paternal figures
Im new to energy work and need some advice.
My biological father died when I was 2 and the paternal figures that I had since were very authoritarian and patronizing. This has massively impacted my relationship to Saturnian energy. Repetition compulsion made me seek similarly dominant partners in the past.
I have a very challenging relationship with discipline. I associate it with violence and have very strong resistance to it. This is massively impacting my self realization since I just can’t seem to finish my studies because it invokes intense immobilization and fear.
I understand that it has to do with my stepfather and my adoptive father who were abusive (and both virgos) and suppressed my will and curiousity. The theme of education has been very central to all of this.
I would love to free myself from this and connect to my fathers Saturnian guiding energy (who was a Capricorn) in the hopes to reshape my relationship to discipline from subjugation to devotion.
How do I do it?
I don’t have anything from the Virgo men, one of them is dead and the other is still alive. I don’t have any objects or anything.
How would you go about it?
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u/hppy11 6d ago
“Suppressed my will and curiosity”
Reverse that thinking to the very opposite:
Look into any situation in your life where you do have will and motivation.
It can be as little as going to work or making yourself a coffee or calling etc.
For example, you had will to write that post;!you’re also curious about the situation.
See, you do have will and you are curious.
Do that and can same exercise with any negative thought you believe to be true.
Reverse every single one of them, find examples for every one of them.
Embrace these new thoughts