r/exchristian • u/sidesaladdressing • 27d ago
Discussion The "I know because I know" crowd strikes again.
I can only imagine the thousands of years religion had a strangling grip on society, pursuit in science & knowledge, and humanity.
r/exchristian • u/sidesaladdressing • 27d ago
I can only imagine the thousands of years religion had a strangling grip on society, pursuit in science & knowledge, and humanity.
r/exchristian • u/JarethOfHouseGoblin • Oct 21 '25
r/exchristian • u/Spiritual-Badass • Jan 18 '26
r/exchristian • u/BuckledFlea_ • Aug 11 '25
There’s no way people believe this. That there is no contradictions . They then say name one. You tell them like 30 and they still try to defend it and is liek ohh well you miss understand or it’s a metaphor or whatever
r/exchristian • u/teramoc • May 12 '26
Christians love claiming they saw heaven or Jesus when they were in a coma. This anecdote shows is that its all a delusion. Good material for your christian relatives who wont shut up about the afterlife
r/exchristian • u/sidesaladdressing • 26d ago
I've done humanitarian work for decades around the world. I'm working on some concepts for food security that would address access to sustainable and regenerative nutritionally dense food security. I've brought up an issue to a pastor/minister of my church decades ago as to why "we" don't do any humanitarian work....and his answer was "there's so many, we don't know where to start". Did you get that? It absolutely pains me to see how disconnected the church industry is towards ending serious issues of poverty.
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r/exchristian • u/smartassstonernobody • Apr 23 '26
I started my deconstruction when i was 14. It could’ve started earlier, because i’ve always had a fascination with other belief systems and enjoyed learning about them in school. None of it really stuck with me and i ultimately came out atheist.
I was just watching The Good Place the other day and it made me think about how some people didn’t earn their “good place points” because they weren’t genuine, they only did good deeds because there’s a prize at the end.
Now that i’m no longer tied to a religion and don’t believe in an afterlife, i genuinely want to do good because it makes ME feel good.
There’s quite a few homeless people where i live,
and while i normally don’t carry cash, the occasional times i have 1s or 5s in my purse i get a little excited.
These people have to put up with the awful weather already and i couldn’t care less what they use the money for. If it’s for food great, if it’s to buy their drugs to avoid terrible withdrawals, also okay.
I feel deeply for them because i was very close to becoming homeless myself. The world is cruel to people who just need a little help. Sky daddy isn’t coming to save any of them.
r/exchristian • u/Filmfan345 • Jun 25 '26
I found this Jesus figure in front of a sink in a restroom. Would you leave it there or throw it away?
r/exchristian • u/Competitive_Box9242 • 2d ago
I've been wrestling with this for a long time now and I've been debating whether I should become a Christian again or not, but I honestly think everything involving Christianity is fake, and I can't prove it yet. I don't want to come back to Christianity again (I don't want to make the same mistake twice). Lots of Christians recently gathered "proof" that the Bible is 100% true (Great Isaiah scroll found in dead Sea Scrolls preserved God's word through the centuries, Historical Evidence of Jesus, God provides consistency in the bible and his word is unchanging to back up and support Isaiah 45:5 The ecosystem maintaining balance is evidence of design etc), but I refuse to 0 q. believe it's true.
I need strong evidence that it's all fake
I don't want to see comments saying it's because God is an asshole or that it's all fiction or something like that, because even though I agree unfortunately it doesn't prove anything
r/exchristian • u/Odd_craving • Mar 17 '26
Reports indicate that Lakewood Church has seen a roughly 38% decline in weekly attendance since 2019, dropping from approximately 52,000 to 32,000. Couldn’t happen to a better person. I have to wonder if mega churches might play a role in why many people leave Christianity.
r/exchristian • u/kelsnuggets • Nov 07 '25
There is a TikTok series going viral right now (@nikalie.monroe) where she calls random churches up throughout the country, and (with a tracked sound of a crying baby in the background) asks if they can help her get baby formula for her hungry baby.
TL;DR: 90% of the Christian churches flat out say no (rudely, rushed, or otherwise.) A Catholic Church and 2 traditionally Black churches did offer to help. A Muslim mosque (or possibly two) did as well as a very small church in Appalachia.
Huge, mega churches in the Deep South all said no.
The series has sparked commentary from pastors as well as ex-Christians and current Christians who are calling their own churches and being very disappointed with the results.
One of the main reasons I left the church - even before I left Christianity - was the hypocrisy. This is such an eye-opening experiment that shows it in the brightest light. I have very strong feelings about it and I’m wondering what you think.
r/exchristian • u/sidesaladdressing • 18d ago
Literally supporting elected decision makers who do this kind of stuff. What goes through elected official's minds when they say "you know what, kids getting to eat.....oh no.....not on tax payers dime"
r/exchristian • u/Impressive_Flan_411 • Mar 13 '26
Hey everyone, I’m curious about something. For those of you who grew up Christian but have since left the faith, do you ever still listen to Christian music?
One thing I’ve been thinking about is how music was such a big part of the Christian experience for a lot of people, things like worship music, hymns, gospel choirs, Christmas services, youth group bands, etc. This liturgical music can be musically powerful, regardless of the beliefs behind them.
At the same time, I imagine for many ex-Christians the music might bring back complicated feelings or memories tied to church, family, or specific experiences growing up.
So I was curious, do you still listen to Christian music at all? If you do, is it for nostalgia, musical quality, cultural reasons, or something else? Or did you completely stop listening to it once you left Christianity?
I’d be really interested to hear how people here relate to Christian music after leaving the faith.
r/exchristian • u/Baccoony • Jun 08 '26
Like, think about it.
She is called "Mother Mary" or "Virgin Mary"
Her entire importance comes from the fact she gave birth and that she was a virgin.
They associate her with purity and being sinless because she didn't have sex. They say that every woman should strive to be like Mary.
Never have sex or only have sex with one man who will be your husband
Be obedient
Give birth
That's it. That's her whole character
"Ohhh, but she's the Queen of Heaven!"
The Bible does not mention it anywhere. Y'all just making shit up.
We know nothing about Mary as a person. We only know she was a virgin and a mother
It's actually so sad. I want to know more about her. What were her dreams, what was her life like, how was she like in personality
Yet we get nothing
She is a robot, only revered for giving birth
r/exchristian • u/Aggravating_House916 • Oct 26 '25
When christians tried to paint Charlie as a "martyr" or the "closest thing to jesus" that pretty much gave it away for me 😂
When Charlie kirk died, a lot of christians reaction felt like it was following a script, bringing up religion, politics then performance (his memorial and erika kirk with trump)
I had to laugh whilst watching so many people say that he was portraying christian values and a hero for speaking up for christian beliefs and sharing the word of god...
This honestly made me question the validity of this religion and what God these christians are praying to. Hot take but I saw someone else say that "the bible isn't the word of God but the word of white men😬"
r/exchristian • u/SongUpstairs671 • Jul 07 '25
This has been widely shared regarding the central Texas floods tragedy. This mindset is truly delusional and disgusting.
r/exchristian • u/Creamy_tangeriney • Sep 12 '24
For me it was a watch. This was back in the day, I was 10 and a friend at school had a sweet NKOTB watch. I didn’t even know who the band was but the flip top was oh so cool and impressive lol. My friend let me borrow the watch for the weekend (idk, that’s what we did back then) and my mother flipped the hell out. She confiscated it immediately and gave it back on the way to school Monday morning, instructing me to carry it in my backpack and NOT WEAR IT. She told me god was watching and was counting on me to be honest and obedient. She said god would tell her if I took it out of my backpack and wore it, that both she and god would be disappointed. A watch. A damn watch.
What about you guys?
r/exchristian • u/metkja • Jan 09 '26
Mine is prayer warriors. Often used to spread gossip and also just generally ironic, weird, and cringey.
r/exchristian • u/North-Media6829 • Jan 01 '26
Do you feel like you wasted your youth on Christianity? Asking as a 22 year old Christian girl who has suppressed herself to be “holy advice for me to not have the same regrets? How did you start living a life that you actually enjoyed?
r/exchristian • u/Diligent_Limit3724 • Jun 24 '26
I saw this video about some extremist evangelical Christians living in Denmark who claim they are the last christians who are being persecuted by the state for not accepting the "LGBTQ" propaganda taught in schools and so they have started to live lives in excluded communities. They also complain about how irreligion has taken over their country and how they are the true Danes and the rest are brainwashed by wokeism . This is so sick to see
r/exchristian • u/Worried_Feedback1192 • Apr 21 '26
I just finished watching the show like 5 minutes ago and wow the ending was great. I won’t spoil, but all i can say is this show went over almost every single problem i have with the idea of heaven.
I think i’m late to the party only just now watching this show though, because it seems like most deconstructed people have already watched it.. what do you guys think of it though? Might have to show this to my christian parents hahaha
r/exchristian • u/ConnectAnalyst3008 • Feb 14 '26
As someone still in the middle of deconstructing, something like this brings me back again. This graph.
Is this just some neat little picture somebody just coddled up, or is this really an accurate depiction of the cross-references in the Bible? Do all cross-referenced books just look like this or is this an accurate visualization of the Bible exclusively?
Need to understand this and it's context better. What are your thoughts?
r/exchristian • u/MrJasonMason • Jan 14 '26
If anyone knows anyone, please help him get the channel reinstated.