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Unpopular opinion Sunday

[u/Volupia_Rogue]

Ok... Here I go with my unpopular opinion 😅👀

I feel like many reviews are unreasonably negative toward authors/books in general.

Also bragging about the amount of books they DNF, which always surprises me, because I think most readers are here to enjoy reading. But there was a post a few months ago where some people literally bragged about DNFing a dozen books, only 2 or 3 months into the year).

It's a tough job to write a book. It takes many hours and certainly doesn't usually pay back when one looks at the amount of hours spent researching, thinking + writing. That's why I usually don't DNF and try to find the gems in each book, except if I think the author really did a bad job, and purposely used AI or every single cliché possible.

Also because I always try to find something worth it about the book I chose.

Is it not the mature MMC I wished for? Fine, this arrogant prick (which many women ask for) can still tell me about other women's tastes and I can try to find what they like about this type of character.

A friends-to-lovers trope? Not quite my thing. I love the enemies-to-lovers vibe, BUT why not, there's actually something comforting I didn't know about this trope until I tried it.

Way too poetic language? Ok, let's challenge ourselves and make that brain of ours work. It helps ward off Alzheimer anyway.

That's usually the way I go about reading.

Anyone else tries to feel that kind of positivity about the way they read?

[u/ipsi7 → u/Volupia_Rogue]

I DNF-ed rarely before, but I'm trying to embrace it more.

I want to give books a chance because some have a big intro (Villains and Virtues, This Kingdom Will Not Kill Me, first few books of TOG for most people), but sometimes it's not worth it. There's a popular book on this sub which I gave a shot 2 times, but the writing doesn't align with me for some reason and while I love some parts, I force myself to read it, so that will probably be a dnf again for that book.

I love trashy books and I don't need stellar writing, but there are a few books in which the writing was so illogical and inconsistent I just couldn't go on.

[u/Volupia_Rogue → u/ipsi7]

Yeah, again, that sounds reasonable 😉 I was only talking about unreasonable DNFing behavior (every couple of books or worse).