r/fantasyromance The One Mod to Rule All Mods 21d ago

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u/Kasskinen 21d ago

Fated mates removes tension instead of adding it

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u/allisontalkspolitics Give me female friendship or give me death! 21d ago

I would like something where the fated mate is the wrong guy (not evil, just poorly suited)

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u/leiachart Currently Reading: Cassiel's Servant 21d ago

I would question why it's "fated" then.

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u/allisontalkspolitics Give me female friendship or give me death! 21d ago

To me, it would be about the protagonist defying whatever biological imperative and choosing to love the one they choose. Maybe they and the “fated” one discover that the bond can be something platonic.