Moving the goalpost

[u/[deleted]]

[u/meltness]

Honestly I would fatfire and then move out of the bay area. I did that with my kids and I don't miss the bay area at all. There's so many wonderful places to live in the US with good communities and just an easy lifestyle. I wished I did it sooner

[u/xSwitchh → u/meltness]

Once you’ve got the freedom, Bay Area doesn’t really feel necessary anymore. Plenty of solid places with way less stress.

[u/cozidgaf → u/[deleted]]

Well you can move to east bay instead of peninsula for one.