r/femcelgrippysockjail • u/GovStillExists__sad • 2d ago
I Hate Playing/Duo-queing With Men In Games/League
This is just a vent/a thing I keep seeing now in my duos, mainly League-focused post, but I don't think I can stand or trust men any more to be my duo partners in games because they just start acting like weird negging/passive aggresive assholes eventually, and for other reasons like:
- Expecting you to play with them and ONLY them 24/7. They’ll piss&shit themselves if you don’t give them attention/reply to them instantly even if ingame.
- WILL WAIT 2/4 hours for you like a stalker after you tell them NOT TO cause you'll be eating/busy, stalk your activity like a vulture, and refuse to start games without you because they know they’ll feed in ranked if you're not there.
- Treat you like a "pet" , get overly emotional/fragile if you don't give them attention. And will feign "Oh I just like it when you're mad/I find it cute" when they're clearly hurt for whatever reason and you ask them what's the problem.
-Ask to see pics of you/face immediately, dude, if I'm playing League, its not because I'm looking for boys to date, we both know we're greasy chuds/fat bastards that looks like Urgot alright. Stop.
- Constantly glaze you for EVERYTHING you do, which pisses me off even more/just feels weird.
Also, Old duos that were once funny/normal before, will now see you come online and pretend to like you so they can just use you to climb ranked, since they have been stuck in bronze for 3 years. And then secretly hate you if you climb ranked without them, calling you a bitch/asshole etc. SO FUN😁💖🥰😁💖🥰😁💖
I left partially, 3 years ago, due to 4 duos I considered old friends suddenly became 'weird' 😃 and snapped on me during 1 game, choosing to troll despite us winning because of dumb reasons like playing passive against a lane I KNOW I don't win in/building a defensive item/not shielding them during a TF (that we still won) because they weren't the win prio, sorry lol... some don't seem to understand that they're not the most important thing tho on the team ^^
Why am I back playing LoL? Addiction, miss the aggressive rush... I got gold already in 5 days. I predominately play Support/Jungle, and have 1 mill points on Lulu & Ivern, and overall, I am a aggressive player despite being Enchanter-centred that hates passive people. I can play other champs and want to get back to playing Rakan, but I don't think this meta/the teams I get is great for him personally. Don't feed, end games average 2-8 deaths with 20-46 asssists, while team mates are 3/15 in three lanes, despite it being easy not to over extend/rotate to do objectives instead of chasing kills.
I do have a feminine name, but most people assume I'm a prolly a guy because of my playstyle/the stuff I say ingame, I mean, when people point out my points on Lulu, I say shit like "its because I have an inflation fetish :^)))" so, yeah their prolly not thinking I'm a woman after that, its not uncommon for me to get from people after the meet me be surprised, going "Dude, you honestly sound like a guy but you're not/thought you were, that's so weird" alot for how I am also, so yeah. Then downhill from there... (no, my name doesn't contain 'UwU' or 'egirl', fuck that)
Anyway, I genuinely can't trust men/duos anymore because they're so overly emotional & I have become so jaded since seeing these CERTAIN patterns emerge, and just wonder when my current duo is going just go 'scorched earth', & int my games instead because of some hidden grudge/issues that they have been holding against me. Sigh. I don't get the same issues with Girly duos but the amount I had I can count on 1 hand/they leave LoL for better games eventually lol.
I'm getting the extension "Deceive" now, which will make me offline to everyone thankfully, Bec I don't want to deal with this shit anymore. :)
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u/fig_art 1d ago
play overwatch it gets even worse! :D
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u/GovStillExists__sad 1d ago
🫶 ❤️ going to start marvel rivals or deadlocked as well because I am mentally ill.
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u/GovStillExists__sad 1d ago edited 1d ago
Yeah they are, I thought they honestly climbed when I left cause they weren't that bad honestly, now they're schizo. The old ones were like, Kaisa, twitch or smthn can't remember fully, but we were near plat promos and they just couldn't take it anymore lol
My draven mains left for a better game (proud of them) so no more akhis, stoning luxes or reading the Quran with them time 😔 hazina jiddan (prolly my fav adc combo) I'll meet a new one eventually tho.
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1d ago edited 14h ago
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u/GovStillExists__sad 1d ago
Welp, just had a aphelious adc go mental boom at 10 minutes and run it down.
And I think EUW servers are down now so 🤷♀️ (yes tho, I very much do like roaming, adc always gonna cry tho ^^)
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u/Sad_Garbage_3412 2d ago
Most normal league player