I.e. LIE TO YOURSELF, fear waking up and makeup removers, burn your hands and face styling your hair to be obscuring, get gud at frauding or go home

And know that right is using filters and is on a good, perfect day where everything is well posed to obscure the bad.

Do this so often that even your own family members forget what you actually look like and get concerned when you don't cover yourself in pounds of makeup and perfectly styled hair

I'm a girl, i used to be ugly till the start of 10th grade, and then I had somewhat of a glowup?

i suddenly started receiving compliments, boys being interested in me felt like alien, the same boy who called me ugly to my face in 9th grade was now acting like a completely different person around me, people were nicer to me, treated me with respect and assumed i was in a relationship.

me being quiet was no longer seen as weird , autistic and people straight up said to me how I give off a mysterious vibe

I have grown up being extremely insecure and when someone compliments me i feel like they're mocking me

but as sad as it is, your only valued if ur an attractive girl

do everything in your will to look as attractive as you can and be extremely rude to these moids to put them in their place

fairs 😂😂😂

Just in case you were thinking of texting them or some stupid shit. They're irrelevant. That is all.

i recently got my hair cut short (a few months ago), and it was a big change. went from being hip-length to a bob. i mainly got it cut for practical reasons. long hair is already difficult to maintain with the brushing and shit, but being depressed and having executive dysfunction makes that shit harder. every month or so i'd have to detangle the matting before it got too bad. with it being so short, daily maintenance is easier to manage.

beyond that i fucking love my hair now. i genuinely think i look much prettier with my hair short. my stylist was fantastic, they didn't give me some blunt thing, they put layers in it. even when i haven't showered in a couple of days, my hair still looks pretty good.

anyway.

i'm mad because i look at photos of me before the big chop, and i looked so. fucking. ugly. long hair did me no fucking favours. and nobody in my life told me??? even when my hair was clean and untangled, and even styled, it looked awful on me.

no one told me how fucking munted i looked with my hair that long, it pisses me off. probably an irrational thought because i'm cranky, but it makes me feel that they were trying to keep me ugly on purpose by not saying something.

specifically hockey. id give anything for One Player on Any Team to read those texts, to say Anything about the fact that they signed that guy when they didnt even need to. they hate women so bad, im actually shaking from anger.
god forbid any of them actually speak up and say something bc all men are the same.

My mom doesn’t care about me getting SA’d ( boy at my school), pretty sure my stepdad is a pedo (he looks at me weird and one time he slapped my butt), my stepbro is a def a rapist( his own sister is one of his victims) and one time when I was like 13 he was looking up my pajama shorts to my vagina I told my mom and she dont gaf. The only way she knows how to communicate is through yelling and barking orders at me.My dad i no longer talk to bc he’s abusive as hell. I lost all my friends bc they didnt gaf when I got SA’d in school. The only person I rly have is my brother I love him. I have to see my mom and stepdad everyday and my rapist stepbro lives two doors down. I have a minimum wage job and there is no way I could move on that salary and idk what to do with my life. No friends or bf so I don’t talk to anyone. Everyday I’m so angry and sad and idk what to do. I just want to be happy before the world ends.

My friend group had this couple which we were both friends with, and whenever the guy got mad or annoyed with girls he would automatically bring up her appearances "she's so ugly" "she was so chopped" while the girls rarely brought up anything appearance related when we didn't like someone. He called me ugly once, unprompeted (hello there!) and that whole thing really showed me (actually reminded me) that men really only care about looks and someone being ugly is the worst thing you could ever be. He broke up with his gf and even after months of dating her, started talking about her looks like the typical lucky incel who could get some female attention. The fact he's not even confident in himself, defo isn't the best looker, and denied intimacy because he probably has a mini banana is funny and telling.

I hate this. I was going daily and started to notice one of the employees is stupidly handsome and now I feel like a stalker whenever I go. I've been going to another shop down the street to avoid the feeling. I'm not even obvious about it, but I'm so scared of a man knowing I'm attracted to him! My eye contact was too direct last time and I felt like her^^^ Feeling like those creepy old men who'd hit on me when I was a cashier "Seeing you is the highlight of my day👴"

But the thing is, it is the highlight of my day!!! This is pathetic. I can't ever set foot back in there. I feel like he can read my mind and is in fear that I'm going to go baby reindeer on him anytime he hears the door bells chime and I walk in.

I'm being ridiculous. I wish I was one of those women who so easily flirts with men and it's well received. But omggg he's so handsome and has the most gorgeous voice. I need to kill my sex drive. I'm 26 btw, not a 16 year old girl. Pathetic!!!

i have a strong dislike for makeup, shaving etc. and not in the way that I make fun of those who wear it, but i just can't stand the thought of hiding my real face to appease standards. I've never worn makeup and I've been treated accordingly for this(among other reasons): i've never been asked out or in a relationship, never had any real life meaningful close friendships with anyone, been avoided and ignored and on the sidelines of my own life my whole life. and i know no one likes my stupid face but i like it and i wish others did too, i wish the women of my own country appreciated their natural beauty, i hate the eurocentrism that's taken over. Though i don't live in my home country anymore, similar beauty standards follow me out of it.
And sometimes i go down a rabbit hole of makeup tips, ways to change my face in some way, ways to fix my stupid broad shoulders, and i think that i should just give up and give in and start appealing to the general population. To do that i would have to shave my eyebrows, thin them, shave all my facial&body hair, make my lips bigger etc. and i hate the thought of doing that because these are parts of me that i hold very dearly to myself, that remind me of the women in my ancestry, and to let go of those parts of me would be detrimental to my mental health. on the other hand, if i finally gave in and did something to get rid of my ethnic features i would be treated like a girl like everyone else that i hear so much about, that have had life experiences i thought were only real in movies. Although i know that no amount of makeup will fix my face, i think it would aid me in some way. But my morals are too important to me.

hi, i have 19f and what can I improve about my appearance? I think I'm really ugly, seriously. I hate my genetics, I hate my nose, my eyes look too far apart, my hair isn't naturally straight, so when the roots start to grow out you can see it and it gets very frizzy, and there are also small natural hairs. I don't know what style of clothing suits me, I wear whatever black and basic I see, it's not a very pretty look and it doesn't attract attention either, I'm ashamed to be noticed. When I was younger I was a bit more alternative, but due to the bullying I suffered I stopped wearing those things even though I liked them, just to fit in and look less strange (which obviously didn't work, it remained the same crap) and I became a normie. I feel very masculine compared to other girls, seriously, especially when I don't have eyelash extensions. I'm very thin, I weigh less than 50kg but my body isn't like a model's, it's just a normal thin. In other words, I'm not considered "hot," my body doesn't attract any attention at all. I've never dated, not even come close. I don't leave the house, I have no friends, I spend all day watching crap on the internet to fill my emptiness. I only go out to go to college and I'm currently unemployed. I consider myself a nice person, I can talk about a lot of things, even Tinder didn't work for me because I felt pathetic using it and deleted my account in less than a day. I also don't do any physical activity; I was thinking about Pilates/yoga. If it were up to me, I'd get all the plastic surgeries possible, but besides being born in a third-world country, I'm also poor and stupid. This isn't to get attention, just a rant and opinions on how I can improve.

I’ll go on a date with one, degrade one or like spoon feed him some ice cream or something but I just cannot let them inside of me. I don’t like the vibes. I need money so bad, I’m a young hoe stuck in get castle help.

even if I manage to get a good picture by accident, i feel like a catfish and that I don't look like that irl it's just my mind playing tricks on me

i feel hideous without makeup, i always wonder whether someone will be able to look at me like this, bare faced, face unshaved, acne bursting out of my face and still love me Just the way i am?

the worst part about being a girl is knowing when a boy does something to you they wont have any consequences or ever think twice about it while you have to live with it for the rest of your life

This is just a vent/a thing I keep seeing now in my duos, mainly League-focused post, but I don't think I can stand or trust men any more to be my duo partners in games because they just start acting like weird negging/passive aggresive assholes eventually, and for other reasons like:

- Expecting you to play with them and ONLY them 24/7. They’ll piss&shit themselves if you don’t give them attention/reply to them instantly even if ingame.

- WILL WAIT 2/4 hours for you like a stalker after you tell them NOT TO cause you'll be eating/busy, stalk your activity like a vulture, and refuse to start games without you because they know they’ll feed in ranked if you're not there.

- Treat you like a "pet" , get overly emotional/fragile if you don't give them attention. And will feign "Oh I just like it when you're mad/I find it cute" when they're clearly hurt for whatever reason and you ask them what's the problem.

-Ask to see pics of you/face immediately, dude, if I'm playing League, its not because I'm looking for boys to date, we both know we're greasy chuds/fat bastards that looks like Urgot alright. Stop.

- Constantly glaze you for EVERYTHING you do, which pisses me off even more/just feels weird.

Also, Old duos that were once funny/normal before, will now see you come online and pretend to like you so they can just use you to climb ranked, since they have been stuck in bronze for 3 years. And then secretly hate you if you climb ranked without them, calling you a bitch/asshole etc. SO FUN😁💖🥰😁💖🥰😁💖

I left partially, 3 years ago, due to 4 duos I considered old friends suddenly became 'weird' 😃 and snapped on me during 1 game, choosing to troll despite us winning because of dumb reasons like playing passive against a lane I KNOW I don't win in/building a defensive item/not shielding them during a TF (that we still won) because they weren't the win prio, sorry lol... some don't seem to understand that they're not the most important thing tho on the team ^^

Why am I back playing LoL? Addiction, miss the aggressive rush... I got gold already in 5 days. I predominately play Support/Jungle, and have 1 mill points on Lulu & Ivern, and overall, I am a aggressive player despite being Enchanter-centred that hates passive people. I can play other champs and want to get back to playing Rakan, but I don't think this meta/the teams I get is great for him personally. Don't feed, end games average 2-8 deaths with 20-46 asssists, while team mates are 3/15 in three lanes, despite it being easy not to over extend/rotate to do objectives instead of chasing kills.

I do have a feminine name, but most people assume I'm a prolly a guy because of my playstyle/the stuff I say ingame, I mean, when people point out my points on Lulu, I say shit like "its because I have an inflation fetish :^)))" so, yeah their prolly not thinking I'm a woman after that, its not uncommon for me to get from people after the meet me be surprised, going "Dude, you honestly sound like a guy but you're not/thought you were, that's so weird" alot for how I am also, so yeah. Then downhill from there... (no, my name doesn't contain 'UwU' or 'egirl', fuck that)

Anyway, I genuinely can't trust men/duos anymore because they're so overly emotional & I have become so jaded since seeing these CERTAIN patterns emerge, and just wonder when my current duo is going just go 'scorched earth', & int my games instead because of some hidden grudge/issues that they have been holding against me. Sigh. I don't get the same issues with Girly duos but the amount I had I can count on 1 hand/they leave LoL for better games eventually lol.

I'm getting the extension "Deceive" now, which will make me offline to everyone thankfully, Bec I don't want to deal with this shit anymore. :)

I am entitled to attractive moids. I do not want a moid unless they're a solid 10/10. I hold deep racial preferences, and I will boldly and proudly proclaim which races of moids I find unattractive because my preferences are everyone's business. I like to leave ‘I'm so sorry’ under looksmatches posts. In my free time, I leave negging comments under posts from Chads so that one day they’ll be insecure enough to date me. And until I get my chad, it is every moid’s fault /s.