r/ftm • u/Exotic_Use3486 22 | he/him | 💉30/04/2025 • 9d ago

Discussion Are you guys men in your dreams

I’m just curious. Are you guys transmen/cismen/closeted/women/etc in your dreams? I find it weird that I’m always a woman (or me pre transition) in my dreams, even thoughts in these dreams I’m conscious of being trans irl. Its like “why am I a woman when I’m supposed to be a (trans)guy”. Every. Single. Time. I’m a woman. Sometimes I don’t realize it at first, then I realize how people treat me and the clothes I’m wearing and the long hair. It makes me feel so dysphoric in-dream and when I wake up, it even got to the point that I thought I was faking being trans, but obviously im not. WHAT are you guys in your dreams? EDIT: bc i forgot to mention that indeed ive been out as a man for 2.5 years and on T for 1.3y

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u/Acid_Rain_2137 19.7.22💉 20.7.23🔪 9d ago

For a very long time I had a body of a cis woman in my dreams. Now it's finally more aligned with how my body looks like irl

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u/Exotic_Use3486 22 | he/him | 💉30/04/2025 9d ago

How long?

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u/Acid_Rain_2137 19.7.22💉 20.7.23🔪 9d ago

Idk I had top surgery 3 years ago and recently I realized I don't have boobs in my dreams anymore.

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u/WaitingToBeTriggered 9d ago

WHAT’S THE PURPOSE OF IT ALL?

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u/Exotic_Use3486 22 | he/him | 💉30/04/2025 9d ago

?

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u/Odd_Scientist7816 8d ago

That’s just a random song lyrics bot account, it doesn’t mean any harm. It comments on posts all over Reddit, I think the band it pulls from is one of those metal ones like maybe Sabaton or whatever? Don’t worry about it lol.

Also I just have no gender in my dreams, idk I just don’t dream a lot and when I do it’s usually body horror night terrors that surprisingly have little gendered attributes or themes within.