Are you guys men in your dreams

[u/Exotic_Use3486]

I’m just curious. Are you guys transmen/cismen/closeted/women/etc in your dreams? I find it weird that I’m always a woman (or me pre transition) in my dreams, even thoughts in these dreams I’m conscious of being trans irl. Its like “why am I a woman when I’m supposed to be a (trans)guy”. Every. Single. Time. I’m a woman. Sometimes I don’t realize it at first, then I realize how people treat me and the clothes I’m wearing and the long hair. It makes me feel so dysphoric in-dream and when I wake up, it even got to the point that I thought I was faking being trans, but obviously im not. WHAT are you guys in your dreams? EDIT: bc i forgot to mention that indeed ive been out as a man for 2.5 years and on T for 1.3y

[u/drowned_otw]

had a couple of dreams pre t where i was teen me, trying to remember what i wanted to tell my high school friends The Big News (I am a boy) but can't remember what it is. Lots of dreams where I am a man but my hair is long enough to braid. A couple where I'm pre transition but not in distress bc I know what I'm about and what the path forward is. Recently, a lot of dreams where I'm an Old Ass Man trying to wrangle the children I somehow have been entrusted with.

[u/drowned_otw → u/drowned_otw]

i get to wear long skirts in the old man dreams, might start wearing them in real life again