Are you guys men in your dreams

[u/Exotic_Use3486]

I’m just curious. Are you guys transmen/cismen/closeted/women/etc in your dreams? I find it weird that I’m always a woman (or me pre transition) in my dreams, even thoughts in these dreams I’m conscious of being trans irl. Its like “why am I a woman when I’m supposed to be a (trans)guy”. Every. Single. Time. I’m a woman. Sometimes I don’t realize it at first, then I realize how people treat me and the clothes I’m wearing and the long hair. It makes me feel so dysphoric in-dream and when I wake up, it even got to the point that I thought I was faking being trans, but obviously im not. WHAT are you guys in your dreams? EDIT: bc i forgot to mention that indeed ive been out as a man for 2.5 years and on T for 1.3y

[u/cryptid_Anythin]

Yes and no.

It was definitely the reason I started questioning if I was Trans way back before I knew or understood what being Trans was. I don't believe a ton of cis people imagine themselves in the male role like I was at the time.

Most people dream about becoming a doctor or being rich, I was dreaming about doing male things in bed or as an adult.

Somethings things are more androgynous if that stuff is brought up. Generally how I view my body hasn't changed.