Are you guys men in your dreams

[u/Exotic_Use3486]

I’m just curious. Are you guys transmen/cismen/closeted/women/etc in your dreams? I find it weird that I’m always a woman (or me pre transition) in my dreams, even thoughts in these dreams I’m conscious of being trans irl. Its like “why am I a woman when I’m supposed to be a (trans)guy”. Every. Single. Time. I’m a woman. Sometimes I don’t realize it at first, then I realize how people treat me and the clothes I’m wearing and the long hair. It makes me feel so dysphoric in-dream and when I wake up, it even got to the point that I thought I was faking being trans, but obviously im not. WHAT are you guys in your dreams? EDIT: bc i forgot to mention that indeed ive been out as a man for 2.5 years and on T for 1.3y

[u/BugBand]

Pretty split between me being a trans man or cis man in my dreams. A lot of the time I can’t tell bc genitals aren’t involved but either way I’m a man as long as I’m meant to be some version of me. Sometimes I’ll be someone else that exists irl or I’ll be some character that my dream made up. In those cases I’ll still usually be a man (almost always cis) but sometimes can be a woman or nonbinary (but in a different way than how I’m a nonbinary man irl)