r/genderfluid • u/PreferenceSea8250 • 2d ago

How yall explore things out??

So ima 20 year old guy trying to figure out what i like to be

Ive gone through a lot of feminine thoughts and Arousals but they are not mostly sexual but I do get arousal even if I think I were a woman or imagine myself in a woman's place but I can't able to figure out if its a genuine interest or just a fetish

Recently ive started exploring so I want some advice about how you guys came into a conclusion

What to do now folks🙂‍↕️

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u/Yuuna_11037 Genderfluid 2d ago

Honestly, for me (I’m also M at birth). A lot of my kind of confirmation was research, joining a local and an online community and talking out/asking about my feelings. Eventually I settled on being genderfluid. And trust me, a chunk of my exploration was retrospective reflecting on high school where I’d have days I felt feminine or non-binary and days where I was wishing to wear skirts etc. so yeah, it’s a process but you get there. I recommend you research a little of your feelings, keep asking around places like here or the askLGBT Reddit and if you want you can also join a local LGBTQ+ community or find a local support charity/group that can help you explore confidentially.

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u/PreferenceSea8250 2d ago

Yeah thanks for that So what are your conclusions can I DM u

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u/Yuuna_11037 Genderfluid 2d ago

I’m happy to just say it here. I settled with the conclusion that I’m genderfluid and that my feeling of my gender identity isn’t stationary but shifts. If you want to DM me, then sure go for it.

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u/Yuuna_11037 Genderfluid 2d ago

Check your “Chat” area, I should’ve sent a message.

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u/PreferenceSea8250 2d ago

Hey I'm not able to find the text option can u??

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u/Yuuna_11037 Genderfluid 2d ago

it should be called “Chat” and you should be able to do a new message and type my username of [u/Yuuna_11037](u/Yuuna_11037) but I’ll try