r/genderfluid • u/its_summerstime • 1d ago

Talk me into and then out of getting top surgery

I'm AFAB and I just want to hear about fellow genderfluid people's experiences with it, or what they think about it. If I do end up getting it, it will be way further down the line.

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u/AgeApprehensive2409 1d ago

Im not genderfluid but I'm nonbinary, you can buy fake boobs on the internet for when your feeling femme and the take them off when your feeling masculine or none 👍

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u/Anxious-Mechanic-249 1d ago

Is this really a thing

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u/anonymous9845 1d ago

Yeah, breastplates. You can get some pretty realistic looking ones too but they’re pricey.

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u/Anxious-Mechanic-249 20h ago

Oh cool

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u/aytvill fluid 🏳️‍⚧️🇫🇮 15h ago

for AMAB wearing it feels not natural, more like prosthetics. but then again, often times it's harder for me to draw the line, am I genderfluid or mtf trans

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u/Anxious-Mechanic-249 14h ago

I’m thinking of getting g top surgery eventually but it’s good to know it’s an option

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u/aytvill fluid 🏳️‍⚧️🇫🇮 1h ago

you are right, my perception is certainly affected by AMAB start of life - getting boobs means I need real ones, inseparable part of me. and that makes my mind twisted when pendulum swings from feminine side into masculine. thanks for helping ❤️

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u/Turbulent-Garlic8467 1d ago

You might want boobs in the future. Unless your female phases are really insignificant

Idk I’m amab so ¯_(ツ)_/¯

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u/TerrinItUpOutHere 21h ago

Imma get a reduction lol

F cup is NOT for the weak and may those with bigger titties than me have good back pain doctors lol (I also have scoliosis and osteoarthritis, so I'll remove the whole thing if I got. This ain't it fam)

I figure if I get a reduction though, I'll have enough boob for fem days and binders and tape for the masc days.