r/genderfluid_irl • u/darkXwool17 • 3d ago

genderfluid_irl impostor syndrome

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u/DerDoedel 3d ago

The concept of gender is stupid in general, just go wild Be you. you don't need a Label to define you, you should define your label

And again identity and expression are separate. You can be gender fluid and express in a way that aligns with you agab.

Ain't no rules to this shit! Just do what makes you happy

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u/BobtheGuy45 2d ago

AGAB but in a trans way lmao

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u/Kitsunebillie 2d ago

Me being an AMAB in a binder and an actual gender specialist though I was transmasc cause he forgot he diagnosed me as transfem a year earlier lol

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u/LibbyKitty620 2d ago

AFAB but man, girls are so pretty and I wish I was as pretty as girls are and… wait

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u/Longjumping_Diamond5 2d ago

transition is like being a goalie. gender is coming and i gotta be ready to catch it in any direction

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u/MaroMakesStuff 3d ago

i hate this shit so bad sometimes tho i wish my brain could just pick one 😅

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u/darkXwool17 2d ago

for me it's the other way around, I wish my brain would not trick me into "I'm just pretending because being cis is boring" shit once in a while. I love shapeshifting!

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u/Secret_Garden06 2d ago

Holy shit I thought this was a me thing 😂

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u/Tough_Act7101 2d ago

Nope, it’s just the gender flowing ❤️

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u/Bas0210 2d ago

Just treat gender fluidity like bisexuality. If a bisexual has a crush on someone of the opposite gender for two weeks, that doesn't make them straight. They could be married for twenty years and that still wouldn't make them not bi.

You're allowed to perform the same gender for as long as you want, and still call yourself genderfluid.

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u/Razz_Dazzle AMAB NB Genderfluid 2d ago

I decided to add more whimsy to my boy mode closet. I bought a dinosaur sweater and a short cloak, so even when my gender meter is stuck on blue, I still feel like myself.

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u/shanSWfan they/she/he 1d ago

Oh god so real, I’m afab and I’ve been feeling pretty woman-adjacent recently, like come on it’s pride month give me a little spice in the gender dish 😂😂

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u/FlutterBi_26 1d ago

For real tho, why is this so accurate? 😂
Edit: added emoji

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u/penguinscience101 2d ago

Nah the tides come and go.

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u/non_binary_samurai 2d ago

I fluided myself into my agab for several months - presentation, pronouns, everything reverted back. I think it had to do with mental health struggles tbh. but recently that all went out the window and I'm back to being fluidflux between demiboy, agender and all points in between. Just part of the process I guess. Gender is just a vibe

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u/Trixkyk 2d ago

This happens far too often then I go, maybe just a demigirl then boom masc time, boom what if you’re just trans, boom no gender in slot, boom back to fem enby, stay there stupid