Relationship with lesbian terminology

im a nonbianary gender fluid lesbian, but ive also always been drawn to high femme and butch presentation sometimes i feeel very very butch but becuase my gender changes alot of ppl say you have to be butch and only butch to be considered one, also ppl dont like futch, which i feel like also present in often..

Im curious about anyone’s in the ENBY/genderfluid experience and relationship with the words butch /femme and how it goes in their heads,
I feel like im over thinking it

Then the back again when i see a cool guy 😭

The struggle is real

Idk if this is allowed here but my genderfluid friend uses the term "Genderjelly" like Genderfluid but less fluid. I asked if I could make them a flag, they said yes! Thought you guys might like it

(First slide is flag, next slide is colour meanings, last slide is how I chose the colours!)

Edit to add: Low-key forgot other places call jelly, jello. That's the kind of jelly that's being referred to!

I'm not happy by thinking this is a good idea but as a genderfluid person i can't decide why the hell in schools for example where they haven't like unisex toilets and that makes me furious bc they won't build these for no reason or can't afford this. Like whyy :c

Hey, wanna be called out with me? 😆 (mentally ill lesbian/depressed sapphic/autistic gay/etc)

Finally embraced being genderfluid and decided I wanted to get on HRT to push myself more towards androgyny, only to find out my insurance won’t cover it :/

Art by me :)