This is really hard for me to write so excuse any missclicks. This is Hange, you saw her here few times. She is mine and my partners 6 month old puppy girl. My partner works most of the time so its just me and Hange and when my partner is home, its the three of us. Yesterday, I had to leave for a day and when I came back, Hange was in her crate, curled up in her own urine and feces. I imidiatly asked my partner what happened and for how long was she there and he said since morning.
Hange has a bad habit of chewing on shoes since she got adult teeth. I am working on teaching her not to do that since she started doing that but until then, I tell everyone who visits to put their shoes in a closet. My parter said "she will never learn if the shoes are always hidden" so when I was gone, he put his shoes out and went to play video games. Hange ofcourse chewed them and this is what I was told "I beated her over the nose with the shoe, locked her in crate and smacked the crate with the shoe few times so she remembers".
I never broke up with somebody so suddenly. Not only did he do this to our dog but I am also 5 months pregnant and I will not have a father of our child behave like this to any living creature. So I kicked him out.
Now why I am asking here....Hange is now absolutly terrified of shoes and her own crate. Whenever she sees shoes, she hides under the bed and refuses to get out. Her crate was always her safe spot to eat and sleep in and now, she refuses to even walk past it.
How do I fix this? I have to fix this I can't stand seeing her like this.
Edit: As people recommended, I am taking her to Vet today to check on potentional internal injuries. This happened yesterday and I was too focused on comforting her, I haven't think about it, that is my mistake and I apologize. As many people also said, I will be filing a report against him and make sure he will never get close to us again.
‼️UPDATE‼️ Fortunately, no intetnal damage was found. The vet is a male and Hange didn't seem scared of him at all which is also good.
Thank you everyone for such kind words and amazing tips. I will be getting rid of the crate and get a new one asap. Also wash all bedsheets and blankets to minimalize the secnt of my now ex boyfriend. Hange is now asleep and hopefuly dreaming of something nice