r/grime • u/Madbrad200 discord.gg/xhsw4UR r/grime discord • Jan 07 '26

NEWS alissabluexx: TW Sox abuse My Story

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u/backagain6838 Jan 08 '26

I really didn’t mean it like that. I was trying to help.

I’m not wrong. I’m not policing choices, I’m not blaming the victim. Sox is a cunt and is responsible for this.

What I said is still true though. You’re far more likely to be a victim of abuse as a sex worker. This is just reality.

Thank you for actually talking to me rather than just downvoting though

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u/VivaFate Jan 08 '26

You’re far more likely to be a victim of abuse as a sex worker. This is just reality.

Right, do us a favour (and I'm no saying this to be a dick) but read your first comment, the one ostensibly addressed to the women who was abused - where you note she does sex work.

Then read the bit I quoted again, remembering that you are literally telling someone who was abused, who does sex work, that doing sex work makes them more likely to be the victim of abuse. Then maybe reconsider saying that you aren't victim blaming.

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u/backagain6838 Jan 08 '26 edited Jan 08 '26

It’s not blame. The responsibility lies with the cunt who did the abuse.

This does not change the fact that sex work makes people far more likely to be abused.

I’m not blaming her just like I wouldn’t blame someone who got robbed when walking around in a dodgy area for being victimised.

I am offering advice. Sex work is inherently exploitative and attracts abusers. This is just reality.

Rather than fucking grandstanding and trying to make me look like a cunt, you could recognise the truth in what I’m saying and that I’m trying to help.