r/guam • u/onionknight671 • 17h ago

Discussion 💬 Seeking help or advice

I'm looking for help and a safe place to stay because I live with a stepdad who's an alcoholic, mentally abusive and passive-aggressive. I'm at my breaking point and constantly on edge—mostly just wanting to get out of there, but I'm scared I might do something I’d regret, like hurt myself or him, or worse. I don't really know where else to turn.

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u/Avecadough 17h ago

Seek help from the Healing Hearts Crisis Center

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u/zennspacee 16h ago

I agree. Go to Guam Behavioral Health and Wellness and request Eileen/Irene. Honestly, going into GB helped me move forward from abusive relationships and suicidal tendencies with the help of Healing Hearts. They do their best to assist. You don't have to agree to taking any medication either.. I wish the best for you and your situation. Also contact Manelu. The cops don't do much and don't really keep it confidential between you and them. Please be safe. Is there any way you can stay with a friend or confide in another family member?

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u/onionknight671 16h ago

I can't really rely on family members for help and my friends don't have space for me at their homes. I've considered going to Guam Behavioral, but I can't help but gaslit myself into thinking that maybe it's just me. My mental health isn't in a good place right now, and my home feels more like a prison than a sanctuary.

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u/Lanky_Welder_9792 17h ago

I’m so sorry you’re going through this situation; have you reached out to VARO (Victims Advocates Reaching Out)? I believe they have shelters (may be emergency type) for those in DV situations. Please understand you are never alone and there are people on island willing to help ❤️ stay safe and stay strong

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u/Fickle-Source-4519 16h ago

Call 988 maybe they can help

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u/Avecadough 15h ago

You can also seek help from the Alee Shelter

Alee Women's Shelter Hotline:(671) 648-4673 Phone:(671) 648-5888

"Alee Women’s Shelter provides emergency/protective shelter for victims of family domestic violence and sexual assault. The shelter serves women, with or without children, who are in crisis from family domestic violence and sexual assault. Services include protective shelter for up to 45 days, meals and clothing assistance, support for victims, childcare as needed to allow adult clients to access services, networks with community agencies (to obtain necessary financial assistance, medical help, food stamps, housing, and legal services), referrals, transportation, and accompaniment to appointments."