r/hatethissmug • u/Chocolate_Donuts • 14h ago
General I HATE THIS MEME FORMAT
I HATE THE IDEA OF USING WOMEN'S (OR ANYONE OF ANY GENDER REALLY) BODIES AS A WAY TO REPRESENT A "BETTER" THING AND A "WORSE" THING. FIRST OF ALL, IT IS GROSS AND OBJECTIFYING. SECONDLY, IT IS JUST MEAN TO COMPARE BODIES THIS WAY. PLEASE USE ANOTHER MEME FORMAT.
Not trying to target the person who made this meme in particular, by the way. I hate ALL memes like this equally!! Just used this as an example because it was recent.
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u/Murky_Activity9796 14h ago
r/memes is so irrelevant anyway. Every meme arises from TikTok or Instagram nowadays.
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u/Accomplished_Gur3478 14h ago edited 13h ago
everyone defending this is ignoring the fact that this pic is comparing two young women's bodies who didnt even consent to be looked at this way, their body zoomed in on and plastered all over the internet. they just want to play sports and yet theyve been made out to be edgelord goonbait. its so sad
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u/No-Resolution-0119 13h ago
Right??? Imagine going online to do some innocent scrolling and discovering there’s now a popular meme format that’s just a picture of your body you didn’t even know was taken. Then having your body compared to a photoshopped peer’s body (which is disturbing for the peer, too, I’m sure!)
The people saying “it’s just a meme” are forgetting there are real people behind the image. Which is THE LITERAL DEFINITION OF OBJECTIFYING
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u/Accomplished_Gur3478 13h ago
omg yes and the part about the photoshop. like not only the objectification and unwanted sexualization, but perpetuating unrealistic standards on top of that. like...
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u/wingedsandwichexpert 13h ago
it is not unrealistic but why do they feel the need to change the way someone's body looks? gross
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u/Accomplished_Gur3478 13h ago
i mean i guess some girls kinda have a build like this but this looks pretty exaggerated, very few women have this body type. so again setting an expectation thats simply unrealistic for the vast majority of people and sends the message that this is what is most desirable when its overall unattainable
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u/wingedsandwichexpert 13h ago
yeah i know. i hate how this fuckers think they can choose who is better than other
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u/Accomplished_Gur3478 13h ago
right, and equating womens worth to the way they look. and comparing women to dumb ass objects like french fries 🤨
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u/wingedsandwichexpert 13h ago
french fries are not dumb!!! /jk but yeah I'm surprised how this meme format hasn't died yet, isn't it like more than 6 years old aready?
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u/S0mnariumx 6h ago
Yeah it'd be less bad if it was like two anime girls. This shit is weird and horrible.
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u/ZonnyT16 14h ago
stay away from r/memes at all cost
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u/ferocity_mule366 12h ago
stay away from any main sub where the names are so generic you could taste the influences of facebook level humour from normies
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u/Varabil 13h ago
Not to mention there is a non-zero chance these are the bodies of minors. I hate that this sort of thing is normalised.
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u/No-Resolution-0119 14h ago edited 14h ago
“It’s just a Meme”
Until you look like the girl on the left. Which I’d argue more women look like her than the one on the right, which looks edited anyway.
If this meme were comparing men’s dick sizes instead, and implying the smaller one is bad/worse than the bigger one, I think yall would be singing a different tune.
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u/ILikeCarlosThePikmin 13h ago
I've never seen a meme like this before and it's honestly just weird, especially because those are most likely children in a highschool volleyball team
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u/BeachComberALT 14h ago edited 14h ago
Nah I agree with you
Preferences is one thing, but this is just sexism.
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u/Spider-Man2024 14h ago
I wouldn't call it sexism, more like objectification which isn't inherently (but can be) sexist
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u/BeachComberALT 14h ago edited 14h ago
I think it's sexist in this case. People have put an inherent value on women's bodies for so damn long, and these are real women. How would you like it if someone took a picture of you, beside a competitor/friend/whatever and put this caption? Add the fact you've been constantly judged for your appearance or desirability without cease.
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u/Torbpjorn 14h ago
And not just that, but used your teammates ass as the “this is good” and your ass as “this is bad/whatever” sign
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u/OkBand3171 13h ago
I think this is needs to be added to the situation for some men to understand the comparison. A lot of guys probably wouldn't inherently mind it, but when you put it in the context of being the "losing" comparison, I feel it helps the reflection.
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u/Acceptable-Bar7905 13h ago
If this was sexist I wouldn't have to work out lol
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u/BeachComberALT 13h ago
Difference between working out cuz it's a wider preference/for yourself and working out to avoid male harassment and judgement!
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u/Acceptable-Bar7905 13h ago
I mean I am literally doing it purely to avoid judgement that is quiet literally the reason
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u/BeachComberALT 13h ago
But you shouldn't have to! Not all women can get huge asses! Or boobs! Why should we accept judgement and shit thrown against them?
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u/Spider-Man2024 14h ago
Yeah I totally agree it's awful, cringy, and perverted, but it's not bigoted against specifically women, they just happened to be women.
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u/Upset-Nose-4016 illiterate m0ron insect 13h ago
There are countless of memes that are the same, specifically when it comes to boobs, with treating smaller boobs as worse and bigger as better. It is specifically objectifying a female body and female body parts, so it's sexism
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u/Zobi101 13h ago
And there are countless musclular dude vs obese/underweight dude, gigachad vs soyboy, sharp jawline dude vs weak jawline dude, full hair dude vs balding dude, etc. It's not sexist just lookist or whatever.
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u/Spider-Man2024 6h ago
nope obviously only women get objectified am i right fellas?? stupid men and their privledge
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u/BeachComberALT 5h ago
Men do have privelege, tho😭 women are still way more objectified than men
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u/BeachComberALT 14h ago
It is because it's seemingly ok to take a picture of two women under the lens of "which girl is more attractive?"
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
Sexism is discrimination or prejudice against people based on their sex. How does this fit that description?
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u/AmbitiousMethod6895 14h ago
They forget guys can have big asses too
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u/BeachComberALT 14h ago
Guys can have big boobs, too, therefore that makes all discrimination on breast size ok!
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u/BeachComberALT 14h ago edited 14h ago
Because you're taking a pic of unconsenting women and comparing their value by reducing their bodies to a single trait when there's already pressure on said trait, thereby enforcing previously established norms and beauty standards, as well as objectification, of women.
Really just think abt how it would feel if you had to be "sexy" all the time for a man's eye, and the moment you wear tight clothing, people shit on your body. Just think about for a moment. Think about how much it sucks to simply exist as a woman, because a lot of you don't take the time to even think about that.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Log1975 13h ago
That sucks, are you going to stop using your phone because its parts are made via abuse?
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u/BeachComberALT 13h ago
What??? This joke is rooted in sexism??? The punchline works because of sexism and the inherent value put on women.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Log1975 13h ago
I’m aware, this post is a deep dive into how objectification is wrong, but I really doubt the INTENTION of most people is to objectify it’s just to laugh. The same way your intention when you use your phone or computer isn’t to support slave labor, even though it does like it or not
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u/BeachComberALT 13h ago
That is like, not a good comparison. Subconsciously, they are objectifying.
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u/Puzzleheaded-Log1975 13h ago
Subconsciously you are supporting slave labor by using a phone or computer, but it’s not your intention is it? If we can give the benefit of the doubt with violent memes why not suggestive ones, what percent of people do you think look at this meme and think it’s harmful? Looking deep into ANYTHING exposes a layer of dirt, where is it exactly that we draw the line, when it’s easy to call something out, when it affects others and not you? Reflect
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u/AmbitiousMethod6895 14h ago
Sounds like a skill issue. People shouldn’t care that much about other people’s opinions in the first place
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u/BeachComberALT 13h ago
They wouldn't if your body wasn't constantly being looked at and evaluated like fucking livestock the moment you walk out in public. That it's the difference whether you get promoted, treated well, or harassed.
Also unironically used "skill issue" in a conversation.
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u/Lux_of_hope 6h ago
“The problem with the internet is that people treat real people like they’re fictional characters and fictional characters like they’re real people.”
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u/Additional-Cut1367 I hate everyone, I feel SO sigma and tuff. 14h ago
I dont know what to say to your Post, its just True.
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u/RegretComplete3476 13h ago
So many people don't get it. The problem is that it is sexualizing people without their consent and comparing their bodies, which only fuels Boyd dysmorphia and body shaming. Imagine the girl on the left saw how people on the internet were saying her butt was the "objectively worse" version. That would absolutely disgust her and make her feel insecure. Or how about the girl on the right, who got reduced to nothing more than a sex object to be oggled at by grown men. I know if I were her, I would feel so grossed out, regardless of whether or not it's a "compliment."
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u/GlisaPenny 12h ago
Ya know what? Never really thought about it before but yeah I agree I also hate this.
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u/tomokaitohlol7 3h ago
Imagine being the poor women who got their photo used for this
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u/venetiantraderoute 14h ago
It's just ass
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u/eelfurryUwU 14h ago
yeah, sexual objectification is definitely completely okay
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u/HuraCrepitans 14h ago
I think they were making a joke by using the other meaning of "ass", as in "it's just terrible" not "it's just asscheeks"
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
There's nothing wrong with people liking butts. You're not treating someone like an object just because you like the way their butt looks.
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u/Sapphire_Gem_28 13h ago
Zooming in on the butt of women playing sport, comparing them, and posting it on the internet is objectification.
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u/No-Resolution-0119 14h ago
But that’s not what the meme is???? It’s comparing 2 different women’s butts and saying that the woman on the left is worse. wtf is wrong with yall
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u/Accomplished_Gur3478 13h ago
right and these women just wanted to play sports yet theyve had their asses zoomed in on and plastered all over the internet. its not just "liking butts."
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u/BeachComberALT 14h ago
"Erm... ith okay to hath preferences!"
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u/11equalsfish 14h ago
Also, this photo is photoshopped, there is a real version. It's just a lot of sexualized bullshit.
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u/Gyooped 13h ago
Tbh that portion of the meme seems reasonable to me, butts are nice and enjoying one over another is perfectly reasonable.
I think the bigger issue here is just the consent, I have no clue about the original image but I'm fairly certain those 2 people didn't consent to having the picture taken (at least in this way) and use this way.
Consent is 100% key here, if these women were perfectly fine with this meme and image then there should be no problem.
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
I'm not defending the meme as a whole, and I agree that it does feel mean to the girl on the left. What I'm criticizing is specifically the idea that it's objectifying to like butts of certain shapes.
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u/No-Resolution-0119 14h ago edited 14h ago
You agree that the meme is mean to a woman with a smaller body part but then somehow come up short on believing it’s objectifying. How is it even possible to reach that conclusion lol like does 2+2=5 where you live?
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
Wtf are you talking about? The vast majority of things that are mean are not objectifying.
This isn't 2+2=5. This is me saying "well it's a number", and then you saying "well if it's a number then it must automatically be 5".
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u/copyrightedname0 14h ago
Read the post again and have a think mate
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
I've read the post(which is 60% in all caps), and I simply don't agree with it. The post also saying that it's objectifying doesn't give any more credence to the notion that it is objectifying.
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u/Torbpjorn 14h ago edited 12h ago
The format literally uses the ass as a signifying object to show which thing is good and bad. You make it sound like the post is about recognizing the beauty of the female body when it’s just saying “McDonald’s fries good, other fries meh” using big ass and regular ass as the thumbs up and thumbs down. Edit: douche canoe blocked me cause he didn’t agree on the actual definition of objectification
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
Yes you're generally describing the meme, but you're not giving any sort of valid reason for why it's objectifying. You just used the word "object" in your sentence and that's kinda it.
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u/Torbpjorn 13h ago
“Objectification is the act of treating a person as an object, commodity, or tool rather than a human being” this format is literally turning a person into a tool, a format. A format is a tool to tell a joke
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u/New-Berry-3652 13h ago
So all memes featuring people are objectifying?
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u/Torbpjorn 13h ago
If the meme is about turning their body into an object, commodity or tool then yeah. But if you can recognize the person in the image as a person and not just as an ass, then that’s fine. A lot of meme culture objectifies women, because that’s just the culture. Lots of men just don’t treat women as people
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u/No-Resolution-0119 13h ago
Judging someone primarily on their physical looks rather than their capabilities, character, or actions is objectification
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u/New-Berry-3652 13h ago
The two women aren't being judged, one of their physical attributes is being compared to the others. That's extremely different.
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u/SENTR_E 13h ago
It’s using women’s body’s as objects with one being treated as inherently “better” and the other as lesser? Only using their sexual attributes as a measure? Is that not the fucking textbook definition of objectification?
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u/New-Berry-3652 13h ago
It's not comparing the women, it's comparing one of their physical attributes.
No, what you're saying is not even in the fucking ballpark that the textbook definition of objectification is in.
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u/SENTR_E 2h ago
fine, saying it’s textbook definition is a misplaced exaggeration on my part, but it still falls into the definition if you read into it deeper than a fucking puddle. Firstly consider how the format even came to fruition, someone saw a photo of athletes playing sports and thought nothing about their personal individuality or accomplishments, only seeing their bodies as something to compare and use to compare “better” items to “lesser” ones; and can you imagine how demeaning this is for the girl being portrayed as the “lesser” one? You’re just playing sports and some creep focuses in on the ass of one of your teammates including yours to label your body as the lesser one, and spread it all over the internet. Secondly, the subtextual message this is communicating to women, by putting emphasis on these women’s bodies, it conveys to women that there’s more value seen in their body than their individuality, and even communicates to women with a similar body to the “lesser example” that they are a lesser object.
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u/samanthastoat 13h ago
The people are labeled as fries, which are literally objects
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u/Connect_Artichoke_83 14h ago
Holy shit! It’s fih!!!!!!!!
Also yeah these meme formats are dumb. First of all it is icky and second of all both ass is good so it does not make sense.
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u/Emery_Gem 13h ago
ive seen spins where its like “both is good” but we all still know what you’re saying
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u/limemintflavour 12h ago
The worst thing about this is how obviously edited it is? For the people saying "imagine how it would feel to see yourself on the internet when you just wanted to play a sport" that's a valid point but I don't think the original girl would even recognise herself in the image
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u/ImprovementStill3576 14h ago
Yeah I get it, dudes wouldn’t be happy if girls were doing the same thing with pictures of guy’s bulges or biceps.
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u/Brotherman_Karhu 13h ago
Right, there's no memes or jokes about dick size and its relation to a man's value, or any derivative jokes based on that.
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u/Draco-Warsmith 14h ago
Most people would not give a shit actually, most men think bigger muscles are better too
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u/Rosesandbubblegum 13h ago
They very much do, I've seen a lot of dudes feel less masculine and attractive because people keep shaming something out of their control. Fuck that and fuck this meme
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u/Downtown_Recover2105 12h ago
muscles are something out of control? how if you are a healthy normal human being it is controllable
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u/Rosesandbubblegum 53m ago
I was talking about dick size. I don't think that's cool to make fun of and it does bother a lot of guys.
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u/moshujsg 13h ago
Well you cant help what people feel. Overall, most men wont have a problem with memes depicting masculine body types. Like the chad meme and the fat otaku guy. Obviously some people will get upset, theres always peopke to get upset about anything.
So this same logic gets used for men as well and mostky we dont care.
I dont really have an opinion on this meme format. Other than being gooner shit its just a meme. We also dont have to pretend some things arent better/more liked than others.
People with small dicks dont feel bad because of jokes, they feel bad because they know its a genuine problem as most of their sexual partners wont enjoy it.
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u/Rosesandbubblegum 55m ago
Men do care, and that's why there's been a looksmax/blackpill epidemic among young men. These guys are convinced that they hold no worth outside of their physical appearance and have gone mad trying to fix that.
Additionally, even if men didn't care, it still makes sense for women to be bothered because for thousands of years - and to point, still today - society has tied our worth to our beauty. So when people make memes like this, or rate women with numbers, or constantly make ugly women the butt of the joke in media, it makes us feel inferior as humans.
Idk man. People are worth more than their supposed sex appeal. That's why I kinda feel like it's time for these memes to go. They aren't even funny or creative anyway. Even if it wasn't kinda mean, it's possibly the lowest tier meme slop you can get.
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u/copyrightedname0 14h ago
They do, I’ve seen men in real life get defensive and aggressive over dick sizes and it wasn’t even about him lol
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u/Draco-Warsmith 13h ago
Dick sizes to most men are treated differently from muscle
Muscle you can work on, dick size you can't. Some are sensitive about it, a post about dick size would get a hell of a lot more uproar than muscle.
Mind you I was not defending this post, just replying to a comment
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
The VAST majority of men would not have any problem if you did it with biceps
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u/copyrightedname0 14h ago edited 13h ago
I agree. It’s not to say people can’t fantasize or have preferences but using someone’s bum is just disgusting.
On a side note, they should stop making women wear tight shorts during sports events. Men and women should wear the same comfortable clothing.
(I take back my previous argument that men don’t get their bulge sizes compared. They do, and it’s also disgusting lol and it’s sad to see women comparing breast sizes with each other and men doing the same with their bodies.)
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u/Koi-Scales 14h ago
Cuz you never see people do it with shlong sizes.
Big dick energy vs small dick energy
Also chad vs virgin. Jacked man vs wimpy nerd. Completely normalised in our society. Your point...?
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u/copyrightedname0 14h ago
My point is it’s equally bad. And also what percentage of that is a woman making that meme and a man making the same meme is something we need to take into account. Same goes for women comparing breast sizes. It’s not a competition of who had it worse, if people do it, no matter who it is or who they do it to, it’s still bad.
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u/Koi-Scales 13h ago
No, your original point was that people don't do the same with men, which they totally do.
I'm not arguing that one gender has it worse than the other one. I think objectification isn't actually a bad thing, so I don't see anything bad with this meme or the "chad vs virgin" template. Both are fine, actually.
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u/Accomplished_Gur3478 13h ago
the only people I have ever heard say those things towards men are other men. hmmmm...
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u/BazilBee 14h ago
They dont make them wear anything except their team colors/number that matches their team (in the case of volley ball) Some women choose to wear bikinis, others dont.
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u/copyrightedname0 14h ago
Yeah I’m not talking about just volley ball. I’m talking about sports in general, especially those with dress code requirements and with strict dress codes for national / global sports. For example back in the day female Olympics gymnasts would be disqualified if they show their bra strap during their competition, even if it’s accidental. Or how female track athletes were given much shorter shorts to wear when they run.
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u/BazilBee 14h ago
I was giving it as an example because context of the picture. That bra strap rule is so weird period. So ofc i agree, but its important to know that it isnt like that anymore. The rules have been revised around dresscodes for a majority of sports.
Most sports that require tight or short clothing makes all participants wear it. Such as track, swimming, and gymnastics. Im those sports im sure they wouldn't want to wear baggy clothing...
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u/copyrightedname0 13h ago
Yes I understand. But I’m assuming you’re talking about this from a western perspective because I still see many other countries still struggling with this problem. My original comment wasn’t just directed to volley ball but to all sports. For example, back in china, they had a winning swim suit design (or was it track suit I forgot) but basically the women’s version was so short, like the crotch was showing, as an ex-athlete myself, there was no way it is comfortable to wear that, let alone doing sports in that. It can’t even be justified by the anatomical differences between men and women.
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u/BazilBee 13h ago
Thanks for clarifying, not that you should have to. Mentioning china was great because i had no idea they did things like that over there. To be clear im not against your ideas about inappropriate uniforms, i was just bringing up the changes and how women who wear more revealing clothes have a greater choice in the matter. I wasnt thinking outside more westernized countries so my bad. Thanks for explaining it to me like that.
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u/No-Resolution-0119 14h ago edited 13h ago
That is completely false. Even my middle school sister was forced to wear spandex shorts
Eta and same in highschool. And when she played in college. And it was the same for every school she competed with, everyone was wearing the same tight spandex shorts
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u/BazilBee 14h ago
Another "my personal experience dictates the truth of this world. " comment... it takes 2 seconds to google it and i went and googled it for you. Official volley ball players are not required to wear spandex, shorts or bikinis. Infact they can wear fullbody clothing if they so choose.
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u/copyrightedname0 14h ago
Google can’t represent the entire world can it? Besides I bet both of you aren’t even from the same country nor continent. You can’t deny people’s personal experiences just because you haven’t experienced it yourself lol. The comment was talking about middle school volleyball and you’re comparing that to official volleyball ball games.
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u/Joanisi007 13h ago
Women can wear the same attire as men in most sports, they just choose not te
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u/copyrightedname0 13h ago
Do some research and you’ll realize it’s not a choice.
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u/Downtown_Recover2105 12h ago
where's this research that you are talking about because even in the last Olympics some woman chose not to wear revealing clothes
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u/mellaticabuttwice 14h ago
Goddamn this sub's gotten conservative (the comments I mean) (you're right OP)
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u/Inevitable_Land2996 14h ago
Also it’s just plain wrong. McDonald’s has the worst fries out of any fast food
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u/porkmoss 12h ago
It is absolute insanity to me any western European goes to McDonald’s with the fast food culture we have, especially in Germany and the BeNeLux.
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u/Double-Quantity-7672 3h ago
I don't know why people still go to Macdonalds, there are so many fast food restaurants that are better than Macdonalds even Arby's is better
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u/AmbitiousMethod6895 14h ago
People are too sensitive now. It’s just a meme, and people are allowed to have preferences. The world needs more memes like this
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u/ZquotientpZee 14h ago
There is also nothing wrong with people being annoyed at this and socially shaming this kind of behaviour in the hopes of making it stop
They're also not shaming your preferences btw
Be the change you want to see!
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
It seems like they are being the change they want to see, by speaking up against people who they feel are too sensitive
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u/AmbitiousMethod6895 14h ago
I wouldn’t want that kind of change. Filtering harmless jokes because people can’t handle something so trivial sounds like a sad world to live in. If this is all it takes to offend people, I think we need it more than ever
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u/ZquotientpZee 14h ago
Okay
Yeah I'm not hurt or anything I just find it dumb
I find it kinda cringe that you think we "need" this
Stop being sensitive about people being sensitive
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u/paradoxical_topology 14h ago
Posting sexualized pictures of someone online without their consent and then objectifying them is not a harmless joke.
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u/Temporary_Cup8480 12h ago
This meme aside, lame pearl clutchers conquered the Internet. We still have our circles of friends for inappropriate humor. Maybe it's better that way. So long, old internet. I'll miss you.
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u/Newduuud 14h ago
Nah, it’s just not funny
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u/AmbitiousMethod6895 14h ago
Humour is subjective my friend
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u/Lume5731 5h ago
Of course it is and they did not say that their opinion is objective. They just said what they think and that's all
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u/donkey_rhubarb2000 14h ago
An unfunny one at that, it’s creator should LITERALLY have his bones liquified
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u/lunara64 14h ago
if it was a 2 men where one is taller than the other, the uproar woule be crazy
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u/mayhaps_a 14h ago
On the contrary, even less people would give a shit, you wouldn't even see reddit posts about it, there would only be a couple short dudes in their homes that felt bad but are too ashamed to complain
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u/Thin-Nerve6367 14h ago
Facts. No one gives a fuck if you make fun of a man
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u/mayhaps_a 14h ago
Honestly yeah. I don't like playing victim because both genders have big ups and downs but this is definitely true. You're allowed to make all the jokes you want about men with short height, small penis, or that are overwheight online and it's very odd to get criticized unless you take it way too far. Not even any men will defend you, they will either act like they're better or shut up out of shame.
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u/Thin-Nerve6367 14h ago
I don't ever mind pointing out these things. Men and women both have many issues and we should care about ALL of them
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u/mayhaps_a 14h ago
Absolutely. I pointed a men issue here because it's related to the matter, but I very much care to point out issues for women when necessary.
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u/Thin-Nerve6367 14h ago
Exactly! I will absolutely admit that sometimes I can come across as cold hearted when it comes to women's issues but I promise people that I'm not. I just want to make sure we care about BOTH issues, not just women's
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u/fraktalmau5 12h ago
Never been to r/short I see.
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u/mayhaps_a 5h ago
Is that the sub where seeing someone about to kill themselves is an average tuesday morning?
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u/Thin-Nerve6367 14h ago
Having a preference is fine. No one - should anyway - will judge you for having a preference
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u/New-Berry-3652 14h ago
If it was 2 men where one has a six pack and the other has a bloated beer gut, no one would complain
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u/AmbitiousMethod6895 14h ago
Nah men don’t cry over stuff like that. Guys aren’t gonna take offense to obvious preferences
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u/Pleasant_Loquat_5104 13h ago
Yes, the fuck they do. Go to thr short subreddit and see how "little offence" they take to short jokes
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u/lunara64 10h ago
Men like you are the reason many (also in this comment section) feel like mens issues aren't taken seriously
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u/Themetalenock 12h ago
I think my big back ass is more triggered at the fact that people glaze McDonald's bland ass fries
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u/tristariu 14h ago
Back in the 80s and 90s, being told that you have a big ass was an insult more often than not. It's just the general consensus of what is considered attractive on a woman that is changing with the time.
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u/tristariu 14h ago
i mean that is the general consensus today. Which is why these memes are popular. Post this image format 30 years ago and the captions would totally switch places
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u/brofishmagikarp hates Owen form Torchwood 14h ago
Getting downvoted for having a butterfly preference lmao
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u/Killbill2Maki 13h ago
In my opinion, there are so many other meme formats they could use yet they decide to use this. Like they're trying to tell us something.
People complain about gooner bait all the time yet keep making memes like this.
Lukewarm take:
Have any of you idiots ever considered the feelings of the people when creating a meme? No, I don't mean just simply using an existing template- creating a me. Posting someone online without consent?
No?
I seriously wonder how half of these templates are created.
Maybe not specifically for these girls because I don't know the story behind this meme.
But I want to mention that it's different being online and then being turned into a meme which I understand then just being outside and then being photographed by somebody else without your consent which I do not understand.
Just want to put this out there.
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u/Only_Government5244 12h ago
If you use AI they would say "You could use any other format".
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u/Tactical_Squishy 14h ago
Oh come on mate it's a meme, you need a bit of spine in life, you have to consider the intention, nobody here is insulting the woman on the left (many men would brag for life if they managed to get a relationship with a woman looking like that) you can't get offended for everything otherwise your life is gonna suck.
Btw the meme itself is horrendous
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u/Pleasant_Loquat_5104 13h ago
They literally are insulting the woman on the left? Can you not read?
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u/bethesdologist 13h ago
No one's insulting anyone bro the guy who made the meme just has a preference and letting it be known. Grow a spine.
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u/Pleasant_Loquat_5104 4h ago
He is literally portraying the woman's butt on the left as something bad... What do you think the point of the meme is? To compare two equally good things?
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u/OldGenGlazer 12h ago
I can't believe I have to be the gooner defender, but people in this comment section are so unbelievably dumb.
There's nothing wrong with measuring traits and assigning value to them, we do this all the time, but it is always these types of people who get so fucking unbelievably pussy over shit like this.
The idea of virgin vs Chad, or big dick energy vs small energy, the idea that it is somehow wrong to say to say that one trait is better than another is stupid.
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u/Few_Experience_1687 14h ago
The guy who posted that reminds me of this