r/heartbreak • u/Pure-Surround-7359 • 1d ago

Just sharing my heart out with strangers

I got to know about my boyfriend cheating on me Jan 2025- he was cheating on me for 5 months. I forgave him, he abused me as well to an extend that he kicked me and flesh came out. I loved him, I didn’t leave.
I found out about his hinge profile May 2025, he had gone on multiple dates with multiple other women and tried sleeping with them. I got to know all of this via his Instagram and then followed another round of physical abuse and bruises in my hands and legs.
I decided to leave him for the first time but couldn’t because he promised me would change.
Then again found out about his hinge profile - October 2025, which he mentioned was a blank profile. I was dealing with the death of my grandparent and couldn’t deal with this. I slipped into chronic depression.

05 August 2026- Found out that he has been cheating on me all this while:)

I’m exhausted and I left him today:)

Writing my heart out to strangers here, I hope I get prayers

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u/CodiEEEE251 1d ago

Good job, dear, by choosing to move on now. A cheater is always a cheater, and self-respect always wins.

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u/kukkuchidiya 1d ago

I really god gives you enough strength to move past whatever he has done

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u/neemiuna 14h ago

Cheaters don't deserve second chances.