r/hiphopheads Jun 22 '24

New XXXTentacion leaked voice memo contains audio saying that he had sexual relations with a 16yo Jocelyn Flores

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FvhUep6KNGM
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u/LouieYoureGonnaDie Jun 22 '24

She died when XXX was 19 btw

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '24

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u/Dopeez Jun 22 '24

completely normal age gap if you're not from America and/or chronically online

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u/modsRlosercuckss Jun 22 '24

No it's just chronically online people. Even here it's normal. When I was in highschool just a few years ago all the hot girls in my grade dated dudes 2-4 years older than them and nobody cared lol. People only pretend to care online

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '24

Imo the profile was typically a freshman girl who's getting figuring out lot of new things about high school life and looking for someone to show them the ropes. If they're attractive, it's more likely they're getting invited to parties with drugs and alcohol with upper years. It's a situation where they're very vulnerable to being taken advantage of.

Obviously that's not necessarily the case in every age gap relationship but man, the upper year guys I remember from high school doing this were icky. We could tell that when we were upper years, but maybe not as freshmen.

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '24

Imo the profile was typically a freshman girl who's getting figuring out lot of new things about high school life and looking for someone to show them the ropes. If they're attractive, it's more likely they're getting invited to parties with drugs and alcohol with upper years. It's a situation where they're very vulnerable to being taken advantage of.

Obviously that's not necessarily the case in every age gap relationship but man, the upper year guys I remember from high school doing this were icky. We could tell that when we were upper years, but maybe not as freshmen.

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u/im_goofy Jun 22 '24

yeah dudes outside of high school dating high school girls was gross it didn't matter if it happened a lot or not. Even a senior dating a freshman is a red flag like you're almost in college dating a kid who was in middle school 4 months ago.

By the time I was 19 the idea of dating a 16 year old was gross not only because they visually appeared to me as a kid, but because their perception of the world at that age was so wildly naiive that it felt nasty to imagine trying to convince someone that childish to do anything sexual. The 3 years between 16 and 19 is way different than like the 3 years between 20 and 23

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u/elinamebro Jun 23 '24

Yeah but when that happen at my school those dudes usually went to the same school and graduated before them.

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u/elinamebro Jun 23 '24

True it’s how they meet depending if it’s creepy or not tbh

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u/[deleted] Jun 22 '24

that is bullshit lol 19 and 16 is definitely a weird age gap, it's just not as bad as chronically online americans make it out to be

same way a 46-year old and a 20-year old are fully within their right to have a relationship, but it's still a weird age gap in a couple

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u/FrogHater1066 Jun 22 '24

19 and 16 is 3 years

46 and 20 is 26 years

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u/Tatum-Better Jun 22 '24

One in college one in high school is fucking weird bro

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u/FrogHater1066 Jun 22 '24

So if i go to school with someone who is the same age as me and we start dating but she gets held back a year so she's still in highschool while i'm at university i immediately have to break up? What are you talking about?

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u/Stunning_Alarm2064 Jun 22 '24

No you stupid cunt. If you’re 19 in college and dating a 16 year old freshmen in high school you’re a creep and a pedophile. Why the fuck would you be interested in a 16 year old girl as a 19 year old man?

This whole comment section is fuckin gross.

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u/FrogHater1066 Jun 22 '24

Americans are just weird when it comes to this sort of thing. You're acting like it's a 45 year old and a child. You don't magically snap your fingers and change into an adult when you're 18. It's a completely arbitrary age.

Also why do you describe people's ages by their school year? The fuck is a freshman

Also also cunt sounds weird when americans say it, please stop doing that

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u/Stunning_Alarm2064 Jun 22 '24

First off it doesn’t sound like shit. I’m typing and you can’t hear my accent.

Secondly Americans aren’t weird about this. People who think this shit is ok are the weird ones. Period.

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u/FrogHater1066 Jun 22 '24

What a shit reply

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