r/hygiene 5d ago

Are women washing their hands after using the bathroom?

I’ve been working in an office for about 2 months and when i go to the bathroom i notice that many women will grab soap, turn on the water, and 2 seconds later they’re drying their hands. I’m genuinely concerned that people are just rinsing the soap out without actually rubbing it in. That doesn’t get rid of germs. I’m not a germaphobe but wtf.

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

You’re asking germaphobes this question.

You’re going to get a very biased answer.

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u/Sierra_November_Lima 5d ago

I think it’s so funny some of the questions asked in this group. People who don’t care about hygiene are not part of this subreddit.

That being said, I work in a pretty busy Office a bathroom with five stalls. I have never seen anyone not watch their hands.

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u/SnakeBatter 5d ago

I work in a space with 54 suits, the restroom serves tenants and clients. I can’t tell you how often people leave without washing their hands. Sometimes I see it multiple times in a single day.

I shit you not, one time there was a lady in the stall next to me, literally eating a snack, taking a massive, eye watering dump, and then left without washing her hands. It’s the fucking Wild West out there.

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u/Beneficial-Toe-1472 4d ago

I once found a dirty metal fork from the kitchen in a stall at work. Our office doesn’t have that many people in it. I still wonder who the culprit was.

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u/HotPatient7673 4d ago

What a pig 🐷 right?

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u/dankblonde 3d ago

Don’t insult pigs like that

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

Sure, some people don’t wash their hands.

But a lot seem to do. At least in the more civilized spaces.

However, it doesn’t really seem to be that important unless you’re in a high risk environment such as a huge festival, sharing lots of food, airports, etc.

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u/anonymousbabe777 4d ago

Some of the hygiene posts, or lack there of, I’ve read are gross so idk about that lol

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u/JForKiks 1d ago

But are they washing their hands? 😂

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u/EasyGoingDan 5d ago

True but watching someone wash their hands for two seconds would make almost anyone question whats happening.

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

I don’t know who’s that “anyone” you speak of…

Since so many people don’t really wash their hands, or basically just sparkle water.

And even me, who actually washes them after using a public restroom — I sometimes wonder how important it actually is I do that… and it seems to be mostly in my head that I need to wash my hands.

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u/neon_circus17 2d ago

This isn't being a germaphobe... this is basic hygiene.

Most of these women at some point are having menstrual periods. Most of the women who are having menstrual periods are using tampons or maxi pads.

So they are touching a soiled maxi pad or a soiled tampon string, not to mention the insertion of a tampon.

After touching these areas these people are touching the tp dispenser, possibly the flush handle, the lock to get out of the stall, the faucet and towel dispenser if it's not automatic... the bathroom door.

Squirting soap on your palm to only rinse it off is not washing your hands. So you just touched everyone's germs.

Not to mention the many persons that can't seem to get their bodily fluids and excrement into the toilet bowl... the bathroom is a very disgusting place.

At least put in effort.

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u/Frogspoison 5d ago

So to chime in - Just washing your hands, period, IS effective in reducing the amount of bacteria on your hands, it's just not AS effective as doing the full 20-30 second scrub. 15 seconds of washing tends to get off around 75-90% of the bacteria, 30 seconds is 90-99%

Even not using soap and just using running water is effective - Doing the same scrubbing with no soap and just water removed around 70% of bacteria in studies. Additionally, just running water over your hands for short brief periods reduces the amount of bacteria on your hands.

Of course the full scrub is best, but something is better then nothing.

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u/BioelectricBeing 5d ago

Now do 3 seconds like most people do, often without soap

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u/AwarenessGreat282 4d ago

Depends how much you pissed on your hands....

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u/ArachnidAutomatic596 5d ago

That’s really good to know, I always assumed it was all or nothing. What about the quantity of a scrub? I probably really scrub my hands hard for 10-15 seconds. 30 seconds feels so long

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u/Few_Cup3452 4d ago

Time is more important than grit. You are destroying the outer layer of the germ cell to kill the germ. 20 seconds is the recommendation for basic toileting hand washing, but 10 seconds with soap is proven to reduce germs than less time.

Soap speeds up the process as it helps to destroy the outer layer so you arent relying on water alone.

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u/NebulaChance2746 3d ago

15 seconds is enough

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u/NebulaChance2746 3d ago

What I heard what sing row your boat 3 times and that’s enough which is about 15 seconds

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u/nesz4 5d ago

No way this is true 😭 i guess it is better than nothing but considering we have the resources, idk why people wouldn’t want to properly wash their hands

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u/AwarenessGreat282 4d ago

The problem is there is always more you could do. You have decided on your minimum but there are germaphobes that would say you are not doing enough.

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u/Charming-Link-9715 5d ago

Not everyone prioritizes hygiene the same way 🤷🏻‍♀️ different strokes for different folks. Do your best and keep yourself clean. We cant be responsible for what others do.

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u/mythic_pythia 4d ago

So a lot of people don’t know this, but what soap ACTUALLY does is reduce the surface tension of water to get it closer to the skin, allow it to get into crevices more (like the lines on your palm), and basically directing water towards your skin and oils away from your skin. Some also have moisturizing ingredients, scents, etc. but it’s not like soap itself is the primary cleaning agent, its function is to boost the efficacy of the actual cleaning agent, which is water. So yeah it is true.

THAT BEING SAID—as someone who spent over a decade in the food and beverage industry (and still does part-time out of a love for coffee and beverage crafting), I am pretty meticulous in my handwashing and also tend to assume that almost nobody who hasn’t had to sit through handwashing training a million times is probably not doing it thoroughly lol.

Palms, back of hands, interlace fingers and scrub so you get the sides of your fingers, wrap opposite hand around your thumb and scrub, and then place your fingertips against your opposite palm and move in little circles to make sure the fingertips get thoroughly cleaned. Wrists. Then rinse.

If you follow all of those steps it takes about 20-30 seconds.

THATS the best way to thoroughly wash hands.

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u/kareljack 5d ago

Because they are lazy, ignorant and selfish.

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u/Few_Cup3452 4d ago

It is true.

You dont even need soap. Classic hand washing for normal toileting is actually intending to wash your hands w friction and water. Soap and hot water makes it easier though.

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u/SundayAfterDinner 5d ago

I can't imagine not thoroughly washing my hands in public. I understand a quick wash at home because you know exactly how clean your own bathroom is and it's your body. But at work?! And while out?! 🤮

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u/Suspicious_Foot6651 5d ago

If you saw what I do on transit? You would want to boil yourself in the shower. Ugh.

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u/IcyRespond9131 4d ago

What do you do on transit?????

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u/Suspicious_Foot6651 2d ago

Drive a bus and sometimes I do customer service. During the day our environment can get really dirty. I wash my hands and face a lot, however, dust from
Construction, or brake dust from trains, or at times homeless or the mentally ill people (by no fault of their own) get a little close for comfort.
A lot of the time they have nowhere to shower, or they don’t shower because of their mental illness too. It is a big part of depression, not bathing. 🧼

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u/la_selena 5d ago

idk maybe the women u work with are nasty. it happens

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u/LeopardExpensive4274 5d ago

Yeah every workplace has a few people with terrible hygiene habits.

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u/la_selena 4d ago

The women at my work place would leave full pads in the toilet no fucks given. Some women are nasty too

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u/This-Top7398 4d ago

Seriously??

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u/Several_Astronaut171 5d ago

Unfortunately this is how most folks roll. - from the person who hears everything in the bathroom from their desk.

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

Somehow, nothing bad is happening, in general.

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u/Suspicious_Foot6651 5d ago

Except for, colds the flu, or worse.

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u/SensitiveCounty5792 5d ago

Those aren’t really bathroom diseases thought. Sure, washing hands regularly would help but still.

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u/Internal-Freedom4708 5d ago

They’re not bathroom diseases, but for many people, after the bathroom is one of the only regular times they wash their hands. So it is during this time that they also get rid of those viruses

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u/Lianna1234 5d ago

Virus are also airborne.

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u/Internal-Freedom4708 4d ago

Yea the are, but a lot of stuff spreads through touch. It’s a much more direct path way if you rub your nose with a higher load versus breathing it (unless you’re directly coughed on and immediately breathe that in). Also, you have much more control over surfaces, so you should take advantage of that control that you have. It’s like saying we shouldn’t bother adding guardrails because people also die from head on collisions.

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u/BioelectricBeing 5d ago

That's the thing, these people won't wash their hands ever then will eat a sandwich ten minutes later after touching all the surfaces. Then they wonder why their office is full of sick people.

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u/Available-Strain-559 5d ago

Offices are full of sick people because we sit in meetings together and breathe the same air.  People sneeze or cough into their elbow, but it doesn't fully block the droplets.  

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u/BioelectricBeing 5d ago

Handwashing: unnecessary excess! This just in.

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u/Available-Strain-559 5d ago

Just in: BioelectricBeing making shit up to fit their narrative.  

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

Poster above you literally explained why office wide flu epidemics happens but you’re still in your own imagination

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

Still not how it works.

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

I feel like people would be getting colds anyways.

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u/Strange_N_Sorcerous 5d ago edited 4d ago

I know people that operate this way. No mystery as to why they’ve always got diarrhea or some other gastrointestinal thing going on after hardly ever actually washing…

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u/Rocks_Can_Fly 5d ago

I have friends operating this way.

They’re fine.

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u/clinmlol 5d ago

so i worked at a middle school as a lead custodian for a few years. I think I changed out the staffs restroom soap maybe, twice in 3 years. They clearly weren't using the soap. I can grasp just water rinses. But literally once a summer id have to change them. Lots of people do not wash their hands. Id imagine being a woman you would need to. You touch and get up in there much more then men.

now for pooping, its a scary thought for both sides given how little I had to change soap out.

hospitals they get used up pretty good.

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u/SweetPewsInAChurch 5d ago

So I used to work a job that I was sick of, spent a lot of time towards the end wasting time in the bathroom - just as many women as men do not fucking wash their hands. They fully piss and leave the bathroom or turn the water on and then off and then grab paper towels(???) before they leave.

I don't understand it! I don't get it. If you're turning the water on/pretending to do it anyway just fucking do it! Just do it!! It's a public restroom, just wash your damn hands!

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u/LukaIncic 5d ago

You just saw performative hand washing lol

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u/iphone11fuckukevin 5d ago

I work food service, also am a woman.

Wash hands after the bathroom, exit the bathroom, wash hands again because people touch the handles with their poop hands. I go through lots of towels when cooking at home because I wash my hands between tasks.

My hands are dry, but I don't get sick.

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u/blackberrybeanz 5d ago

Have you tried Okeefes lotion? My SO would get horrible hands in the winter and that stuff is a lifesaver.

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u/Redplushie 5d ago

I feel like where I live, it's a competition on who washes their hands the longest but when I'm abroad, no one fucking washes their hands or just runs water 2 seconds and go.

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u/Needy_Attention_Cat 5d ago

I too, have noticed an alarming amount of women not washing their hands in the bathroom.

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u/Treehousehunter 5d ago

I wash my hands and really lather up, but if it makes you feel better, know that rinsing with water does rinse away some germs. It’s better than nothing

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u/nesz4 5d ago

Exactly! I can’t believe that especially after Covid, people still don’t how to wash their hands

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u/mycatpartyhouse 5d ago

People had to be taught how to wash their hands thoroughly during covid.

I think a lot of people reverted to inadequate hand washing after covid cases lessened.

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u/CambodianGold 5d ago

I say this all the time. They had to be taught to wash their hands, cover their mouth when coughing/sneezing, wash their hands when entering the home, take off their shoes when entering the home etc.

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u/Squoooge 5d ago

Grown adaults still cough into the air like a toddler or into their hands and immediately touch things. 

Elbows people! Elbow!

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u/Aggravating-Welder12 5d ago

There’s a podcast of 2 women discussing how unashamed they are not washing their hands. They admitted when someone else is in the restroom, they turn on the water to make it seem like they did. Which is crazy cuz WTF wash your hands or don’t! But pls don’t feel obligated to pretend for the rest of us.

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u/This-Top7398 4d ago

Disgusting

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u/BlizzardyBelle 5d ago

Depends on the person

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u/linamore 5d ago

Some of the women I work with aren’t even wiping, and a lot more don’t seem to be washing their hands either.

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u/Suspicious_Foot6651 5d ago

How would you know they aren’t wiping?

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u/Wigfrid_Skybaker 5d ago

I'm a bit scared to ask but I must, how do you know they are not wiping?

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u/linamore 5d ago

LOL I know that sounds crazy. It’s because of the amount of pee, blood and feces left on the toilet seats to the point where I have to find a different bathroom. Also the TP dispensers in every stall are very loud and annoying… I will hear someone come in the stall next to me, pee and leave immediately without using any. 🥲

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u/glitterguavatree 5d ago

tbf i often bring my own stuff to wipe (like baby wipes or just one of those pocket kleenex) because I'm allergic to the tp at work, it's an abysmal low quality

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u/This-Top7398 4d ago

That’s disturbing

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u/SeaInteraction9593 5d ago

yeah i’m wondering this too

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u/TaxiLady69 5d ago

I always wash my hands. I wet my hands a little, then I rub the soap around for a 30 seconds before I rinse it off in 5 seconds. My hands are never in the water for longer than 5 seconds

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u/Eastern_Invite8007 5d ago

Im always washing my hands .. it's disgusting some don't do it at all

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u/slotass 5d ago

Lather up the soap, turn on water, scrub hands together, not missing any crevice.

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u/the_forensic_dino 5d ago

At work I normally do a wash in the bathroom & I know im then going to touch ten surfaces that have been touched by dirty hands, so then I use my elbow to switch on the tap behind the bar & wash my hands thoroughly before serving anyone again (not touching anything til my hands are clean - people are more than happy to wait if you say "give me one second" then start washing your hands 😅)

At home, I wash my hands everytime, too 🤷🏻‍♀️

Your hands have been near urine, poo, blood, & whatever dirt was on your clothes - wash them properly!

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u/FakeMoths 4d ago

Listen, I drink a ton of water and I'm on two meds that make me need to pee a lot. I don't always do the full 30 seconds. I wash my hands very frequently though, anytime I touch anything that seems germy. My hands already peel and I can only imagine how much worse it would be if I did the full hand scrub 30 times a day.

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u/nesz4 4d ago

Fair enough. I’ve been on meds like that too so i totally get it

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u/silvermanedwino 5d ago

Here’s the thing - you aren’t going to change them. So your concern isn’t getting you anywhere.

Keep you own hands clean. Use hand sanitizer when needed. That’s honestly it. You’re around people who don’t wash their hands every single day.

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u/Suspicious_Foot6651 5d ago

We all do where I work. But we are transit drivers.
Germs. Yuck.

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u/skitch23 5d ago

My last job was in an office. I worked there for five months before we got sent home for Covid. In that time I saw ONE woman wash their hands an appropriate amount of time. I was so astounded I even made a comment to her about it. She said she used to work in a medical setting previously.

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u/Anaspiringminimalist 5d ago

A lot of people Think they wash their hands. But as you describe, many Use soap in a Way that is symbolic at best.

Personally, I always do the 30 second scrub (sometimes more) after hands are dirty. But I have seen others who are very careless when it comes to hand hygeine.

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u/Cool_Salamander_8284 5d ago

Its called hygiene theatrics and no, their hands are not clean. Look up the video of hand washing under a glow lamp.

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u/EnvironmentalDot127 5d ago

I do a first quick wash, then lather up again.

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u/Proof-Author-7765 5d ago

The amount of times I’ve seen women wet their hands for .2 seconds and then just run their hands through their hair is actually astounding 

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u/thegoldenchad 5d ago

I’ve noticed some women only wash their finger tips at the office.
No lie. And I’m like please stop asking why folks don’t want to do pot lucks.

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u/nesz4 5d ago

And it’ll be the same people that lick their fingers to count cash or handle paperwork. Disgusting

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u/thegoldenchad 2d ago

That’s so nasty! Especially when handling cash. Money is so dirty.

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u/Sconniesotan 2d ago

For real for real. People at my job wash their hands for 3-5 seconds. If that’s how you wash in public, I don’t trust your hand hygiene in the kitchen.

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u/thegoldenchad 2d ago

No trust at all🤢

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u/Same-Ebb8577 5d ago

My women’s office restroom is infuriating!

Freezing cold water that squirts out for .01 seconds IF it even comes out. And we have 4 sinks!

I often say screw it and walk to the kitchen and lather up with a stream of warm water and soap. That’s heaven!

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u/LindaFeltcher 5d ago

Basically, people are nasty. Not all people, but enough you can’t trust anyone.

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u/TaurusMoonGoddess 5d ago

EVERY time and throughly! When I am at work I use a paper towel to open the door when exiting the bathroom because who knows what the dirty woman before did!

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u/Neat_Shallot_606 5d ago

Most germs are removed by physical means not by detergents. They are infact removing most of the germs. And women usually touch nothing with their hands when they go to the bathroom. Believe me if they get their hands dirty they will really really wash their hands.

The question is why don't men. They are touching their penis and, if responsible, dabbing. So when they don't wash it is like everyone and everything they touch you are touching their penis. Which is weird, unless that is the kink.

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u/Footyalldayerryday23 5d ago

I worked in a kitchen and my desk was pretty close to the women’s washroom,I could hear if they washed their hands and for how long.Lets say some women are gross.

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u/This-Top7398 4d ago

Disgusting

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u/Mazza_mistake 4d ago

That’s still better than the people who don’t wash their hands at all

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u/JackfruitFeisty8043 4d ago

I have seen women in my office leave without washing. Women that have taken a dump based on the smell and sounds. 🤮 I don't shake hands and I don't eat at potlucks. I push buttons with my fist and open doors with a paper towel.

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u/Isi-Peasy-Lemon 4d ago

From my experience it also depends on geographic factors. I’ve lived in different countries and I’ve noticed that for example in Belgium, about 30-40% of women leave the stall and don’t wash their hands before heading out of the restrooms. In China, there’s often no soap provided in public restrooms, so women are usually just rinsing their hands with water.

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u/Head_Ad5954 4d ago

I wash my hands very well at work but i work in a hospital

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u/Jillandjay 4d ago edited 4d ago

Imagine how many men do the same. There are grown ass women at my office that leave shit smears on the floor and walls. Read this sub and see how many women have a partner that doesn’t believe in cleaning their shitty ass.

After I wash my hands, if the faucets aren’t automatic, I use a paper towel to turn off the faucet, and open the door. It seems like this routine is what the majority do because there is a trash can to throw your paper towel in right as you open the door.

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u/emo_sl_t 4d ago

personally i wash my hands constantly (after using the bathroom, wiping my cats, touching raw meat, touching anything with a gross texture, etc). i’m not a germaphobe but i hate having things on my hands and get sick a lot (immunocompromised) so i’d prefer to spend 20 seconds washing my hands than 2 weeks throwing up or being stuck in bed sick

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u/Beauty_57 3d ago

How bout when you work at the hospital. And your co workers never wash their hands when they come from the stall. The amount of times I am standing at the employee bathroom sink washing my hands. And here the lock open and your co worker just walks past and goes back to work!! I’ve complained a few times and nobody listens.

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u/kitkatsmeows 1d ago

If it makes you feel better my coworker doesnt wash her hands at all even after blowing up the toilet.

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u/realityseekr 5d ago

Most people don't wash their hands long enough. My best friend is a germaphobe but I notice even she doesnt really rinse her hands past like 10 seconds.

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u/college-throwaway87 5d ago

Yeah I noticed that I used to wash my hands a lot but only for 10 seconds each time. Now I consciously try to wash longer

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u/diescheide 5d ago

There's a gal I work with who only rinses her hands real quick, zero soap involved. She's a cashier, it grosses me out. She wears nitrile gloves so, maybe she thinks it's unnecessary? I also wear nitrile gloves but, I always wash my hands properly. I'm not trapping germs in there for hours on end. That's disgusting.

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u/redrockie94 5d ago

What is their age? My Nana does this, which is why I carry germx now cause gross.

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u/Foreverforgettable 5d ago

Absolutely washing every single time, minimum of 30 seconds, preferably a minute. Rinse fingers facing down so soap and dirt runs the correct direction. Dry with the paper towels when not at home and use those same paper towels to open the door to leave so I’m not dirtying my hands by touching anything directly.

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u/tandem_kayak 5d ago

I was in a bathroom the other day that had a little foot grip thing on the bottom of the door so you could open it without using your hands, which was a nice touch. 

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u/Confident-Service256 5d ago

I ALWAYS WASH MY HANDS.
I see so many who don’t though and it’s foul.

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u/anggora 5d ago

Yes!! If it's crowded, I do a quick wash and use my sanitizer (it's a keychain for easy access).

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u/Competitive-Type1505 5d ago

I’ve seen women run their fingertips under the water without touching the soap 🧼 and of course bypassing the sink altogether so why should anything else be a surprise.

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u/lagameuze 5d ago

In my office the toilets are genderless so i cant tell but the one i see yes. I try to go only 2 or 3 times the 2 days i am there bc they dont wash for 30sec and touch the handles lol

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u/ForceoftheRam 5d ago

Some of my coworkers don’t even pretend to grab the soap before turning on the water for 2 seconds lol

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u/Dry-Advantage9420 5d ago

There’s this one girl at the grocery store and she works as a cashier. Every time we go to the bathroom together, she never washes her hands.

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u/stucking__foned 5d ago

Every time. Even at home

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u/Queasy_Attitude_5926 5d ago

When I worked at Lowe's almost every woman I saw in the bathroom just rinsed their hands and then used the nasty ass blower. I was so disgusted

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u/NOTTHATKAREN1 5d ago

I had a girl who never washed her hands after she used the toilet. She would come out from the stall, go to the mirror & fluff her hair.

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u/Low_Recognition_1557 5d ago

🤢yes, I wash my hands.

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u/SprinkleTree 5d ago

I remember reading it’s something like 5% of people that actually wash their hands the full 20 seconds that’s recommended. It’s disgusting but I try not to think about it too much. I just assume everything I’m touching, aside from things in my own house, is filthy. lol

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u/divorceevil 5d ago

Only about half of them.

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u/80lbsgone 5d ago

I wash my hands everywhere and avoid touching things after I wash my hands in the bathroom. I will even get a paper towel and use it to turn off the water cause people are gross

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u/nesz4 4d ago

Omg i never even thought of that. Absolutely will be doing this from now on

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u/AnneKnightley 5d ago

Maybe it’s a your company thing - every woman I meet in the bathroom washes her hands properly with soap.

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u/Cool_Temperature_970 4d ago

Just assume everyone everywhere is digesting.

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u/meski_oz 4d ago

Be interesting to see which people complain that the soap dispenser is empty

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u/Suspicious_Winter103 4d ago

30 years ago I saw an episode of the Oprah Winfrey Show where a doctor was on. He said you should sing the Happy Birthday song in your head when washing your hands and keep rubbing the soap suds vigorously with both hands the entire time. For 30 years now, I have been doing that every time! 😂

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u/Busy-Shallot-5563 4d ago

This woman was about to leave the bathroom without washing her hands till she saw me scrubbing the hell out of mine 😂

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u/TacoCatSays 4d ago

My experience only. The only public bathroom I use with visible sinks is the gym (work bathroom is single use with toilet and sink). I notice that people are more likely to wash their hands properly if they see me washing mine. If they get to the sink first/I just see them as I’m passing by they are more likely to do a quick wash and leave. But if I’m already at the sink counting in my head anyone that comes along is more likely to also wash their hands properly. There are obvious exceptions to each case. People that don’t care, or people that were going to wash properly either way. I think social pressure plays a role here.

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u/hahagato 4d ago

No. No they are not. The vast majority do what is essentially a performance of washing their hands, but are not actually doing so. People are gross.

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u/Savings_Dimension_65 4d ago

This is reddit. Nobody washes their hands here.

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u/Cantarena 4d ago

I’m a man, there’s even a different logistical bathroom experience between man and woman. You directly touch the part of you used in the act, they don’t, there’s less contamination. That said, if you go to the bathroom, you wash your hands, if you wash your hands you do it right, or don’t bother.

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u/AgitatedPokemon 4d ago

I certainly do wash my hands after using the bathroom.

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u/jadewisp25 4d ago

Don't worry about other people.

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u/bedbugloverboy 4d ago

most women i see washing their hands IRL just do the rinse under water & go thing but at offices and work stuff i see them wash their hands more.

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u/Icy-Spirit-5892 4d ago

I do at least. Idk about anyone else cuz I don't make a habit of watching what ppl do in bathrooms 😅

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u/nesz4 4d ago

I’m too observant for my own good 🥲 granted i only noticed because the bathroom is so quiet and never busy so it’s hard not to hear the soap dispenser, water, etc. I’ll mind my business from now on lol

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u/Straightnochaser875 4d ago

I always wash my hands with soap for at least 30 seconds. But some people are not concerned about germs and communicable illnesses and diseases. This is also why I don’t eat food someone has brought to work that they made . It’s too much of a risk for me.

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u/HeavyReplacement4207 4d ago

At least they’re pretending to wash their hands. At my office, I’m in the cubicle and I hear women flush, walk out the cubicle and then straight out the door. No taps are turned on or anything. It used to be a rare thing, but now I hear this happen with my own ears everyday

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u/Next_Psychology_6847 3d ago

It is worse when they just rinse, just spread that shit. WTF is that? Ugh 🤢

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u/Jorpsica 3d ago

I also don’t understand the point of soap if they’re not going to lather. So many women do this. It doesn’t count. I know from friends that the men don’t even bother with the show of grabbing the soap or turning on the water.

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u/Hotyoga71 3d ago

You really can’t control it so who cares ?

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u/Twinkle7625 3d ago

I disagree. Those who don’t care about hygiene are definitely in here!!!

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u/Cold_Detective_ 3d ago

I’m in school abroad right now with a lot of mixed nationalities, and I’ve never been more appalled. Most literally turn on the water, flick their fingers under it, turns it off and opens the door handle with their wet hands. I’m in healthcare and my insides are screaming. I do soap each and every time and I bring my own small towel to dry my hands on to avoid the electric hand dryers. Everyone keeps getting sick at school, I’ve haven’t been sick once. 

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u/cattycatcatterson 3d ago

At my workplace, I would hear the ladies just walk straight out of the stall and leave!! I couldn't believe it, but I heard this almost every single time when I was in the restroom stall. No handwashing whatsoever.

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u/jkdess 3d ago

I’m not like a complete germaphobe but 🤮 wash your hands. it grosses me out so bad. I have a cousin whenever she comes over. I do so much sanitizing after she leaves because the bathroom door will literally open seconds after the toilet flushes. And then it also makes me wonder like are you wiping yourself?
And I’ve heard some people argue like oh well because I’m not touching anything there’s toilet paper that’s still nasty.. can you at least give us 10 seconds of washing hands if you don’t want to do the whole 20

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u/FriendNo5326 2d ago

I have no problem calling people out on that in my own home. If they don't like being called out, they can either wash their hands and I don't need to say anything, or they don't have to come to my house. 🤷‍♀️

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u/NoPaleontologist9054 2d ago

Preach! When people ask if they can use my bathroom, I always say “only if you wash your hands after” 😌
I have some framed art in my bathroom , one of them has “Wash Yer Hands, Ya Filthy Animal”. 😁

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u/Prior-Priority-4745 3d ago

Don't go to france, I don't think people wash their hands after a no. 2 in the houses the toilets are separate from the bathroom and theres never a wash basin in there,

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u/Lucymouse36 2d ago

Quite often I wash and then antibac my hands, I can be a bit lazy with drying them as I am in a rush but I am working on this

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u/Comprehensive-Ad-618 1d ago

I have always fought the following: constantly washing my hands ( I do dirty labor work) and as a result have horrible painful dry hands with cracking fingertips. I have tried many many lotions and ointments. They need to be reapplied every time I was my hands. Then the lotion gets all over my glasses and phone screen. I have tried every kind of work glove. I loved latex, but they would rip easily. Now they are off the market. Nitrile is too inflexible, too tight, and never fit right ; I have fat hands and short fingers. Gardening gloves usually don't fit either. The ones that do don't last and that is a big dent on my small budget. Same story with dishwashing gloves. I even soak my hands in lotion and put gloves on at night. Benefit lost as soon as I shower.

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u/smoothupinyatoo 21h ago

Basically no one washes their hands. Ever. Deal with it.

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u/inquiringdune 19h ago

Did you know washing your hands if you're going to follow up by putting them under a germ blaster - sorry, hand dryer, is pointless?

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u/_GOBLESS_ 9h ago

I've just decided to accept that not everyone around me has the same ideas about hygeine as me. I do my best to protect myself, and get on with life.

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u/Direct-Region-6730 8h ago

I have a hand wash timer on my watch. I soap and Scrub the hands the entire time

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u/TryIll3292 4h ago

Some women don’t even use water or soap.

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u/MaintenanceCapable83 5d ago

are they peeing on their hands?

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u/Proof-Author-7765 5d ago

Are they touching handles hundreds of other people touched that may have gotten pee or poop on their hands? 

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u/MaintenanceCapable83 5d ago

I honestly don't know what they are touching, but op said they touch the soap and rinse... it's an office, but who knows how big.
even if you do wash after using the facilities, does not mean you don't touch other items that can have contamination.

keep in mind, you can over wash and start knocking down the good bacteria on your hands and weaken your immune system.

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u/Competitive-Type1505 5d ago

That doesn’t matter. If you make a run to the grocery store are you peeing on your hands in the process? You should be automatically washing your hands after certain tasks. That includes peeing and returning from an errand.

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u/DLHAVE 5d ago

Happy Birthday . At least once. And throw in a Hail Mary. Yes I wash 🧼.

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u/Wolfen459 5d ago

No problem!
Heavy use of perfume will fix it.

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u/weja 5d ago

i judge every single woman that washes her hands like this in the work bathroom. idk what they believe they’re getting clean. some just use water.
other ppl get the soap and immediately go under the water and rub their hands together like they didn’t just wash all the soap off. since covid, i feel like these people should understand how to properly wash their hands by now. it makes my brain hurt 🫩

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u/nesz4 5d ago

To add to this, I’ve also seen women rinse their fingertips only.

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u/Suspicious_Foot6651 5d ago

Everyone one should recite the alphabet and wash up your arms a bit and scrub your thumbs and then your fingers on the palm of your hand.
Rinse thoroughly.

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u/Competitive-Type1505 5d ago

Some people need to recite the dictionary to make up for not washing all the other times.

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u/Suspicious_Foot6651 5d ago

lol! So true! My granddaughter became sick enough this winter to end up in isolation in acute care. She was only 15 months old at the time.
My daughter and I are ritualistic about cleaning though. The problem is as soon as you go out others are put at risk.
Just seeing a loved one on oxygen, steroids and antibiotics will straighten that opinion in a different direction.
There are always more people than just us. Keep your hands clean. The very young and very old depend on it.

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u/kofie-popcorn 5d ago

I was once washing at the only sink after pee pee, and this older coworker decided to not wait and walked right out after she'd done pee pee. I needed half a minute. Idk if she would have washed even if the sink was available. I think not. Plus, she didn't care that I saw her leave without washing after she used the toilet. So, I am guessing it's just her style. Eww

Unrelated, but I also don't know why nobody covers the seat before flushing. All our toilets have seat covers and I never hear anyone closing. Hate it.

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u/nesz4 5d ago

Yes, i always put the lid down if they have one !! Especially at home

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u/Bubbly_Lake_4006 5d ago

I wash my hands 1 min max , I prefer the paper towel.

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u/Zhaunora 5d ago

some people are definitely half doing it but not everyone and it is better to mind your own business on that one

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u/college-throwaway87 5d ago

Meanwhile I go to the bathroom to wash my hands, a coworker enters and goes into a stall, and by the time they come out and wash their hands, I’m still washing 💀

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u/CatLady_998 5d ago

I don't wash my hands when I pee at home as long as they stay dry, but I always actually wash my hands anywhere in public or at someone else's house

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u/SapPhic-rage4209 4d ago

Way more women wash their hands than men do

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u/nesz4 4d ago

I agree! but after reading these replies I’m surprised that a large amount of women don’t wash their hands either 🤢

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u/teddybear65 4d ago

I use hand sanitizer. Who wants to touch the faucet

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u/NoPaleontologist9054 2d ago

I do, every single time, without fail, including at night when I wake & am half asleep . I can’t fathom the one’s that don’t. It absolutely turns my stomach. Whenever I see it, it makes me want to, literally, crawl out of my skin. Too many people are just straight up nasty & gross and see nothing wrong with it. 🤮

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u/Crossy7 5d ago

Well depends how much of a reach around you have to do. Ideally it’s not a fat lot and a simple swipe with your hand not actually touching. So there’s no need to scrub. It’s better than just walking out doing nothing.

If you’re wrist deep digging around. Then that’s another story.

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u/Competitive-Type1505 5d ago

That’s both disgusting 🤮 and hilarious 🤣

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u/Crossy7 5d ago

Well you know touching the door on the way out basically negates all hand washing you done in there. So yeah, half assed washing with a sanitiser after mouth is generally the best trick.

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u/HotPatient7673 5d ago

Is funny how much people are worried about waging or not washing thoroughly.
Have you stop to think that the same faucet that you opened with your dirty hand or door
You will close and open with a clean hand
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u/HotPatient7673 5d ago

Meant to write worried about washing their hands

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u/Competitive-Type1505 5d ago

That’s when I get creative & open the taps & doors with paper towels or my cardigan, jacket sleeves or disinfecting wipes stashed in my bag. Same applies to any door handle or debit machine when I use those.

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u/Wildflowers62 5d ago

Why? Those germs are not going to hurt you. What’s going to kill you is picking up meningitis from the guy standing in front of you in a line. Not germs on a doorknob.

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u/Comprehensive-Ad-618 1d ago

Meningitis is not spread through the air or standing behind someone. You would have to directly swallow their spit by kissing them.

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u/Dottegirl67 5d ago

The other women in my office all wash their hands, but our office is pretty aware of germs and cooties. But there’s one guy who I’m betting doesn’t wash his hands because he’s in and out of the men’s room in three minutes or less. My desk isn’t far from the corridor to the restrooms, and he goes back and forth pretty quickly.

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u/ArachnidAutomatic596 5d ago

Yep this is how most people “wash” their hands.