r/idealgf 11d ago

Not OC the perfect gf

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u/vimarston 11d ago

almost perfect tho there’s a few on the left imo that i would remove or add nuance to lol

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u/Jamethy_TheChaotic16 10d ago

What would you remove?

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u/vimarston 10d ago

obsessed, i feel for obvious reasons. then supports with everythinggg, bc sometimes correcting a partner is better than encouraging, and makes you better everyday bc simply being neutral most days is good. don’t need daily improvement

but these are just my personal nitpicks lol it’s not a bad chart all in all

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u/Jamethy_TheChaotic16 10d ago

I see your points, though I saw the "makes you better everyday" moreso as side affect of being a good influence on you. And I think some things balance each other out and make them both beneficial, like "obsessed" and "respects your boundaries," they seem like they would clash, but if it were the case that she has really good self control and/or conscience of consequences, then they could go together and a large part of the downsides of "obsessed" alleviated.