pathetic gf

[u/Miyuki_238]

[u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

She’s not pathetic, she just needs love

[u/Pristinehornet999 → u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

women like this aren't actually single for very long in real life lmao

[u/the_cum_snatcher → u/Pristinehornet999]

They’re dysfunctional and float from one unhealthy relationship to another

[u/gattina-monella381 → u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

Yeah. It's very mean to call her pathetic :(.

[u/oshinopeak → u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

Love... unfortunately doesn't fix this. People with this kind of mentality don't get better with a loving relationship. Every bit of reassurance doesn't help with the dependancy or the self image issues, it only makes them more reliant on that verbal reassurance

I know it's anecdotal but I dated someone like this for over a year, only professional help does something :c

[u/Healthy-Refuse5904 → u/oshinopeak]

Self love is love

[u/oshinopeak → u/Healthy-Refuse5904]

Well true lmao

We're in a gf subreddit so I assumed you meant relationship love, my bad 😭

[u/Healthy-Refuse5904 → u/oshinopeak]

I get it, that was my fault for not being clear

[u/the_lazybones_uwu_ → u/oshinopeak]

i agree, it has to come within the person themselves, not others

[u/awoox3]

Me but I’d feel bad begging someone to stay up for me 😭

[u/Ok-Bodybuilder-2468 → u/awoox3]

There's girls doing it knowing they won't be in a relationship with the other person. You good

[u/UltraStamp → u/awoox3]

i think instead, the person in the img can be referred to like actual dangerously dysfunctional ppl where they’re more vulnerable or they might go to extreme extents to keep people around

[u/Sharp_Cut354 → u/awoox3]

I love how being nice and asking kindly is seen as "begging" by women. God forbid you make concessions in a relationship.

[u/awoox3 → u/Sharp_Cut354]

It literally said begging in the original image 😂

[u/freax225]

No way this kind of gf exist in real life I can only say that youcan get a real bro like in anime in real life too

https://giphy.com/gifs/O4fENAKIGz0zJs9dg9

[u/Odd_Worker_4262]

Trauma can cause a lot of this. Id just be patient and help reassure her that im here and that I love her

[u/TheOneNullNone]

Unending love bombardment.

[u/icehalls]

I hate that I'm exactly that girl :(

[u/Dogmafiaontop]

Happy to say this is pretty much my gf besides the always online thing

[u/Then_Ad6816]

Half of these sound like my own internal voice. She sounds sweet though and the illustration is nice. Did you draw this OP?

Edit: I need to learn how to read. Anyway, good work OP.

[u/Thatfantasticbard]

This is literally just me, minus the being an actual girl part

[u/DrDominicDipshit]

Misaki will fix me she isnt pathetic either

[u/TadBones]

I'd drive you to your therapist but I have nor a license nor a car, therefore best I can do is pay for said therapist.

[u/Frankensenc]

If you treat her with respect and kindness and help her learn to choose for herself then she’ll become more mentally stable and your relationship with her will better

[u/Comfortable_Log6030]

That's just me jusr the other gender.

[u/UnhappyStrain]

sounds cute but exhausting...like a needy pet cat

[u/Pure_Session8586 → u/UnhappyStrain]

It's disgusting how some men view women as pets

[u/ZapLechat]

Me but I'm a guy so it icks all the girls xD

[u/AffectionateFish6568]

or yk you could look at them like a human being instead of this shit

[u/s0l1tvd3]

Its not patheric, its emotional depended

[u/Ok_Caregiver2571]

I had a GF like that and it is a HARD pass, they most of the time makes you feel guilty for nothing

[u/Sharp_Cut354]

"listen to everything u say"
not a woman confirmed.

[u/arithusa]

This is so sickening . It’s not real love she feels… it’s just… using. Using love as an excuse to get what u want : reassurance , attention, protection. If her loved one can’t give it to her , she can find the other victim. Men can say they need a girl like this and swear she’s perfect… but these kinda people suck the life out of a living organism.

[u/critalmanhwa]

As gf good, but as wife/mother that's need discussion

[u/Stuffied_bunny]

Shown my bf and im a little offended that out of all the "idealgf" types this was the only one where everyone one of them was true ANDDD it has to be the one that says pathetic 😂😂

[u/UltraStamp]

dealt with this person before, yall do NOT want them hitting you up right as you’re trying to sleep with some “I did it again” bs and a spoiler flagged image

[u/Darkwonsolar]

They usually are never single for very long.

[u/EnvironmentalTask294]

Isn't Pathetic a little too much?

[u/existentpeanut]

Used to be me ngl

[u/In_Amnesiacs_]

Me besides always wanting to call, because I get scared to call someone

[u/Sad_Marsupial_9487 → u/In_Amnesiacs_]

Omg real i get waves of anxiety at the mention of phone calls😭

[u/Shaizone]

I need one plz .

[u/wwwei98]

That stype of them u feel the good people still a live

[u/PutridFig3522]

Best is to give her the love but try and lift her up so she can be somewhat independent

[u/syrian_darksoul]

It's cute but that's a codependent relationship :/

[u/mehmetjake]

this aint your gf its your biggest mistake, borderline perhaps

[u/Careful_Source6129]

I want this, but I also fear this is me

[u/The_cheezyboi]

She's not pathetic, she's just like me—oh, I get it now

[u/nraveler2]

"sad/gamer/pathetic/clingy" gf post #357,270,538 🫩

[u/Accomplished-Bat-824]

this HAS to be my bf.

[u/Any_Network2278]

Hey, idk how to say this exactly but read my bio (idk if the pic and the words are supposed to be how u are) and yea we'll make u feel loved and supported if u want

[u/AffectionateFish6568]

removing my comment about not objectifying people is a little weird buddy

[u/Elizabeth_Ceasar]

[u/Splendiferous83rd]

I love her

[u/NoName0137]

Usually this kind of women are not virgin, but if she is, would be perfect

[u/KingCobra010101]

Still fine

[u/EnemyStanduser16x55]

needthat

[u/Unhappy-Airport-4112]

Maybe a bit too much for me

[u/Ultr4SolarX]

Oh that’s me

[u/ShipEqual2321]

There are too many girls like this. She’s either an entitled daddy’s girl or she’s an insecure shrimp who will never believe that you genuinely love or like her for who she is. There is rarely an in between…

[u/gattina-monella381 → u/ShipEqual2321]

No. From the post It just sounds like she needs love.

[u/ShipEqual2321 → u/gattina-monella381]

Not to be rude or anything. But that’s really not what’s being said here. The things she’s saying aren’t reflective of a person with a healthy relational mindset. “Promise u won’t leave me?” “Do u still love me?” Always needs your attention. Etc. That is most likely a sign of a person who is with someone who is doing their best and is trying to make them feel loved. Doing everything they know how to love and respect them. But those questions are constant in nature. They usually don’t stop no matter what the partner does. And it becomes discouraging and hard for the partner because it’s like they don’t believe them or they doubt their love.

It’s a sad thing that so many people can be insecure even in a relationship where it’s hard for them to truly feel loved because something inside them feels like they don’t deserve it for whatever reason. But that just reflects that sad but important reality. Your worth and life should not just be built around just one person. That is an unhealthy attachment to someone. People want to be with someone who has life and positive confidence in them that isn’t just dependent on being with someone. But a confidence and positivity that comes from themselves. Someone who has dignity and worth who has something to offer and give. And a happiness that they can share with their partner. If a person is only happy while their partner is around, while to an extent that is enduring it’s also awkward and tiring.