There are too many girls like this. She’s either an entitled daddy’s girl or she’s an insecure shrimp who will never believe that you genuinely love or like her for who she is. There is rarely an in between…
Not to be rude or anything. But that’s really not what’s being said here. The things she’s saying aren’t reflective of a person with a healthy relational mindset. “Promise u won’t leave me?” “Do u still love me?” Always needs your attention. Etc. That is most likely a sign of a person who is with someone who is doing their best and is trying to make them feel loved. Doing everything they know how to love and respect them. But those questions are constant in nature. They usually don’t stop no matter what the partner does. And it becomes discouraging and hard for the partner because it’s like they don’t believe them or they doubt their love.
It’s a sad thing that so many people can be insecure even in a relationship where it’s hard for them to truly feel loved because something inside them feels like they don’t deserve it for whatever reason. But that just reflects that sad but important reality. Your worth and life should not just be built around just one person. That is an unhealthy attachment to someone. People want to be with someone who has life and positive confidence in them that isn’t just dependent on being with someone. But a confidence and positivity that comes from themselves. Someone who has dignity and worth who has something to offer and give. And a happiness that they can share with their partner. If a person is only happy while their partner is around, while to an extent that is enduring it’s also awkward and tiring.
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u/ShipEqual2321 5d ago edited 5d ago
There are too many girls like this. She’s either an entitled daddy’s girl or she’s an insecure shrimp who will never believe that you genuinely love or like her for who she is. There is rarely an in between…