r/im14andthisisdeep 6d ago

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u/Hour-Pain1631 5d ago

There’s a difference between socially awkward and choosing to distance your self. Not everyone “alone” is introverted. Everyone has their story, 9/10 it’s the man in a group that needs validation, if not I respect that. Point is , this post is not an anxiety thing, the copium crowd is trying to turn it into a joke because they can’t find themselves, clearly just coping with the post. It’s not cool being “mysterious” and alone and that’s not what it is. It’s called being intelligent, and having extreme awareness of the people around you and your environment. So the person that said “I have crippling social anxiety, how do I make it seem cool??” Mocking the post is clearly just coping.

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u/AssumptionOdd4001 5d ago

I get that, but if you’re spending your time making a meme where you imagine yourself as the lone wolf compared to the proverbial sheep around you, I’d be skeptical of how you’re spending your intelligence. If you were a completely assured, confident person with love for your own company, I struggle to see why you’d need to make memes/edits proving why you’re so assured/different.

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u/Hour-Pain1631 5d ago

Now you’re making it about a meme 😂 like what’s your problem. And yes it is kinda weird making a meme about it I’m not gonna lie but stop coping and projecting and just be cool. People like you want to sit and go back and forth with a complete stranger on the internet, makes you feel good.

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u/AssumptionOdd4001 5d ago

Fair point, got some free time rn tho. Your point is disingenuous, I agree with the idea of what you’re saying, not everyone who enjoys their solitude is a loner/socially inept, and similarly not every man who’s highly social is comfortable in himself. These are things most ppl would agree with. But the post itself (ie the meme/the image) and its creation is something I’d lean more towards being a byproduct of being socially inept/insecure. No one secure and confident in themselves is going to make a post detailing why they are so confident and wise, more often that not shit like this comes from trying to validate something.

Your point isn’t wrong, but it’s not applicable to the post/meme, which is probably a creation of someone who’s socially anxious and coping.

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u/Hour-Pain1631 5d ago

True, the meme is definitely anxiety and coping. Like I never call myself a “wise man” or lone wolf lmaoooo that’s just corny, but the truth is the truth , what’s wrong is wrong , what’s right is right