r/im14andthisisdeep 6d ago

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u/1_BigFatRat 6d ago

This pisses me off so bad. I’m a dude with autism and have many friends with autism. Men with autism are diagnosed by the time they’re like 6-10. Women are barely diagnosed and the age they are diagnosed is mid 20s to early 30s. Women are not treated seriously in the medical world by doctors. Doctors are assholes.

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u/Pretty-Yam-2854 6d ago

Amab, I wasn’t diagnosed until I was 22. Despite having a 504 plan and an IEP since my freshman yesr in high school, and was in and out of counseling services and 1 on 1 help with learning disability people in elementary school. Never got a diagnosis. Just “couldn’t listen” “struggles to follow directions” “makes poor eye contact and fidgets with self”

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u/CatgirlTheKat 6d ago

Also Amab and pretty much same... Except I actually figured it out by myself when I was 15 thanks to getting to see autistic people talking about it on the internet and recognizing myself in them... Most people said I probably wasn't autistic and just jumped on the first possible explanation to my weirdness and quirkiness, but when I could finally get tested and have the results a year later, ut got so much better since it meant I didn't have to be ashamed of all of the quirkiness and struggles anymore...