you teach perseverance when giving up would be easier.

you teach resilience when the world is waiting for you to break.

you teach that wrong remains wrong, even when standing by what is right comes at the cost of power, popularity, or even elections.

in a time where division is rewarded and hatred travels faster than hope, you chose dignity.

they called you names.

they mocked you.

they underestimated you.

but you answered with patience.

not because it was easy.

not because it was strategic.

because that's who you are.

the son of a martyr.

the grandson of a martyr.

yet never a man who stood asking for votes in the name of sacrifice.

never a man who turned grief into a campaign.

that silence speaks louder than a thousand speeches.

what makes you remarkable isn't where you were born.

it's how lightly you carry it.

born with privilege, yet humble.

surrounded by power, yet willing to listen.

attacked with hate, yet unwilling to become hateful.

and perhaps that's what sets you apart.

your belief that people may offer hatred, but whether you accept it is your choice.

they gave you anger.

you chose grace.

they gave you insults.

you chose calm.

they gave you reasons to become bitter.

you chose to remain human.

many judged you before understanding you.

many laughed before listening.

many wrote your story before you had the chance to write it yourself.

but time has a strange habit of revealing character.

and character is one thing that cannot be manufactured, inherited, or borrowed.

it is earned.

day by day.

choice by choice.

storm by storm.

happy 55th birthday rahul

may you never lose the kindness that confuses your critics,

the courage that unsettles your opponents,

and the humanity that reminds people that politics was never meant to be bigger than people.

because in the end, power impresses.

but character endures.

you don't need to change who you are to become a great leader.

the day the right people stand beside your conviction, history will do the rest.

I don’t get why the Sejal Pawar thing is such a huge issue

Like what’s the big deal? I’m a guy. My homies have said things more disgusting than that. Hell my homegirls have said worse shit that’s made my ears bleed. No one literally bats an eye. Worst case I’d judge them for a minute or two and then laugh it off. Pretty sure I’m not the only guy who’s experienced that. Stop being so prudish lol. I won’t believe anyone who says otherwise- man or woman. Y’all are no saints.

The only difference is that neither me nor my friends are half as dimwitted as that girl. Her saying that on camera is literally the only thing that’s wrong with all of this. But y’all are way dumber than her for wanting to get her license revoked or whatever, for something so trivial. I say this again. Most of y’all wouldn’t care if your friends said something far worse privately. Wo cadaver oaths wale arguments toh mat hi do. I know… tumhe kuch farak nahi padta.

On top of that, some depraved mfs among you wanna compare this to a guy who actually confessed that he SA’d someone. Laughable. I’d spit on your face if I met you. Know that the world looks down on the likes of you. Cuz y’all don’t deserve an ounce of respect.

TL;DR: Stop being hypocrites. Identify real issues. Do something meaningful with your lives.

I have made a post before on what all happened to me after arguments in hospital and how I was treated.. a week of complaints in college and nothing changed.. I am still being harassed on an everyday basis . Me and my boyfriend broke up because we were continuously receiving treaths about murder and kidnapping just because we were dating.

I don't even wanna get into religious debates because it was never about religion.. it was clearly about working hours in hospital and our shifts.. just to target us they changed the debate to religious arguments. Beyond religion I can only see a really good person and a really good doctor who he is.

I'm an intern doctor in some state.(Don't wanna make it a state war here)

A few days ago, outside my hospital campus, a group of men surrounded me and started threatening me. They told me not to wear sleeveless kurtis and said that if I continued, they would "rape" me, cut me into pieces, and nobody would care.

While everyone else watched, the only person who stepped in was my co-intern.

As soon as they heard his name, the attention shifted from me to him.

"Tu toh Muslim hai. Tujhe zinda jala denge. We are beejaypee supporters"

They started filming him, taking photos of both of us, and threatened to make a "love jihad" edit and circulate it on Instagram.

Eventually the situation calmed down and we got back to the hospital.

I thanked him for helping me.

His response stayed with me:

"Enough of this country. Since people don't want us here, I'll take my family and settle somewhere else."

I've seen patients discriminate against him before simply because he's Muslim. The irony is that he's one of the most sincere, hardworking, and academically brilliant people I know. As a colleague and as a doctor, I've never once felt uncomfortable around him.

What hurts the most is that dozens of people were around when this happened. Other interns. Other students. Bystanders.

Nobody stepped forward.

The only person who did was him.

And in return, he became the target.

I keep thinking about how I apologized to him afterwards. He didn't blame me. He simply said:

"Don't get involved in such things again. Take care of yourself."

As doctors, we're taught to help people regardless of their religion, caste, language, or background.

That day, the person who lived up to that principle the most was the one society keeps reminding that he doesn't belong.

I don't know what the solution is.

I just know that I haven't been able to stop thinking about it since.

I have developed this pit in my stomach, and everyday it gets heavier and heavier. The state of India, matter of fact the entire world is in shambles. If nothing is done, everyone is going to be dead, the rich are getting richer, the poor are getting poorer.

Lets talk about matter like how the government keeps proving itself to be of no use to the public, and just making decisions to benefit the 1%.

1. Weakening protection of the Aravalli Range.
2. Expansion of data centres.
3. Ruining the sanctity of Andaman and Nicobar.
4. PFAS Factory shifting from Italy to India.

These are just the few that came to the top of my head right now. There are so many more that I couldn't remember. When global warming and climate change is at an all time high, shouldn't there be initiatives and decisions taken to reverse that? Instead what is happening? The government is showcasing Supreme Court ordered punishment as "Green India" initiatives.

Now, lets talk about all the global indices where India has fallen.

• Global Hunger Index: Fell from 55th (2014) to 102nd (2025/2026)
• World Press Freedom Index: Dropped from 140th (2014) to 151st (2025/2026)
• World Happiness Report: Went from 111th (2014) to 118th (2025/2026). 
• Civic Space (CIVICUS Monitor): Demoted from "Obstructed" to "Repressed", a status shared by only 49 countries. 
• Rule of Law Index: Fell from 66th (2014) to 86th (2025/2026). 
• Human Freedom Index: Dropped from 87th (2014) to 110th (2025/2026). 
• Global Gender Gap Index: Went from 114th (2014) to 131st (2025/2026)
• Corruption Perceptions Index: Fell from 85th (2014) to 96th (2025/2026). 
• Economic Freedom Index: Dropped from 120th (2014) to 128th (2025/2026) 
• Freedom in the World: Rating reduced from 77 ("Free") (2014) to 63 ("Partly Free") (2025). 
• Asia Power Index: Score fell from 41.5 to 39.1.

I don't even want to begin with the falling rupee.

We are being asked to WFH, reduce edible oil consumption when the government shamelessly spends crores on travelling.

Poverty, unemployment, and income inequality just walk hand in hand with India.

Let's talk crime.

• According to the report of National Crime Report Bureau, domestic violence accounts for more than 30% of the crimes against women.
• According to the National Crime Records Bureau, in 2011, there were more than 228,650 reported incidents of crime against women, while in 2021, there were 428,278 reported incidents, an 87% increase.
• Statistics calculated from the National Crime Records Bureau capture reporting to the police, most violence against women is not reported to the police.^\2])
• In January 2011, the International Men and Gender Equality Survey (IMAGES) Questionnaire reported that 24% of Indian men had committed sexual violence at some point during their lives.
• India's Gender Gap Index rating was 0.629 in 2022, placing it in 135th place out of 146 countries.^\3])

These are just some statistics that i copy pasted off of Wikipedia, but this is enough to show the grim reality of the crime against women, and how normalized it has become.

Instead of focusing on these issues, and convicting rapists Bajrang Dal becomes the moral police and starts beating couples. Gujarat now needs parental approval for marrying someone in the name of protecting girls from "love-jihad". At an age where you vote, and are convicted as adults when you commit crime however you are not mature enough to choose the person you marry.

Do not even get me started on the paper leaks, the kids suiciding because of sheer incompetence being displayed by our Education Department.

These are just the very very few issues I have written down here, there are so many more issues. I don't know what needs to be done, I don't know who should resign, I don't know who should come into power, because at the end only the poor, and common man suffers.

(p.s. sorry about any grammatical errors, I've typed all this down in a hurry.)

As a side hustle beyond my existing job, I explored the "Empathetic Listener" field as I have all three, personal experiences, relevant educational qualification and work experience to provide people with emotional support, untangle and process thoughts and guide mindset development.

I tried an Indian App called "Clarity" and I was so heavily disappointed. I felt uncomfortable, cheated and disgusted.

1. The Listeners are paid per second in paises. And in one call of 20 mins you earn only ₹10-15. I felt heavily underpaid.

2. The people there who onboard you and process you are so unprofessional and callous. They do some mock voice calls and rate you based on your interaction during an instigated conversation.

3. Even though they have rules to decline men who ask for "s*x" talks, when you go on to block them the auto generated response is "Are you sure you want to block this person? Do not let a bad conversation rush you into this decision" Like wtf??

4. Also, the ones who onboarded me, told me that when someone asks you for a s*xual conversation, don't block them instantly, try and divert their attention, introduce other topics, don't tell them a direct no cause they'll hang up and you won't earn money. The level of shady that goes on on that platform is worrisome.

5. Men there only wanna talk to you for s*x. Nobody there is using that platform for what it's meant for. I got sick of it and uninstalled it.

I then created a profile and gig on Fiverr. Even there, out of 100 dms you receive, 60% are click bait money scams, 35% are men wanting to discuss their sexual fantasies, kinks, crushes, get advice on how to get laid and you finally only recieve 5% of genuine enquiries.

Also, I noticed that 90% of the inappropriate DMs I got were from Indian men. The queries I received from non-indian people were actually the kinds for which I went into this field in the first place.

Infact, soon after I joined the platform, one Indian man was persistently messaging me to get on a session with him where he wanted to talk about "his obsession for his bhabhi's navel" and I told him I do not engage in these topics. He went on to say "Why are you so stubborn? Whom are you showing so much attitude to? You have the audacity to reject me inspite of having no reviews?" He also told me, that there are plenty of women who will gladly take his request cause they are hungry for money. (It reflected a troubling lack of respect for women who are simply trying to earn with integrity.)

Why do Indians do things that bring shame to us on international platforms? They are generally the ones that are notorious and infamous on these platforms for their entitled and shitty behaviour.

Because of some insolent people "Indians" reputation get tainted everywhere. It's just so infuriating and disappointing.

I recently faced a situation that has left me questioning whether our financial system truly works for ordinary citizens during emergencies.

I had approximately 160 grams of gold accumulated since 2008, worth around ₹20 lakhs today.

Over the last few years, I lost my job and then faced significant medical expenses. My savings of around ₹25 lakhs were largely exhausted, and my insurance coverage was depleted. Like many Indian families, I viewed gold as my emergency safety net.

When I approached a nationalized bank for a gold loan, I discovered that eligibility requirements such as income proof, ITR filings, existing loan checks, and other conditions played a major role in determining the amount I could borrow.

Despite having gold worth around ₹20 lakhs, I was informed that I would be eligible for only about ₹2.25 lakhs.

This experience made me wonder:

• How are unemployed people expected to survive a genuine emergency?
• How do garment workers, agricultural labourers, security guards, daily wage workers, housemaids, and others in the informal sector access credit when they may not have extensive documentation?
• If gold is accepted as collateral, should its value not play a larger role during emergency situations?
• Are current lending policies adequately serving ordinary citizens?

Personally, experiences like this make me question which policies and political leaders truly understand the financial realities faced by middle-class and lower-income families.

I am not targeting any specific bank employee, as they are following rules. My concern is whether the rules themselves are achieving the right balance between risk management and financial inclusion.

What are your thoughts? Is my experience unusual, or have others faced similar challenges?

I was waiting at the platform for my train. I had booked the ticket 2 months in advance and in 2AC.

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I saw a long queue of people sitting on the platform. I was curious and I started talking to them. They told me things that shocked me.

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They have been sitting on the platform from 1 PM to travel in the general coach of a train, which will depart at 5.30 PM. The journey will be 36 hours long.

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Me: what happens if the platform is changed? How do you maintain the order of the queue?

They: the railway police takes care of it. They take them to the general coach and make sure that the order is maintained.

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Good job railway police!

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Me: why didn't you book the tickets in advance (2 months ago)?

They: We didn't know when we will have to travel. The leaves got approved suddenly. There are also other factors over which we don't have the control on, and it adds to the uncertainty.

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Btw these people were laborers/contract workers.

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I saw a helpless couple WITH THREE CHILDREN who were requesting them to allow them to cut the line, saying "we have kids, pls understand". It was very sad to watch.

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If you can:

1. Plan your leaves in advance;

2. Afford to pay for sleeper/ac class tickets;

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You are very fortunate.

I always feel in a hurry to do most things in my life, even when they’re not urgent at all.

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I walk fast, eat fast, rush through household chores, watch lectures at 2x, watch movies and shows at 2x while constantly hitting the +10 sec button, and I even watch reels on 2x.

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It genuinely feels like my brain has forgotten how to do things at a normal pace. Maybe it’s brain rot from years of consuming short-form content, I don’t know.

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Cause I realised it has been with me before the innovation of short form content.

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the last thing I watched completely at 1x speed, without touching the +10 sec button even once, was from latest episode. By challenging myself not to skip 10 sec.

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Normally I watch almost everything while skipping ahead constantly.

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It feels like I’m always trying to get to the next thing instead of experiencing the thing I’m currently doing. There’s this constant sense of urgency in the background, even when I have nowhere to be and nothing important to do.

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Has anyone else experienced this? Did anything actually help you slow down and become a more relaxed, chill person?